This good good GAL and its just ME

• the Bear

  10 Feb 05, 09:01

  NY, you don't want me to go over and b1tchslap some sense into you...
  
  COURAGE!! dammit, COURAGE!!
• nightyoung

  10 Feb 05, 11:35

  yesterday night at around 12 plus ..i sms her what time to the zoo..
  
  this morning when i woke up.. i was surprised to see 10 missed calls
  
  she called me.. since 9 am in the morning and my phone was put to silent and i couldnt wake up..
  
  she left me a msg.. Pig why you never pick up the phone U
  
  then when i read the msg, i called her immediately.. it was 11.17pm
  
  and i told her i was sleepng.. and i asked her whether i joining them.. they said they leaving and she going to Aunt house.. so its ok..
  
  yesterday.. i was trying to think everything over and.. doze off
  
  
• nightyoung

  10 Feb 05, 12:02

  i called her again.. and she said she was angry with me.. and everytime like this..
  
  i gave her my house no and she said dun know house got ppl or not..
  
  i asked her for movie but she said she want to go back and rest...
  
  omg..
  
  my fault again.....
  
  i have to make her happy...
• RaTtY81

  10 Feb 05, 12:04

  wow tis thread is more den 1 yrs old...
• the Bear

  10 Feb 05, 12:26

  NY, you are lapsing into the "doormat" mode again....
• nightyoung

  10 Feb 05, 12:51

  Hmm.. she sms me asking me where do i go today..
  
  and i called her.. thinking of going dinner.. potluck dinner with her at open space...
  
  thats something we never do before..
  
  then after that....
  
  i will ask her to write new year resolution... and maybe we buried in ground come back one year later??
• icyprincess

  10 Feb 05, 13:00

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  Hmm.. she sms me asking me where do i go today..
  
  and i called her.. thinking of going dinner.. potluck dinner with her at open space...
  
  thats something we never do before..
  
  then after that....
  
  i will ask her to write new year resolution... and maybe we buried in ground come back one year later??

  You think this is some kinda movie? My Sassy Girl???
  
  i.c.y
• nightyoung

  10 Feb 05, 13:14

  Originally posted by icyprincess:

  You think this is some kinda movie? My Sassy Girl???
  
  i.c.y

  sorry.. i didnt catch that show.. but i never tried potluck dinner before.. haha.. can bring some extra food from the chinese new year.. haha
  
  i just want her to be happy and live a better life than last chinese new year
• invigorated

  10 Feb 05, 13:30

  This forum seems so draggy (read soap opera) that it seems to be like the sequel to 'Days of our lives'. Can see that the no. of pple responding to this thread is slowly decreasing...
• Cindyfeh

  10 Feb 05, 13:34

  Originally posted by invigorated:

  This forum seems so draggy (read soap opera) that it seems to be like the sequel to 'Days of our lives'. Can see that the no. of pple responding to this thread is slowly decreasing...

  Perhaps many people are busy at the year end and start of year, thats why less people response to this thread.
  
  Now V day is coming so perhaps more people will response.
  
  By the way, nightyoung, so what is your plan for her on 14th Feb?
• nightyoung

  10 Feb 05, 16:15

  Originally posted by Cindyfeh:

  Perhaps many people are busy at the year end and start of year, thats why less people response to this thread.
  
  Now V day is coming so perhaps more people will response.
  
  By the way, nightyoung, so what is your plan for her on 14th Feb?

  a dinner.. then .. bring her to the tallest building in singapore.. pass her the book of dairy (if i do it).. and at espanade.. if she go out with me..
• nightyoung

  10 Feb 05, 16:15

  i am going crazy again
• Stanley Ho

  10 Feb 05, 17:41

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  i am going crazy again

  this girl is not worth it at all waste of time she is treating you like a spare tyre only . when u got money , alot of girls will Q-up don't worry pal . Btw , aren't you suppose to commit sucide ? You say you want to die last time but now still hanging here ?
• Cindyfeh

  10 Feb 05, 18:18

  Originally posted by nightyoung:

  a dinner.. then .. bring her to the tallest building in singapore.. pass her the book of dairy (if i do it).. and at espanade.. if she go out with me..

  Have you asked her out?
  - Booked the restuarant?
  - Esplanade?
  - Tallest building?
  
  What book of diary?
• the Bear

  10 Feb 05, 18:45

  NY, here's my theory..
  
  the reason why she's not with you, is because she does not want to be with a doormat...
  
  you, are a doormat...
  
  this theory is pretty plausible, isn't it?
• Cindyfeh

  10 Feb 05, 18:58

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  NY, here's my theory..
  
  the reason why she's not with you, is because she does not want to be with a doormat...
  
  you, are a doormat...
  
  this theory is pretty plausible, isn't it?

  What do you mean by doormat?
• the Bear

  10 Feb 05, 19:00

  he's being stepped on, walked over, treated like some kinda spare tyre...
  
  that's being a doormat...
  
  

  Originally posted by Cindyfeh:

  What do you mean by doormat?

• universe

  10 Feb 05, 21:26

  Hi nightyoung, i read the love story in your life...i *claps* because you still can withstand so long..Anyway i skipped in the middle...so currently both for you still are't together? she still got her boyfriend?
  
  Anyway currently i carrying a very emotional baggage...Just broke up not long ago..haiz...I trying to forget her...its hard..really..
• Gackt247

  10 Feb 05, 23:45

  NY.. we are all exasperated.. n at our wits end to help.. but u r not even helping urself.. to the extent tt we feel like giving up home on u.. but still we hang on n give u support every night.. pls.. do show alittle gratitude by proving to us that how efforts in helping hasnt been a total waste.. stop being wussy already n feel sorry for urself.. DO SOMETHING!!!
  
  Haiz..
• Cindyfeh

  11 Feb 05, 00:10

  Originally posted by universe:

  Hi nightyoung, i read the love story in your life...i *claps* because you still can withstand so long..Anyway i skipped in the middle...so currently both for you still are't together? she still got her boyfriend?
  
  Anyway currently i carrying a very emotional baggage...Just broke up not long ago..haiz...I trying to forget her...its hard..really..

  Universe: Sorry to hear that you broke up not long ago. Time will heal and hopefully, you will find a new partner soon.
  
  NY:
  Can you give those of us who are new to your thread some summary and updates of what has happened for the past half a year?
  Examples of updates:
  - As Universe had asked: "She still got boyfriend"?
  - How many times do you meet up with her a month?
  - How often do you talk to her on the phone?
  - What type of presents have you given her in the past 1 year?
  - Does she know that you like her now?
  - How old are you and her?
  - What are you 2 currently doing, working or studying?
  - How many bf (more than 1 month) does she have before?
  - Do you have any platonic female friends (that is around your age)?
• Gackt247

  11 Feb 05, 00:18

  Originally posted by universe:

  Hi nightyoung, i read the love story in your life...i *claps* because you still can withstand so long..Anyway i skipped in the middle...so currently both for you still are't together? she still got her boyfriend?
  
  Anyway currently i carrying a very emotional baggage...Just broke up not long ago..haiz...I trying to forget her...its hard..really..

  uni.. understand how u feel.. take time to think abt ur loss.. but after tt.. dun dwell anymore.. move on.. there's alot more things in life den juz one lost partner.. tt's wat i always tell myself.. it worked.. anyway.. it's also absolutely true tt there's more in life..
  
  may u have the courage to move on asap..
• nightyoung

  11 Feb 05, 01:22

  today..
  Ya.. you know the story of i missing the zoo trip and she called me 10 times and left me an sms this morning...
  
  i called her and wanted to ask her out she she said see first.
  
  at around 12 plus.. she sms me where am i going later...then i replied with you to potluck dinner or a movie..
  
  but she didnt reply whether she was going or not.. i was supposed to go to my grandma house for the chinese new year but i was totally lost.. i just stayed at home and waited for her call..
  
  in the afternoon, 5 plus, she sms me thanks for the phone hor, she going back to rest.. i called back but she didnt answered so i replied jokingly that not its her turn not to answer my call.. and i got anxious and i sms and called her a few times.. all no answers.. i thought she was angry with me.. and i decided to went out..
  
  at shop and save.. i called back her house and her sis pick up the phone.. i asked where's she and she replied sleeping.. and i asked what time she wakes up she said 6 plus..and i asked whether they had dinner or what and she told me her mum will do the cooking.. so i got 4 chicken wings from shop and save and head down to her house..
  
  when i reached her house, she was not happy to see me.. she said i am suich a nuisance.... and opened the door and returned to her seat and ignored me.. i passed the bag of chicken wings to her and she said whats that? and i put it on their dining table..
  
  in less then 30 seconds, i said good bye, and she said "Go .. go. go..." and she locked the door.. i was totally heart broken.. and i left
  
  and i left the place and went to the MRT .. i just wanted to go downtown.. ya.. city hall, esplanade there.... so i went... while i was in the train.. i sms her sayimg that i was sorry about today and we not meet each other again for some time coz i am in deep for her and meanwhile ask her to take care of herself, eat well, sleep well, when go zouk ask her friend (the one i trust) to go with her) so that i dun worry. I also sms her that she was the only gal that i care about and love the most..
  
  she sms me sori and sori for being rude to me..
  and i reply her that its not her fault, its my fault...
  
  at about 7 plus, she gave me a call and i picked up.. her voice was very sweet.. the sweetest tone of voice i ever heard and she asked me what i doing now.. and said nothing.. then she said she have incoming phone and called me later and i said ok..
  
  while i was walking .. and walk to esplanade.. she called me and asked where am i .. again.. she was using her sweetest tone of voice and i replied at esplanade.. she asked me what i am doing there and whether i was alone .. and she explained to me why she was like that in the evening...
  
  i told her i dont blame her coz its not her fault..
  
  and we just wished each other good bye..
  
  while i was writing my new year resolution, she sms me .. a forwarded msg .. that smile.. and i replied her.. and she asked me what i want for the new year.. i didnt tell her coz i was still writing.. and i told her to do the same..
  
  i rest at the espanade and went to the swiss otel hotel.. to check out the prices for vday.. and went off home..
  
  while reaching home, i sms her saying that i was on my way back and finished my new year resolution and i hope she finished her too.. and wish her good night..
  
  i waited and waited and she didnt sms me..
  
  actually... i cant bear to see her again .. how can i not see her tomorrow?
  i dun know..
  
  
• nightyoung

  11 Feb 05, 01:23

  Originally posted by universe:

  Hi nightyoung, i read the love story in your life...i *claps* because you still can withstand so long..Anyway i skipped in the middle...so currently both for you still are't together? she still got her boyfriend?
  
  Anyway currently i carrying a very emotional baggage...Just broke up not long ago..haiz...I trying to forget her...its hard..really..

  tell us more about it!!
• nightyoung

  11 Feb 05, 01:25

  Originally posted by Gackt247:

  NY.. we are all exasperated.. n at our wits end to help.. but u r not even helping urself.. to the extent tt we feel like giving up home on u.. but still we hang on n give u support every night.. pls.. do show alittle gratitude by proving to us that how efforts in helping hasnt been a total waste.. stop being wussy already n feel sorry for urself.. DO SOMETHING!!!
  
  Haiz..

  
• nightyoung

  11 Feb 05, 01:31

  Originally posted by Cindyfeh:
  
  Universe: Sorry to hear that you broke up not long ago. Time will heal and hopefully, you will find a new partner soon.
  
  NY:
  Can you give those of us who are new to your thread some summary and updates of what has happened for the past half a year?
  
  Examples of updates:
  - As Universe had asked: "She still got boyfriend"?
  -> No, they broke off.. its been about 2 weeks
  
  - How many times do you meet up with her a month?
  -> depends, last week was six times .. when she got her bf, its like every week once or twice average..
  
  - How often do you talk to her on the phone?
  -> not often, just some appt with her. we talk more when we see each other
  
  - What type of presents have you given her in the past 1 year?
  -> Gosh.. quite a lot to number...
  
  - Does she know that you like her now?
  -> yes, she did
  
  - How old are you and her?
  -> she's 22, coming to 23 and i am 24, coming 25
  
  - What are you 2 currently doing, working or studying?
  -> ya both working
  
  - How many bf (more than 1 month) does she have before?
  -> two.. if include me its three
  
  - Do you have any platonic female friends (that is around your age)?[/b]
  of coz! my poly friends.. my other aquaintances
  

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