virginity
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do guys still value virginity? would you give up your girlfriend over that? how can you tell if she is still a virgin? can a doctor really see that you are one, or is he merely inspecting your hymen? if hymen can be torn through vigourous sports, what can of sports are we talking about? is it possible that the first time you had sexual intercourse, no blood resulted?
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if the guy loves his girl, does it matter at all?
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It is an infantile superstition of the human spirit that virginity would be thought a virtue and not the barrier that separates ignorance from knowledge.
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think some guys would prefer virgins but normally those guys are not lor. Like what bear said..why bother if you truly love each other.
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What matters most is I love her.
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haha...
gers nowdays are even more open minded than many guys...
so...doesn't really matters..
everyone make mistakes rite?
most importantly she dun sleep with others when she's urs lor -
Is losing one's virginity a mistake?Originally posted by ^MaRcUs^:haha...
gers nowdays are even more open minded than many guys...
so...doesn't really matters..
everyone make mistakes rite?
most importantly she dun sleep with others when she's urs lor -
I believe that would be a classic case of subsituting logic for a famous quote.Originally posted by AzRaeL:It is an infantile superstition of the human spirit that virginity would be thought a virtue and not the barrier that separates ignorance from knowledge.
Voltaire
Observe all the problems caused by an "enlightened" lifestyle and question if this is the knowledge you would rather discover by disregarding this infantile virtue, I'm afraid Voltaire is wrong on this one.
By of course, since you probably also consider empathy a infantile superstition, what do you care? -
An apt topic indeed for your virgin post! but if u really love the girl, why should it matter indeed? Would u be loving her less just because of this?
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don't know.... guys? answer?Originally posted by unwantedgal:do guys still value virginity?would you give up your girlfriend over that?
u mean the gal don't give or the gal oready lost it?how can you tell if she is still a virgin? can a doctor really see that you are one, or is he merely inspecting your hymen? if hymen can be torn through vigourous sports, what can of sports are we talking about?
i think doc check the hymen. lots of sports... like horse riding, bicycle riding, etc, i think even swimming. not too sure. but the hymen is not as fragile as u think lah.is it possible that the first time you had sexual intercourse, no blood resulted?
yes. according to stats (can't remember where i read it), half of the women did not bleed during first intercourse.
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personally i think virginity is some really precious. it applies to both guys and gals. it is the one thing that you can only give away once. treasure it, don't give into temptation and pressure. also also don't pressure your gf/bf into it. don't let one moment of fun cause years of grief.... -
guys want to have fun and want to have free sex as many as possible. So listen up gals, open your legs wide wide, let's enjoy!!
gals want to feel love and want to feel the special attention as much as possible. So listen up guys, open your wide arm and give her a big hug.
So all this cycle are part of dating/relationship game. or else guys or gals would not bother so much about dating. Unless, guys/gals are prepared to get married or divorced more often.
Just a thought, just imagine: a young dating couple had regular sex just like normal marriage couple. The only difference between the couple is a marriage couple have such thing as ROM and divorce whereas dating couple have none. Let assumed having sex with your faithful partner signifies a marriage. Can you imagine the high divorce rate??
Hmmm guys/gals, do you mind to have life partner who is a divorcee for many many times?? or more obscenely, experienced sex with different guys/gals who also may be a divorvee too. Do we see a very cheap moral kind of marriage here? -
well...if the guy really likes the girl,i don't think he will mind...
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losing one's IC is a mistake, losing money is a mistake. Losing VirginityOriginally posted by ditzy:Is losing one's virginity a mistake?
that's fun -
it depends on how u lose itOriginally posted by AzRaeL:Losing Virginity that's fun -
if all girls, except the ugly ones, go out and lose their virginity (any volunteers?), then there'll be no more virgins left.
and then there will be no more virginity debate.
together we can change the world. -
if u are a virgin, u have the right to request for a virgin
if u are not, then u dun have the right to request for a virgin
but then, is it that important? -
Virgin Moblie, sounds familiar?
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I've lost count of the number of times i've had sex.Originally posted by FireIce:if u are a virgin, u have the right to request for a virgin
if u are not, then u dun have the right to request for a virgin
Can i still have ExtraVirgin Olive oil?
EVOO goes sooo good with my salad. -
gal, it's a small matter... trust me
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doesn't really matter to me, but that only applies to girls who don't sleep around, its ok not to be a virgin but not if you're not a virgin coz you slept aroundOriginally posted by unwantedgal:do guys still value virginity? would you give up your girlfriend over that? how can you tell if she is still a virgin? can a doctor really see that you are one, or is he merely inspecting your hymen? if hymen can be torn through vigourous sports, what can of sports are we talking about? is it possible that the first time you had sexual intercourse, no blood resulted?
and i think its possible to have no blood on your first time
btw your nick is disturbing me
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Well, what does non-virginity imply? From the sounds of it, some people assume that if you're not a virgin, that automatically makes you a junkie who's barefoot and pregnant. That is judgemental, closed-minded and, well, just plain dumb. That's the sort of thinking that belongs to a person who does nothing but hides in a shell.
Take each person as an individual - besides, you've got other things to worry about, such as their trustworthiness and how they feel about you, that can have a more real and direct effect on your relationship. -
Whether u r one or izznt should not be the barrier or obstacle as to the "right to request" for a virgin ...Originally posted by FireIce:if u are a virgin, u have the right to request for a virgin
if u are not, then u dun have the right to request for a virgin
but then, is it that important?
The important question is whether u want to live the rest of your life with this chosen gal / guy or not ?
A quote of true luv
- U dun marry someone that u wan to live with,
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whoa! as a new member to this forum, rather amazed to get so many replies so fast! anyway, to the oldbreadstinks who says my nick is disturbing.. haha what is wrong with it? so the general view is that virginity is not that important, more important is the present, the now, the intention and the feelings of the person involved.
ok so another question.. what do you tnk of the guy who wants a virgin girlfriend? and if you are with the guy, should you let on the fact that you had sex once and it was lost control kind of shit? -
1stOriginally posted by unwantedgal:whoa! as a new member to this forum, rather amazed to get so many replies so fast! anyway, to the oldbreadstinks who says my nick is disturbing.. haha what is wrong with it? so the general view is that virginity is not that important, more important is the present, the now, the intention and the feelings of the person involved.
ok so another question.. what do you tnk of the guy who wants a virgin girlfriend? and if you are with the guy, should you let on the fact that you had sex once and it was lost control kind of shit?
virgin or not virgin, if u love that person, what's there to mind actually?
2nd for guys who want virgin gf, juz to 'hao lian' only.
3rd every1 make mistake... to condemn some1 for some 'mistakes' they commit is unpardonable.
last oldbreadstinks is correct to say ur nick is disturbing.... Why unwanted gal?
If have some problem, u can share wif us if u dun mind. WE R ONE FAMILY HERE. Come out for our gathering n U will find fun n laughter....
Rgds,
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well.....for guys, its like the girlfriend kana being "enjoyed" by other guys b4....so hafta be responsible to "take over". the feeling quite weird lor. its like buying something 2nd hand and haf to pay full price.
if every gal thinks that it doesn't matter as the guy will love dem, i tell you that these gals thinking are wrong. becuz dey dun treasure their virginity, they may face a guy whom would not treasure dem as well....
pay the price to try it!!