Inconsiderate people
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Was taking the MRT back home, leaning at the "unopened" door. 2 punk-wannabes entered, I was sleeping. When I reached my stop, I stood straight up, realising 1 of the punks' arm is blocking my way(he was holding on to a standing pole). I assume he knew that I'm alighting, so I gave him some time to regain his balance while holding to the pole until the train stopped and gave way to me. To my surprise he didn't.
I gave a sigh, shakes my head then heads out to another way where he did not cover. On my way out, he yelled, "Cannot say excuse me ah?", I was like, WTF!?!?
We exchanged looks, then I alighted, but was really tempted to confront him in his face. We exhange looks again when the door close and I was taking the esculator.
I was thinking, am I in the wrong?? Why am I so angry over such a small case? This incident bothered me the whole night. I seek yours council and advise. -
Tat guy must be having his PMS...so forgive him...
COOL MAN
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wooooa .. bang the punk's head against the door ..
seriously speaking , quite hard to comment but maybe u juz woke up and so blur blur and that guy always day dreaming and when he realised that u r there , waiting for him to give way , u have decided to move in another driection ?
anyway small thing lah , we take mrt everyday so quite common to meet ppl who r rude .. no point staying angry at them ..
cheerio
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Small thing lah. Dun bother so much.
Make lurve, not friends. -
wow...make lurve...make love...Originally posted by ditzy:Small thing lah. Dun bother so much.
Make lurve, not friends. -
Thanks guys.
Itz a good thing they only met me now... not 6 years ago, I won't be tat tolerant. Been learning to control my temper for many years, doesn't seemed very successful,still gets angry once in a while. Psychological illness perhaps?? -
haha .. my temper also very bad .. but lose it at things that i think is worth losing temper at .. eg sgGirls.com .. woalaoeezzz , damn slow leh .. heehee ..
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i would shoot back "hao gou bu dang lu"
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i wonder why singapore got this kind of pple living sia.......haiz.....mostly becoz of those kind of RUBBISH pple that those normal citizens are suffering.......
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slap him left right centre up down....
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it takes two hands to clap.
mabbe u wanna consider wat u might do differently if tt situation was replayed? -
If given the situation. I'll just walk away, go home, get online, go to www.sgforums.com, go to the 'Bar' forum, post a new topic 'Inconsiderate people', and wait for replies to come in.
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I think i will stuff his mouth with my deadly nasi leamk that make Goh CT and LKY go to toilet at least 10 times .
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You should say " Na Bei Chee Bye! "
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ignore him... y waste ur time with ppl like him?
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You did the right thing by staying calm and walking away. We are all chinese after all, one big happy family. Live and let live hor?Originally posted by Boo777:Was taking the MRT back home, leaning at the "unopened" door. 2 punk-wannabes entered, I was sleeping. When I reached my stop, I stood straight up, realising 1 of the punks' arm is blocking my way(he was holding on to a standing pole). I assume he knew that I'm alighting, so I gave him some time to regain his balance while holding to the pole until the train stopped and gave way to me. To my surprise he didn't.
I gave a sigh, shakes my head then heads out to another way where he did not cover. On my way out, he yelled, "Cannot say excuse me ah?", I was like, WTF!?!?
We exchanged looks, then I alighted, but was really tempted to confront him in his face. We exhange looks again when the door close and I was taking the esculator.
I was thinking, am I in the wrong?? Why am I so angry over such a small case? This incident bothered me the whole night. I seek yours council and advise.
But if he was an angmo or something, the only way to deal with them is to treat them the way they treated you. If that doesnt work, just beat the shit out of them. -
SmallPanda, all high and mighty.Originally posted by SmallPanda:You did the right thing by staying calm and walking away. We are all chinese after all, one big happy family. Live and let live hor?
But if he was an angmo or something, the only way to deal with them is to treat them the way they treated you. If that doesnt work, just beat the shit out of them. -
hm......Originally posted by SmallPanda:You did the right thing by staying calm and walking away. We are all chinese after all, one big happy family. Live and let live hor?
But if he was an angmo or something, the only way to deal with them is to treat them the way they treated you. If that doesnt work, just beat the shit out of them.
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They are malays by the way. 1 fat 1 thin, like Jack and Moses. When they yell, "cannot say excuse me ah?", everyone was like looking at me, as if I'm the bad guy. T_T
But hell, please don't let me remember their faces....dun wanna go home with a frown on my face.
Oh... question, wat will you do if you are withdrawing money using ATM and another user stand too close to you? Met this kind of people before, politely told them off, but they like yell back siah, as if they are doing the right thing.
One of them is Uncle(and I tot uncles should be more mature and know what is right wat is wrong) some more, yell as if want to fight like tat, say wanna punch me, I reacted, outstretch my arms, "Come!! I'm standing right here!! Come!!" Then he keep quiet. F, man, I look like a weak cat to these people meh? I'm only smaller build wat. I agree I look a little nerdy with my specs on but this type of attitude, wah liew, I good to eat izzit? -
They are malays by the way. 1 fat 1 thin, like Jack and Moses. When they yell, "cannot say excuse me ah?", everyone was like looking at me, as if I'm the bad guy. T_T
But hell, please don't let me remember their faces....dun wanna go home with a frown on my face.
Oh... question, wat will you do if you are withdrawing money using ATM and another user stand too close to you? Met this kind of people before, politely told them off, but they like yell back siah, as if they are doing the right thing.
One of them is Uncle(and I tot uncles should be more mature and know what is right wat is wrong) some more, yell as if want to fight like tat, say wanna punch me, I reacted, outstretch my arms, "Come!! I'm standing right here!! Come!!" Then he keep quiet. F, man, I look like a weak cat to these people meh? I'm only smaller build wat. I agree I look a little nerdy with my specs on but this type of attitude, wah liew, I good to eat izzit? -
Hehe, good attitude!Originally posted by Boo777:They are malays by the way. 1 fat 1 thin, like Jack and Moses. When they yell, "cannot say excuse me ah?", everyone was like looking at me, as if I'm the bad guy. T_T
But hell, please don't let me remember their faces....dun wanna go home with a frown on my face.
Oh... question, wat will you do if you are withdrawing money using ATM and another user stand too close to you? Met this kind of people before, politely told them off, but they like yell back siah, as if they are doing the right thing.
One of them is Uncle(and I tot uncles should be more mature and know what is right wat is wrong) some more, yell as if want to fight like tat, say wanna punch me, I reacted, outstretch my arms, "Come!! I'm standing right here!! Come!!" Then he keep quiet. F, man, I look like a weak cat to these people meh? I'm only smaller build wat. I agree I look a little nerdy with my specs on but this type of attitude, wah liew, I good to eat izzit?
If you are lucky enough to be tall as well as an aggressive but cool attitude you shouldnt have any problems at all.
Whenever i am in a confrontation like that i just stand tall, towering over them, invading their space, face to face..........with a mean, dominating face but also a cool smile (James Bond look) and firmly say, "Do we have a problem here?" and keep on walking towards them, not giving them any space. It always works! They always back away.
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i would have said excuse me
what i find annoying is ppl who are boarding the train, crowding at the door, so much that ppl who wants to get out, can't get out.. now not so bad. but there are some old age ah ma damn kiasu must huddle at the door. so getting out is a pain in the arse..
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oh, u reminded me of another incident.. when u say uncle
dun see uncle old means wise. sometimes they oso damn fukked up attitute one.
one time i was leaning near the mrt door. then at orchard the door closing, then this old, maybe around 50 plus la, uncle rush in last min. keena clamped by the door. then i abit panic, tot he die for sure, i faster push him out. then the mrt door closed and open again. then the uncle came in. then i told him, uncle, next time dun rush in last minute.
immediately he blasted at me. told me to mind my old business, who i think i am, dun think he is old ok. i was abit stunned, then i told him, its not that, just telling u to be careful. he shouted saying mind my own business. at that point i damn pissed. i told him something out of good intention, then get bite back.
so i glared at him, he look at me, then look away and alighted at doubhy ghaut. -
malays mats wat.. what u expect? whole day only know how to make noise and dress like niggers only. ride their motorbike get into an accident and meet their allah.Originally posted by Boo777:They are malays by the way. 1 fat 1 thin, like Jack and Moses. When they yell, "cannot say excuse me ah?", everyone was like looking at me, as if I'm the bad guy. T_T
But hell, please don't let me remember their faces....dun wanna go home with a frown on my face.
Oh... question, wat will you do if you are withdrawing money using ATM and another user stand too close to you? Met this kind of people before, politely told them off, but they like yell back siah, as if they are doing the right thing.
One of them is Uncle(and I tot uncles should be more mature and know what is right wat is wrong) some more, yell as if want to fight like tat, say wanna punch me, I reacted, outstretch my arms, "Come!! I'm standing right here!! Come!!" Then he keep quiet. F, man, I look like a weak cat to these people meh? I'm only smaller build wat. I agree I look a little nerdy with my specs on but this type of attitude, wah liew, I good to eat izzit? -
Originally posted by dumbdumb!:malays mats wat.. what u expect? whole day only know how to make noise and dress like niggers only. ride their motorbike get into an accident and meet their allah.