help? please help? help me?
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I've encountered the problems that u r facing here b4 and the worse thing is that i know both the bf and the gf though i knew the bf longer but they didn't ask me for $$$ just that i feel sad for the gf as no matter who is in the wrong or who fault is it, in the end it's always the gf that is in the loss and suffers the most.
i'm not saying that they should abort or keep the baby as it's not something we can decide for them not even their parents can decide for them as we wont know wat will happen to their future if they accept decision made by friends or parents which isnt the decision that they will made. -
Dude, do you know the girl's opinion of this? What if she actually don't want to abort? Won't that make you feel guilty if you lend?Originally posted by epImetheus:Would you lend $$$$$$$ to your close friend for his girlfriend to have an abortion?
what are the pros & cons of the consequences of doing so & not doing so?
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Its good to stand by your friend when needed but this involves a innocent life....haiz....better not... -
Originally posted by free_eagle:Dude, do you know the girl's opinion of this? What if she actually don't want to abort? Won't that make you feel guilty if you lend?
Its good to stand by your friend when needed but this involves a innocent life....haiz....better not...
He's just lending money to his friend. It's his friend's decision to abort.
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I would convince him, telling him tt abortion is not a right choice.. he shd be a "real" guy and take up the responsibility, he shd pay for wat he has done and played.. also its a sin to abort and the ger will leave in guiltiness for her whole life, and who knows wat if the ger after abortion than cannot give birth anymore? isn't abortion a very cruel method?Originally posted by epImetheus:Would you lend $$$$$$$ to your close friend for his girlfriend to have an abortion?
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Totally agreeable.....Originally posted by Lingzzz:I would convince him, telling him tt abortion is not a right choice.. he shd be a "real" guy and take up the responsibility, he shd pay for wat he has done and played.. also its a sin to abort and the ger will leave in guiltiness for her whole life, and who knows wat if the ger after abortion than cannot give birth anymore? isn't abortion a very cruel method? -
Money, Lend.
Advice him to keep the baby, yes.
Up to him to decide to use the money I lend him or not.
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better lend the money now. if not next time your friend will borrow money from you to buy milk.Originally posted by epImetheus:Would you lend $$$$$$$ to your close friend for his girlfriend to have an abortion?
what are the pros & cons of the consequences of doing so & not doing so?
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He must be taught a lesson and be responsible for all his actions!
Should think of the issue before sex why play with fire?
By lending him money is doing damage to the girl whole life ruined. He must give the girl his commitment now by marrying her.
Originally posted by epImetheus:Would you lend $$$$$$$ to your close friend for his girlfriend to have an abortion?
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if you can afford to lend and let this loan go unreturned, then lend. otherwise don't. and lend the gf, not the guy.Originally posted by epImetheus:Would you lend $$$$$$$ to your close friend for his girlfriend to have an abortion?
what are the pros & cons of the consequences of doing so & not doing so?
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true, true. it must a decision from the couple. whether to keep the baby or not is up to them, and themselves only. if they feel aborting the baby is the best option, then should lend them the money to do it.Originally posted by Coffee_O:I've encountered the problems that u r facing here b4 and the worse thing is that i know both the bf and the gf though i knew the bf longer but they didn't ask me for $$$ just that i feel sad for the gf as no matter who is in the wrong or who fault is it, in the end it's always the gf that is in the loss and suffers the most.
i'm not saying that they should abort or keep the baby as it's not something we can decide for them not even their parents can decide for them as we wont know wat will happen to their future if they accept decision made by friends or parents which isnt the decision that they will made.
either way they are done for. abort the baby, and feel guilty forever. dun abort, life also gone. -
abortation ah.....go KK hospital stay there for bout 4 days lor..use medisave.$500+++ to 700+ depend on wat ward u choose lor....
NUH also bout there price but abit less,also can use medisafe....
if under 21, den go a private at the bukit batok, or the joo chiet lor...cos bout 500+....
cheap ways...but very la sup,i dun recommand but it may work i dunno.take chinese herbs, den kick or punch the lady adoman ,bout 3 inch below te navel...den prepare many many super pads or pampers, cos many the hell blood...see liao also scare 1.
If can dun abort, den DON'T!!!!!!! the lady will pain till hell 1 lah, te doc wil put dunno wat tablet into there, to let the womb contract or dunno wat lar..very painful...if its ur gf tat undergo such torment cum pain & u r beside her to see, i tel u , u 100% sure drops tears, if u never, u better go bang wall liao...
Disclamier: i never ask u to go punch har..i heard it from my friend tat say he tried b4 on his ex, but in the end sure leave each other 1 lar..go hospital better lar...more safe,........ -
sigh ... is that wat happened to your mother? so sad for you, grow up w/o proper care n attention, no wonder so rude n heartlessOriginally posted by Troy Bayliss:Tell your close friend to ditch her and find a new one ha ha ha
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not everyone is like uOriginally posted by Troy Bayliss:Tell your close friend to ditch her and find a new one ha ha ha