Whose fault if a married man has an affair?
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of course the husband is at fault.. but oso hv to see situation.. man oso hv needs mah.. if the wife refuse sex, on purpose or not. thats how things happen. the wife also hv an obligation in that area i feel. in love of course
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Ya....but if U dun believe U can stay faithful and love someone 4ever....then shld not ask someone to marry U ma....
Marriage is no joke...a lifetime commitment.
If one day the person U love suffer illness.....cant have sex, cant even tok 2 U mayb.... U will leave her???
But then again....things R different nowadays i admit. Noone thinks dat way le -
Cos she cant keep her man.. The again it might be both parties at fault..Originally posted by shan_cai:Wats gotta do wif e wife... -
getting married is a serious commitment.
it's not just a 2hr movie.
it's a lifetime commitment. -
man (din keep his promise), wife (can't keep his husband), the person he had affair with (shouldn't have chap one leg/any other parts)
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like al the other questions,this is another 1 which have no definate ans..
basically you got to look at the situation..
e.g1
wife not cooking and doing housework everyday play majong or go shopping,husband got to dine outside alone and after that fetch wife home from her fun time husband like a slave.. therefore go out find someone who can give him some love.- at this time wife is wrong...
e.g2
if wife works,come home after work... still cook,does housework and provides love to husband,but husband still got affair.. bcos 3rd party has better figure/looks than wife..
this is husband wrong...
as for 3rd party,
in both e.g more or less she wil be in the wrong..
e.g she seduce the husband.
she knows his married still agree to have affair..<--- this 1 doesnt matter if the wife is gd to the husband or not..or if the wife has done her duty as a wife.. but once a couple is married.. and as the 3rd party thinks she can provide better love for the husband than his wife..the 3rd party still got to wait for them to legally seperated than she should step in and do what she thinks is right..
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it reali hard to say...that depend....some guy has a gd wife at home but stil 1 2 hav affair then it the guy fault. sometime wife keep on nagging which cannot give her husband a nice warm feeling when coming home from work & wife also did not maintain her appearance since men are still a visual creature. but no matter wat good excuse or whose fault it still wrong to hav affair...
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to give excuses for having an affair outside a marriage is wrong
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