Tat depends on how's e guy's mindset liao...Originally posted by Christy:Does a guy mind if the girl has been molested or raped because she was drunk before?
Of Cos Not.This girl I was interested in told mi she was raped b4. Heck! Didn/t affect how i felt for her. But abit sad for herOriginally posted by Christy:Does a guy mind if the girl has been molested or raped because she was drunk before?
I believe if the guy truly loves the girl, I wouldn't say he minds. He loves the girl for what the girl is, regardless of her past. But he would definitely feel sad for her that such a thing has happened to her before. And I believe emotionally it would affect him too. Still, I believe it's good to be able to share because by sharing, the two can be closer you see.Originally posted by Christy:Does a guy mind if the girl has been molested or raped because she was drunk before?
what's over is over lah...hope she learn her lesson lor. No, I wont mind.Originally posted by Christy:Does a guy mind if the girl has been molested or raped because she was drunk before?
makes no difference if the guy minds. you won't be interested in someone like that anyway.....Originally posted by Christy:Does a guy mind if the girl has been molested or raped because she was drunk before?

I don't think a guy should mind it cos everyone has their past. What is important is the present and not the past. And I for one, sincerely do not mind this at all.Originally posted by Christy:Does a guy mind if the girl has been molested or raped because she was drunk before?
i dun think the guy will mind if he realli love her,he may not able to accept the fact at first but he will later he realli love herOriginally posted by Christy:Does a guy mind if the girl has been molested or raped because she was drunk before?
i mind... in the first place, girls shud respect themselves and not to get drunk until they get themselves concussed!Originally posted by Christy:Does a guy mind if the girl has been molested or raped because she was drunk before?
I agree. Telling your bf such a personal thing takes a lot of courage on the part of the girl.Originally posted by vx2132:the girl must have deliberated for some time, on whether to tell this unfortunate event to others..it is definitely not easy.
and if she pluck up enuf courage to tell it to this guy, she must have like him enuf..and willing to take the risk of being rejected etc..
Agreed x2 on the jerk thingOriginally posted by SumOne:I believe if the guy truly loves the girl, I wouldn't say he minds. He loves the girl for what the girl is, regardless of her past. But he would definitely feel sad for her that such a thing has happened to her before. And I believe emotionally it would affect him too. Still, I believe it's good to be able to share because by sharing, the two can be closer you see.
But if the guy is so shallow as to dislike a girl for having such a past, then bloody hell the guy should be ditched. Who cares about such a jerk.
i will appreciate & love her even more for all the pain she has gone thruOriginally posted by Christy:Does a guy mind if the girl has been molested or raped because she was drunk before?
x3Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):Agreed x2 on the jerk thing![]()
but for mi.. it also depend on why is she drunk and rape;
1) she go out with bastard frens, knowing that her frens may do something to her but she heck care and still got drunk or go flirt with her frens wearing little cloth = then yes i will mind.
2)if she was molested or rape in a situation that no one can prevent or think that will happened.. e.g some stupid guy just followed her and rape her at some dark corner or staircase= then i wont mind