Does a guy mind if the girl........
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I have a question to the guys, would it be better if she did'nt tell you she was raped? Some guys would definitely get worried and want her to go for a checkup...
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huh?Originally posted by :I have a question to the guys, would it be better if she did'nt tell you she was raped? Some guys would definitely get worried and want her to go for a checkup...
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Personally, I would prefer if she told me rather then hide it...Originally posted by :I have a question to the guys, would it be better if she did'nt tell you she was raped? Some guys would definitely get worried and want her to go for a checkup...
What's the past is the past and it's not the girl's fault that she's raped. -
if guys words can be believed.. there wont be so many heartaches cases on being dumped after telling him...
i read two forums posted in the bar, one is this current thread, one posted by chilicrab saying can you accept if your partner has more than 10 sexual partners...
ratio... ppl actually mind more she get drunk being rape than she having more than 10 partners becos of love (hoping tt he wld be the right one).
kaoz... isnt it about the same damn thing? but diff speeches... oh come on... who wont mind? if i am a guy? -
i wun mind....i'm sure of it
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Depend on the girls character....i mean You should know..
If she's a nice gal with gd character.....been raped is not her fault U see....
So loving someone is to care about the future of the 2 person 2gether....past means nothing....future is more impt....
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if it is my love 1, i dun mind... becos i love her heart, not other things.. as long as i am with her i will feel happy..
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raped...
chey...nowadays sex is just part-and-parcel of many couples... even if they dun see future forever together, some still engaged in sexual activities...
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sgboy2004, the Good Boi
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Thanks for all the feedback. I think guys normally do mind. Sometimes after finding out this from the girl, the guy even beds the girl for fun and then dumps her.
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of course u would want ur love 1 to be pure and urs... for me, if the girl is not virgin liao, i will ask her if she is serious with me.. cos some girls after losing it, treat relationship not v serious.. if she is serious, i will accept it..
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a guy who minds is not a good guy in the first place.
a guy who is only looking for sex is an asshole.
there are guys out there who are genuine and would love the gal for all she is - past, present and future. they are rare but when found is a gem..
all the best to you Christy... may you find your gem
Originally posted by Christy:Thanks for all the feedback. I think guys normally do mind. Sometimes after finding out this from the girl, the guy even beds the girl for fun and then dumps her. -
hi christy...remember mi?Originally posted by Christy:Thanks for all the feedback. I think guys normally do mind. Sometimes after finding out this from the girl, the guy even beds the girl for fun and then dumps her.
long time no c u liao....how r u
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sgboy2004, the Good Boi
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Hmmm... does a girl mind that a guy had been raped before??
Have it ever cross your mind??
It does happen... perhaps it's sodomized?? -
Over a piece of tissue called the hymen? I don't think so. For health reasons, maybe. A checkup should suffice as u wouldn't want ur kids to be looking "funny" next time.
It's not her choice to be raped. Dumping her during that time is like rubbing salt onto her wounds. Do u want her or her body? That would tell u how serious the chap is. -
If that's the case, those guys are shallow or still young.....n thus, ain't worth ur love too.Originally posted by Christy:Thanks for all the feedback. I think guys normally do mind. Sometimes after finding out this from the girl, the guy even beds the girl for fun and then dumps her. -
But nowadays, many girls kept falling for the same tricks over and ove again.
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Then we really got to analyse of the girls are 'really falling' into the tricks over and over or 'they fall for' the tricks over and over again.Originally posted by Christy:But nowadays, many girls kept falling for the same tricks over and ove again. -
Bravo! My sentiments exactly!Originally posted by the_don:a guy who minds is not a good guy in the first place.
a guy who is only looking for sex is an asshole.
there are guys out there who are genuine and would love the gal for all she is - past, present and future. they are rare but when found is a gem..
all the best to you Christy... may you find your gem -
Guys Should'nt mind
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Dis is a rather sensitive topic... not all can accept such cruel facts. Very sad.Originally posted by Christy:Does a guy mind if the girl has been molested or raped because she was drunk before? -
those guys who said dun mind pls submit ur gals to me....hehe......i'll return them to u after i service their " hole ".
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I think all guys will mind about it if they really loves the girl. But how they do their own internal struggle inside their heart and don't express it out to the girl is their own achievements. I salute them and wish them all the best together.Originally posted by Christy:Does a guy mind if the girl has been molested or raped because she was drunk before?
Anyway, if got no quarrel between the guy and the girl then I think the guy will not mind. But I think once got quarrel as it will happens as all couples in the world quarrels quite often, so it is just a matter of time that the guy buay tahan it anymore and burted it out...or the girl when upset during quarrelling will use it as her trump card to make the guy feel guilty or sorry for her.
So how deep is your tolerance level? And how good you are in preventing a quarrel? Quarrel between couples is inevitable, and both guy and girl should discuss about it and prevent that 'rape/molest/drunk' situation from popping up from either one's mouth during quarrelling. I think it should be fine then.
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how abt put it this way that this guy luvs this girl a lot at starting and than as times goes by they in love more deeper and deeper and they engage in sexual activity offenly lets say every 2 or three days.................
Than the guy went to serve the Army....than some how got to depression and did not care abt his gf ..... than the gf break up with him.........would u all the later guy mind if she being F**k a lots of time?????
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Have come across lots of guys who gave such excuse to girls on the reason of breakup.Originally posted by JAZZYFLAMES{}>>>>>>>>>: how abt put it this way that this guy luvs this girl a lot at starting and than as times goes by they in love more deeper and deeper and they engage in sexual activity offenly lets say every 2 or three days.................
Than the guy went to serve the Army....than some how got to depression and did not care abt his gf ..... than the gf break up with him.........would u all the later guy mind if she being F**k a lots of time?????