Gentleman?
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Girls.. tell us what u expect us guys to do in order to be a gentleman? like open door for u? carry handbag?
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open door yes.......
holding door yes....
carry handbag?.....no need.....i carry myself..... -
me last time used to carry handbags n all her stuff when i went out with my gf.. but she seems not very happy leh.. she said if i keep carrying her things, ppl will tink i got a gf with no hands... hmmm... i dun understand wat's wrong...
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duncha think a da nan ren carry a zaboh handbag bery the wat meh.....................................Originally posted by red_tide24:me last time used to carry handbags n all her stuff when i went out with my gf.. but she seems not very happy leh.. she said if i keep carrying her things, ppl will tink i got a gf with no hands... hmmm... i dun understand wat's wrong...
tts why i dun let bf carry my handbag.....shopping bags are ok...... -
but her handbag quite heavy leh.. if i dun help her carry skally she angry how?
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then she aint very understanding.
help to carry heavy bag's ok. but those small handbag no need lar. big girl liao, can carry her own bag. -
tell her it's handbag.....not sch bag.....dun put many things inside........Originally posted by red_tide24:but her handbag quite heavy leh.. if i dun help her carry skally she angry how? -
U offer ur help.....if she dun want then nvm la.
As long as U got offer she will appreciate it la.
Heavy things of coz try help her...but she die die dun wnt then dun force her lohz. -
when walkin on pavements, always volunteer to walk on the side closer to the road....
then on the bus, always volunteer to sit outside... -
whenever i bring a haversack usually my bf would take it cos i tend to dump things in der.. esp when i'm wearing skirt cos he feels that wear skirt carry haversack not nice.. so usually i obliged...
but if i carry sling bad or hand held bags, i'll carry myself.. -
Always wanted to carry handbag for gf but she didn't want it. Cos she think guys carrying handbag looked like ah guai. But i helped her to carry heavy stuff, open and close car doors for her, pull the chair for her whenever we go dinning.Originally posted by red_tide24:me last time used to carry handbags n all her stuff when i went out with my gf.. but she seems not very happy leh.. she said if i keep carrying her things, ppl will tink i got a gf with no hands... hmmm... i dun understand wat's wrong...
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opening doors for anyone would be considered gentleman. Car doors and stuff I would do it, if I want to, and not because I have to.
If the bloke and the girlie are in a hurry for whatever reason, I think there is no need for opening of doors. Im sure she would understand.
Opening doors, shouldnt be just for the gfs or the mrs, say in shopping centres and malls! That I wish it happens more here. I find it downright rude, when I get doors slammed into my face, why cant they just hold it open until i get my hand onto the door.
Sometimes, I wonder if its really worth doing, when I hold the door open for folks behind me. I get some nice ones, who would reach out and hold the door, and say thanks. But that happens, sadly, only very rarely. I get those who just breeze through, without a thanks, as if it was an automatic door.
Carrying the girlies bag?
Have you realised that that only happens to the Chinese? I hope i dont start a race war here. But it seems that the Chinese girls, are ok to see their guys looking like poofs, carrying girlie bags, and not considering that he might be being rediculed at? It seems the case of :"As long as I comfortable, I dont care what people think"? Actually, I would apply that to wearing G strings/thongs as well. VPLs only seen on chinese girlies, well mosty. They dont care if its an eye sore. Think about it. sorry i digress.
I think if its shopping bags and stuff its ok, but im not carrying blardy LV bags for anyone. And I dont think the non-chinese girls would even think about it. They like their men to behave like men. -
Can a guy make a comment here??Originally posted by red_tide24:Girls.. tell us what u expect us guys to do in order to be a gentleman? like open door for u? carry handbag?
Ai yoo, u juz let her carry her handbag and the other shopping bags or wat, u carry lah... -
keke...maybe its a case of chinese men being poofsOriginally posted by Mr Brown:opening doors for anyone would be considered gentleman. Car doors and stuff I would do it, if I want to, and not because I have to.
If the bloke and the girlie are in a hurry for whatever reason, I think there is no need for opening of doors. Im sure she would understand.
Opening doors, shouldnt be just for the gfs or the mrs, say in shopping centres and malls! That I wish it happens more here. I find it downright rude, when I get doors slammed into my face, why cant they just hold it open until i get my hand onto the door.
Sometimes, I wonder if its really worth doing, when I hold the door open for folks behind me. I get some nice ones, who would reach out and hold the door, and say thanks. But that happens, sadly, only very rarely. I get those who just breeze through, without a thanks, as if it was an automatic door.
Carrying the girlies bag?
Have you realised that that only happens to the Chinese? I hope i dont start a race war here. But it seems that the Chinese girls, are ok to see their guys looking like poofs, carrying girlie bags, and not considering that he might be being rediculed at? It seems the case of :"As long as I comfortable, I dont care what people think"? Actually, I would apply that to wearing G strings/thongs as well. VPLs only seen on chinese girlies, well mosty. They dont care if its an eye sore. Think about it. sorry i digress.
I think if its shopping bags and stuff its ok, but im not carrying blardy LV bags for anyone. And I dont think the non-chinese girls would even think about it. They like their men to behave like men. -
Help her carry her WALLET.
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i thought most gals dun like their bf to carry their handbags?
and most guys dont like to do tt too. -
Well I would think so, chinese girls like their guys to look soft , tight shirts, squeaky clean, porcelain like, skinny legs. They are already lacking in facial and body hair, non-broad shouldered, smaller size.
And we're not talking about metrosexuals. I see these blokes in places and the way they talk to them, abit too "sayang sayang" / mushy for my liking. But it seems that the chinese girlies seem to get a kick out of it. And they do not have any issues on their BFs carrying their hand bags. -
NEVER try to understand a woman!Originally posted by red_tide24:me last time used to carry handbags n all her stuff when i went out with my gf.. but she seems not very happy leh.. she said if i keep carrying her things, ppl will tink i got a gf with no hands... hmmm... i dun understand wat's wrong...
If you help them carry their things, they might say as what is above. BUT
if you don't, they say you are not gnetleman!
Poor man! How to woo girls if they are so unpredictable? -
i'll offer to keep her $$$...Originally posted by Devil1976:Help her carry her WALLET. -
Originally posted by red_tide24:Girls.. tell us what u expect us guys to do in order to be a gentleman? like open door for u? carry handbag?
Singaporean Women and the 5 Cs
What you'll never hear Singaporean women
say to their boyfriends or husbands in this day and age:
Honey, I don't care what you do for a living, you can be labourer for all I care, what matters is that I love you!! I don't care about money! As long as we're together, everything will work out fine; love will see us through! When we get married, I'll be the best cook and we'll have lots of kids! Aiyoooo! This Ang Mor fellow at the office try to chase after me you know! I told him I already got a boyfriend!! So disgusting! I damn scared of Ang Mor, eekkk! So big size and hairy like a gorilla!! Don't worry about these things like a big house and a car, as long as I have you, I'll be the happiest girl on earth!
I t's OK, we'll use the money from my personal savings account - my money is your money! Please put away your wallet dear, since you still haven't got a job after being retrenched, I'll pay for dinner. Please don't feel bad about this. Aiyah, why you always want to take me to restaurant to eat! Let's save money and eat at the hawker center instead lah! Alamak, please lah, we can take the MRT home, no need to call a taxi! Your mother can move in with us, darling. We all have to make sacrifices as a family.
From talking cock website. -
umm, i dun think girls should expect us to do these & more for them .... it's expected for us to do so! We as gents should automatically do these for them whether or not they expect us to. Helping them with their bags, opening doors etc etc .... unless they insist otherwise, we should continue doing so.Originally posted by red_tide24:Girls.. tell us what u expect us guys to do in order to be a gentleman? like open door for u? carry handbag?
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I would think it is up to the person to decide for him/herself what he/she wants to do for others.Originally posted by True_Xerion:umm, i dun think girls should expect us to do these & more for them .... it's expected for us to do so! We as gents should automatically do these for them whether or not they expect us to. Helping them with their bags, opening doors etc etc .... unless they insist otherwise, we should continue doing so.
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As for me, I have stopped offering to hold open doors or carry bags for women, probably because they have never offered to do it for me or even said thank you.
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those mummy's-boy, squeaky clean, and small built guys certainly dont appeal to me.. i wont want people to think i'm ill treating my bf nor let them feel that i'm out with my brother.. ew.. that's totally.. ew.. where did you get that idea that chinese girls like those type of guys?! that's such an insult..Originally posted by Mr Brown:Well I would think so, chinese girls like their guys to look soft , tight shirts, squeaky clean, porcelain like, skinny legs. They are already lacking in facial and body hair, non-broad shouldered, smaller size.
And we're not talking about metrosexuals. I see these blokes in places and the way they talk to them, abit too "sayang sayang" / mushy for my liking. But it seems that the chinese girlies seem to get a kick out of it. And they do not have any issues on their BFs carrying their hand bags. -
Why worried so much juz piggy-back ur gf then dun need to think carry her handbag or wallet or watever.
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Originally posted by SmallPanda:
ummm, ...you expect a lady to offer to carry your bags for you? Hmm maybe if you both go grocery shopping and she offers to carry some of the bags with you, it's a different matter - but carry your bag for you? OMG!
I would think it is up to the person to decide for him/herself what he/she wants to do for others.
As for me, I have stopped offering to hold open doors or carry bags for women, probably because they have never offered to do it for me or even said thank you.
As for thanks, plz do bear in mind that when you offer to do so, it's an act of gallantry; not a favor or in response to a help request, thus no thanks are in order.
Sigh, no wonder the reputation of gents has been going downhill of late
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