Guys, ever had sex with a female friend who is not GF?

• Muse

  20 Apr 04, 15:47

  hi
  
  Just curious as to whether people are as casual as some people tell me.
  
  Any stories?
  
  Guess this (the BAR) is the right place to ask.
  
  Muse
• FireIce

  20 Apr 04, 15:49

  wat kinda concrete conclusion can u draw from the crowd in sgforums which oni represent a mere percent of the whole population?
• Gloria Estefan

  20 Apr 04, 16:06

  Originally posted by Muse:

  hi
  
  Just curious as to whether people are as casual as some people tell me.
  
  Any stories?
  
  Guess this (the BAR) is the right place to ask.
  
  Muse

  why not i bet all guys sure have sex if the pretty girl strip naked in front of him.it happens all the time after they satisfy themselves then they will think of gf or wife
• FireIce

  20 Apr 04, 16:07

  Originally posted by Gloria Estefan:

  why not i bet all guys sure have sex if the pretty girl strip naked in front of him.it happens all the time after they satisfy themselves then they will think of gf or wife

  dun say all lah......eerr.......some........
  
  hai........sad sad......letting their dicks rule their head............
• jOhO

  20 Apr 04, 16:11

  Originally posted by Gloria Estefan:

  why not i bet all guys sure have sex if the pretty girl strip naked in front of him.it happens all the time after they satisfy themselves then they will think of gf or wife

  if u're female, then make sure u're a perfect angel. such generalisations deserved to be stoned.
  
  if u're male, pls refrain from dissing your own kind. if you're like that, not everyone is.
  
  now let's address ur statement literally.
  
  if a female strips in front of me and demands to be fu-cked i will be disgusted. perhaps u are really female; i'll let u in on something. guys to some extent, like a challenge. they like the pseudo resistance of a female, and like putting in effort to attaining what some refer to as forbidden fruit. this can happen in a perfectly loving relationship too. by the same token, women loved to be slightly coerced, encouraged, wooed, flirted with, b4 commiting the act.
• foga

  20 Apr 04, 16:43

  men, in general, are visual creatures.
  we could get turned on by wat we see, which are of course they have to have the certain 'x-factor' to it. haiz.... sometimes really can't help too. self control bah.
  
  

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  dun say all lah......eerr.......some........
  
  hai........sad sad......letting their dicks rule their head............

• Muse

  20 Apr 04, 16:53

  well the key crux of my question is having a friend (guy) bedding another friend (girl).
  
  This is not like usual casual sex and one night stands. These guys and girls have a friendship prior to the encounter and ..er .. remain as friends after that.
• xking

  20 Apr 04, 16:56

  Originally posted by Gloria Estefan:

  why not i bet all guys sure have sex if the pretty girl strip naked in front of him.it happens all the time after they satisfy themselves then they will think of gf or wife

  such things never really happen in real life anyW...unless we R David Beckham.... Pretty gals won't just strip naked in front of us for nothing.....
• foga

  20 Apr 04, 17:01

  in response to your question, i'm jus curious how u define casual sex? is it, allow me to paraphrase, having sex with a female friend whose not your GF, on a frequent basis or more than once->planned?
  
  

  Originally posted by Muse:

  well the key crux of my question is having a friend (guy) bedding another friend (girl).
  
  This is not like usual casual sex and one night stands. These guys and girls have a friendship prior to the encounter and ..er .. remain as friends after that.

• Devil1976

  20 Apr 04, 17:03

  Originally posted by Muse:

  well the key crux of my question is having a friend (guy) bedding another friend (girl).
  
  This is not like usual casual sex and one night stands. These guys and girls have a friendship prior to the encounter and ..er .. remain as friends after that.

  Yes.
  
  Story? No...
• bo liao

  20 Apr 04, 18:04

  Mayb sometime can say is te right time lor...lik i in chalet wid female friend, also never bed her....self respect for urself & her mah...
  
  some time is jus lust too much in guys head..depends lar...
  i got once bed friend cos we drunk....but in te end steady wid her cos hv to be responsible mah..of cos if te female wan lah...tis type of thing cannot force 1..got to be willing...
  
  or depend situation..if te female come to a guy home, they play tickaling..(this sound femilear rite????right) den suddenly the guy grab hole of the female both hands den look at the female eyes...den start lor...
  
  or...the female jus out of a relationship,ask te guy mayb to gv her a hug out of comforting her...den also can happen mah.....
• cheeZ

  20 Apr 04, 18:06

  enCouragiNg tHe spRead of STDs
  
• FireIce

  20 Apr 04, 18:10

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  if a female strips in front of me and demands to be fu-cked i will be disgusted.

  yeah man......sleeping with such cheap woman will oni cheapen urself.....
• WoShiNoobie

  20 Apr 04, 18:22

  orgy counted?
• m@Rki

  20 Apr 04, 18:38

  Originally posted by Muse:

  hi
  
  Just curious as to whether people are as casual as some people tell me.
  
  Any stories?
  
  Guess this (the BAR) is the right place to ask.
  
  Muse

  i guess you heard wrong.. there is a silent majority who are definetely not into casual sex..
• Saint`

  21 Apr 04, 00:05

  nv had the chance ... almost la ..
• DevilAngel77

  21 Apr 04, 00:18

  nope..
  respect ur frns, respect urself..
• DarrenWong

  21 Apr 04, 18:08

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  if u're female, then make sure u're a perfect angel. such generalisations deserved to be stoned.
  
  if u're male, pls refrain from dissing your own kind. if you're like that, not everyone is.
  
  now let's address ur statement literally.
  
  if a female strips in front of me and demands to be fu-cked i will be disgusted. perhaps u are really female; i'll let u in on something. guys to some extent, like a challenge. they like the pseudo resistance of a female, and like putting in effort to attaining what some refer to as forbidden fruit. this can happen in a perfectly loving relationship too. by the same token, women loved to be slightly coerced, encouraged, wooed, flirted with, b4 commiting the act.

  OMFG i juz dun believe this is coming out from YOU!!!
• free_eagle

  21 Apr 04, 21:45

  This kinda things happen all the time... But who will come out and share? Difficult lah
• Parka

  21 Apr 04, 22:51

  
• SumOne

  21 Apr 04, 23:43

  Originally posted by WoShiNoobie:

  orgy counted?

  You mean you were in one?
• SumOne

  21 Apr 04, 23:56

  Originally posted by Muse:

  hi
  
  Just curious as to whether people are as casual as some people tell me.
  
  Any stories?
  
  Guess this (the BAR) is the right place to ask.
  
  Muse

  Saw a book about this before, it was titled platonic sex. Never read it though. Maybe you might want to go look for it.
  
  Actually, this kind of things do happen. Two friends, one guy, one girl, who already know each other, suddenly have sex. It's not that the girl suddenly strip naked infront of the guy or anything, sometimes it just happens. On a dark stormy night, one guy and girl in the room, then things happen. Sometimes it's not even about anybody seducing anybody, it just happens. Spontanous combustion of passion?
  
  Haven't actually done 'it' with any of my friends, but there have been times where I engage in petting with my female friend. Still friends after that but will feel kind of awkward after that. Best it's not somebody you see often.
• Origami

  22 Apr 04, 00:57

  Sometimes it's not wat we expected. Ok I'll be the 1st to share.
  
  I did have one experience. Was a friend of mine n we're still friends. Wat actually happened was kinda like agreed between us. We knew each other for some time n I guess she kinda wanted to do it wif me for sometime also. So one day we just met up for supper n after that we had a chat. Then one topic led to another n soon we were discussing about ONS n we were both kinda horny. In the end we just did it at a hotel n it was a little awkward after I sent her home cos she wasn't my gf. Dunno to hug her or kiss her. But now we just both laugh about it but we nvr tot of doing it again.
  
  PS. Back then we were both single n in our early twenties. Too curious for our own good.
• boy in blues

  22 Apr 04, 02:42

  Originally posted by DarrenWong:

  OMFG i juz dun believe this is coming out from YOU!!!

  let's put it this way. would you prefer to see a nude playboy model or a girl dressing conservatively but accidentally 'zao-gen'?
• `wAwA`

  22 Apr 04, 03:01

  My bf did that.. And i did that..
  
  Me kinda regret it..