Guys, ever had sex with a female friend who is not GF?
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If u are already attached, I think that constitutes betrayal.
Anyway, the fact that why some ppl do that is coz u are extremely comfortable with e person to begin with, not so much of guys being horny. (Not all guys juz screw any naked gal k) As such there is a certain degree of emotional bonding when u do it and that I think makes the sex even better -
Oi not all guys are like that ok ??Originally posted by Gloria Estefan:why not i bet all guys sure have sex if the pretty girl strip naked in front of him.it happens all the time after they satisfy themselves then they will think of gf or wife
I very fateful one........I'm very fateful to FireIce one ok.....
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Can i be your friend ??Originally posted by `wAwA`:My bf did that.. And i did that..
Me kinda regret it..
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hmmmm dun say like lei the girl already feels hurt would not like to be hurt again........Originally posted by Coffee_O:Can i be your friend ?? -
............................Originally posted by Coffee_O:Can i be your friend ?? 
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thanks.Originally posted by JAZZYFLAMES{}>>>>>>>>>:hmmmm dun say like lei the girl already feels hurt would not like to be hurt again........
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wAwA
care to elaborate? what actually happened?
What makes a girl want to do that?
My thread is prompted by a few circumstances i experienced:
Once in Uni i liked a girl very much. She was very chio. i thought she liked me too. There was this close friend of hers, a guy who always hung around her. this guy was not her BF. But of course must be after her lah or else where got so free.
i was very shy but i did try to get to know her better. there were a couple of dates. we seemed to share enough things and common interest. then during university holidays she went backpacking... alone with that guy.
i was shattered. not knowing what to do during those few weeks.
i asked my close friends, male and female. They told me to forget it.
That she's GONE. i said what do you mean and then they told me of the possibility that some girls (decent ones) actually sleep with their guy friends firstly out of curiousity then maybe lust.
The sex however brings them closer such that difficult for other guys to get closer to her emotionally.
but i said. that guy is not her BF, even she told me so.
But somehow something told me that there was a barrier between us. That there was something not so normal with their friendship.
Something some gap that that i could not bridge. After dragging on for two years or so, i sort of gave up. We never got to be together but this question nags in my mind.
then a friend of mine (a decent female ok) confided in me that she did it with another friend of hers. AND They are not attached to each other.
And here i am. -
Well, it's seldom happen lor...Normally girls would usually do it with their bf and not male frienz, even it is, it is veri rare...
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Sorry..Originally posted by `wAwA`:............................ 
I'm just joking -
Sorry..Originally posted by `wAwA`:............................ I'm just joking -
I'm sorry to hear that.....anyway u made a right choice of giving her up she might not worth it especially if she can sleep with guys who r not even her bf. wat the F*CK man bloody B*TCH !!!Originally posted by Muse:wAwA
care to elaborate? what actually happened?
What makes a girl want to do that?
My thread is prompted by a few circumstances i experienced:
Once in Uni i liked a girl very much. She was very chio. i thought she liked me too. There was this close friend of hers, a guy who always hung around her. this guy was not her BF. But of course must be after her lah or else where got so free.
i was very shy but i did try to get to know her better. there were a couple of dates. we seemed to share enough things and common interest. then during university holidays she went backpacking... alone with that guy.
i was shattered. not knowing what to do during those few weeks.
i asked my close friends, male and female. They told me to forget it.
That she's GONE. i said what do you mean and then they told me of the possibility that some girls (decent ones) actually sleep with their guy friends firstly out of curiousity then maybe lust.
The sex however brings them closer such that difficult for other guys to get closer to her emotionally.
but i said. that guy is not her BF, even she told me so.
But somehow something told me that there was a barrier between us. That there was something not so normal with their friendship.
Something some gap that that i could not bridge. After dragging on for two years or so, i sort of gave up. We never got to be together but this question nags in my mind.
then a friend of mine (a decent female ok) confided in me that she did it with another friend of hers. AND They are not attached to each other.
And here i am.
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Well Coffee
Sounds stupid but i dun wanna judge her.
she has her right to choose what she wants to do.
Frankly, i just feel a sense of regret. Maybe i am too late anyway. And we are all human and we have our urges.
she might have had her needs noticed and capitlalised on by that guy. The guy was probably aiming to bed her right from the start.
What the heck. its her life. i can be so sour.
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such incidents happen usually while pubbing with friends and everyone gets high at the end of the night and it doesn't matter the person you bed is just a mutual friend.
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Zi ren zi mian bu zi xin
I agree, forget her man. There are plenty of gals out there who are more worthy of u. If she wanna screw around for fun, let her be. Juz imagine if u 2 got married and she starts having affairs.
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x2Originally posted by drowssap_123:Zi ren zi mian bu zi xin
I agree, forget her man. There are plenty of gals out there who are more worthy of u. If she wanna screw around for fun, let her be. Juz imagine if u 2 got married and she starts having affairs.
Anyway, she may not be telling u e truth abt not having a bf. -
when one guy and one gal go backpack together, does not mean they sleep together or are intimate. And how do you know she got this kind of history or sleeping around.
Please grow up lah. maybe just rumours. -
actually, come think of it... so what if she did??? is her past of any relevance???Originally posted by spencer99:when one guy and one gal go backpack together, does not mean they sleep together or are intimate. And how do you know she got this kind of history or sleeping around.
Please grow up lah. maybe just rumours.
if a guy cannot get over a girl's past, then he better just forget her... don't even think about it... it will come back to haunt him and destroy the relationship...
do guys date a hymen or a person? -
agree.........its better to date a girl who is honest to you but not a virgin (come to think of it......who is virgin nowadays hmmmmm...Originally posted by CX:actually, come think of it... so what if she did??? is her past of any relevance???
if a guy cannot get over a girl's past, then he better just forget her... don't even think about it... it will come back to haunt him and destroy the relationship...
do guys date a hymen or a person?
) than a girl who is dishonest to you -
thats not quite my point... the thing is... do u REALLY wanna know EVERYTHING that she's done before she met u?Originally posted by Coffee_O:agree.........its better to date a girl who is honest to you but not a virgin (come to think of it......who is virgin nowadays hmmmmm... ) than a girl who is dishonest to you
do u REALLY wanna tell her EVERYTHING u've done?
we all have stuff that we're not proud of... sometimes, what pple don't know won't hurt them... there's got to be some secrets between 2 pple...
i will take "honest" to mean "faithful" i guess... but i really don't wanna know everything... its too heavy a burden sometimes... -
Don't worry lah, if the girl chooses to tell you about her past. She will narrated it in a way that she will looked good in her past. You think she will tell you the truth honestly?Originally posted by CX:actually, come think of it... so what if she did??? is her past of any relevance???
if a guy cannot get over a girl's past, then he better just forget her... don't even think about it... it will come back to haunt him and destroy the relationship...
do guys date a hymen or a person?
Actually the same will goes for the guy too. Both guys and girls will automatically shift all the blame to their ex-partner lah.
Guys don't date a hymen lor...but will also want to make sure her chee bai is not dirtier than their home toliet. If not, I think the guy would rather go home and lick his own toliet bowl than her chee bai.
Got one time I heard a group of sec sch girls called their friend from far....they called her name...I think my friends and I heard they called her "Var-gin-nar" clearly......... Laughed until stomach pain and tears come out of the corners of my eyes -
Hmm i was at this fren's hse.. in his room watching tv..Originally posted by Muse:wAwA
care to elaborate? what actually happened?
What makes a girl want to do that?
Den he started to kiss me.. I pushed him away..
I guess my willpower, mind, ain't strong enough.
Lust got over me.. and we had sex.
That simple.
But the aftermath is too yucky. Full of guilt.
I remember washing myself with dettol. Space out.
Haiz..
Thank god that I had gotten over it. Else, i dunno wad will i do abt it. -
wAwA
that means he planned it. He took the opportunity to seduce you.
Did he know you had a boyfriend?
If he knew you had, his intention is clear.
If he did not maybe he liked you.
What did he say after that?What was his reason to make his move on you? How did you feel towards him after that? (this is impt to me)
After that did you all do it again? Did you all stay in contact?
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he knew it right from the start..Originally posted by Muse:wAwA
that means he planned it. He took the opportunity to seduce you.
Did he know you had a boyfriend?
If he knew you had, his intention is clear.
If he did not maybe he liked you.
What did he say after that?
After that did you all do it again? Did you all stay in contact?
What was his reason to make his move on you?
Sorry for so many questions, just wondering and looking for answers.
i look upset and felt sinned..
Then he asked me nt to feel tt way.
i left after tt..
He still contact me.. but i juz treat him as a pest..
for he betray tt frenship trust i had wif him initially.
How would i know what was his intention at 1st..
If onli i knew.. This kind of thing will not happen on me.. -
yeah... if u're over it, then just forget about it...Originally posted by `wAwA`:Haiz..
Thank god that I had gotten over it. Else, i dunno wad will i do abt it.
everybody has episodes they're not proud of... -
yeah.. ttz wad my bud says too..Originally posted by CX:yeah... if u're over it, then just forget about it...
everybody has episodes they're not proud of...