Difficulties in penetrating my virgin gf!
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Guys you have to help me out. My gf's a virgin and we've been trying to have sex but without much success. Its either shes too tight or im doing something wrong.
she will be in a lot of pain when i try to penetrate with my finger and thus doesn't like me to do that. Im not able to get my dickhead in at all... the fact that my dick errects at a upward 145 degrees when fully errect complicates matters. its hard to push it down to 90 degrees when its fully errected.... so i can't really see when i try to penetrate her...
anyone of you can help me???
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Go look for a counsellor
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why? why? why must you penetrate ur gf?
bu yao ah..... -
I have the same problem as you last time. you must get your gf to relax. She is probably too tensed. If she tense she will contract "there" and it will be difficult if not impossible for you to get in. If you use "force" pain for her and not good for you.
So you have to be patient also, over time she will probably relax already. she must convince herself that she will not feel pain when you penetrate her.
The good news is if she is not faking it, she is most probably a virgin, once she knows that f u c king will not have pain and will be relax to let the guy come in, she will not have any more problems with her other partners after you.
So be patient and you will get your reward in due time. -
You had a protactor in hand while attempting?
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Originally posted by ditzy:You had a protactor in hand while attempting?
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more than anything, you guys mus b doing it wrongly, i guess?
i dun think u'll miss the entrance rite?
dun kan chiong. engage in foreplay first.
making love is a beautiful session,( underage teenagers, u never heard this from uncle foga ok) to be enjoyed by you 2.
get her in the mood. say u guys wanna have a session in the evening, the love making starts in the morning liao. tell her what you want to do wif her after work , call her in between breaks to keep her interest high. go for a romantic dinner after work, .......you fill in the rest. the more stress she is, the harder for her to enjoy.Originally posted by Bikerboi:Guys you have to help me out. My gf's a virgin and we've been trying to have sex but without much success. Its either shes too tight or im doing something wrong.
she will be in a lot of pain when i try to penetrate with my finger and thus doesn't like me to do that. Im not able to get my dickhead in at all... the fact that my dick errects at a upward 145 degrees when fully errect complicates matters. its hard to push it down to 90 degrees when its fully errected.... so i can't really see when i try to penetrate her...
anyone of you can help me??? -
i thot so too...haha 145 degree. thats obtuse angle...refresh my pri sch geometryOriginally posted by ditzy:You had a protactor in hand while attempting? -
does ur gf pussy wet enough? dun use finger.. use ur tougue dude.. make her wet.. everything will be smooth then
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wah, foga is expert sia
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maaf maaf.....
haiz... guys are so pathetic.
i dun see myself so ren zhen at work sometimes but when it comes to making love, well, i put in a lot of hard work.....
not expert lah....Originally posted by sgboy2004:wah, foga is expert sia -
HARD work hor...during the session...hahhahaOriginally posted by foga:maaf maaf.....
haiz... guys are so pathetic.
i dun see myself so ren zhen at work sometimes but when it comes to making love, well, i put in a lot of hard work.....
not expert lah....
foga expert lah, so qian xu -
If you and your gf are fine with sex, go ahead slow and easy on the first time. Make it special for you and her. At least next time both of you think back, it will be a sweet memory.
Don't be too excited and want to penetrate her straight away. Studies have shown that physical stimulation before penetration would make it easier as she gets wetter. (ie lubrication) Also it helps to relax her.
One final advice: remember to wear protection!!! You don't want something to happen for which you are not preapred to take responsibility for.
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ya. the first time is always very memorable one.
make it special for her. chrisyx's right, always wear condoms. chances are for her, she would have some sort of tear inside her and she could get an infection. so wear condom. wear twoOriginally posted by ChrisYX:If you and your gf are fine with sex, go ahead slow and easy on the first time. Make it special for you and her. At least next time both of you think back, it will be a sweet memory.
Don't be too excited and want to penetrate her straight away. Studies have shown that physical stimulation before penetration would make it easier as she gets wetter. (ie lubrication) Also it helps to relax her.
One final advice: remember to wear protection!!! You don't want something to happen for which you are not preapred to take responsibility for. -
no lah! hard work starts way before the session.
during session, also mus work hard lah.
i'm no expert.Originally posted by sgboy2004:HARD work hor...during the session...hahhaha
foga expert lah, so qian xu -
the 145 degrees is just estimation lah, haha. she is already very very wet liao. but once she gets tensed up, will get a bit dry of cos. but we use baby oil. but still doesn't work *_* shes just convinced that it'll be hell of pain, maybe thats why has mental barrier
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hai yo, why use baby oil? your condom sure pecak one.
if she's dry in the middle of a session, take out your member and start the foreplay again lah. cannot 'yin yin lai' one.
this way, the session would be longer but u dun knn and do until you can smell burning rubber. it's meant to be an enjoyable session for both of you.
if it's a mental barrier, give sex a miss first. foreplay first.
kisses, explore the use of your tongue, fingers especially ur thumb.Originally posted by Bikerboi:the 145 degrees is just estimation lah, haha. she is already very very wet liao. but once she gets tensed up, will get a bit dry of cos. but we use baby oil. but still doesn't work *_* shes just convinced that it'll be hell of pain, maybe thats why has mental barrier -
Hanor, hanor, dun pray pray.Originally posted by sgboy2004:wah, foga is expert sia -
try to make her feel aroused lor.so u can penertate her.first,try stroking her vagina till it wet then u try to put in lor
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Originally posted by ditzy:You had a protactor in hand while attempting?
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wei ditzy, wanna die huh?Originally posted by ditzy:Hanor, hanor, dun pray pray.
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wei i think your girlgirl too tensed.. it will affect alot..
and you will find it hard to get your weenie in and she will feel really pain..
maybe don't keep moving her legs.. let her relax then slowly get in.. don't force pls.. very pain de -
2 condoms will wear off very fast....then will cost a tear in the condom....then will defeat the purpose liao
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maybe its not her virgina you are trying to poke your dick into?
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see doctor. its actually a kinda of medical condition.