Friends with ur ex-?

• drowssap_123

  26 Apr 04, 20:55

  Why is it some gals insist on being friends with their ex- but in actual fact, avoid them and talk minimally with them? I mean of it would not be as the same as b4 but saying u wanna be friends and yet behave like this...what the f***?
• on tenterhooks

  26 Apr 04, 21:09

  Originally posted by drowssap_123:

  Why is it some gals insist on being friends with their ex- but in actual fact, avoid them and talk minimally with them? I mean of it would not be as the same as b4 but saying u wanna be friends and yet behave like this...what the f***?

  too heartbroken liao...duno what they're saying?
  
• sgboy2004

  26 Apr 04, 21:18

  just to save face...
  
  well, takes time for them to really get over the relationship...give them a bit more time lor
  
  
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• ^sylvia^

  26 Apr 04, 21:25

  do guys do the same??
  or just don't want be friends(like stranger??)
  
  don't know lehx.. i don't be friends with my EXs though i accept that.. feel draggy~
• Me0w Me0w

  26 Apr 04, 21:34

  for me i still treat them as good friends.. they r the one avoiding me.. hee....
• SGpork

  26 Apr 04, 21:40

  
• donjng

  26 Apr 04, 21:42

  no problem for me! I am still fren with my ex...
• SuN^sEt

  26 Apr 04, 22:44

  you can still be frenx with ur Ex but whether the two of you are comfortable facing each other anot..
  
  there can be situation where guys are the one avoiding not necessary its the ger...So depend on individual...
  
  i believe everyone can still be frenx..better to have more frenx then enermies...
• FireIce

  26 Apr 04, 22:46

  i dun mind if my ex-es dun mind......
  tok on icq.....sms once in a while.......
• donjng

  26 Apr 04, 22:50

  I guess it also depends on the reason for breakup!
  
• foga

  26 Apr 04, 22:58

  very true.
  * wear shades to hide my teary eyes*
  
  

  Originally posted by donjng:

  I guess it also depends on the reason for breakup!
  

• Dj_Shadow

  26 Apr 04, 23:14

  Originally posted by drowssap_123:

  Why is it some gals insist on being friends with their ex- but in actual fact, avoid them and talk minimally with them? I mean of it would not be as the same as b4 but saying u wanna be friends and yet behave like this...what the f***?

  I also kena like this... But my one is not ex, is i kena reject... The gal say to remain frens, but like u say she avoid me and talk minimally... but i guess it's the best way for me...
• Dj_Shadow

  26 Apr 04, 23:16

  Originally posted by foga:

  very true.
  * wear shades to hide my teary eyes*
  
  

  *me sayang foga... Dun be sad... cheer up, things gonna get better for u...
• foga

  26 Apr 04, 23:20

  thanks Dj, but i'm sinking, sinking to raise no more....
  
  

  Originally posted by Dj_Shadow:

  *me sayang foga... Dun be sad... cheer up, things gonna get better for u...

• HENG@

  26 Apr 04, 23:24

  friends with my ex? yes of course. and what a wonderful friend she is.
• Dj_Shadow

  27 Apr 04, 00:32

  Originally posted by foga:

  thanks Dj, but i'm sinking, sinking to raise no more....
  
  

  
  Ur welcome...
• parn

  27 Apr 04, 02:33

  Originally posted by drowssap_123:

  Why is it some gals insist on being friends with their ex- but in actual fact, avoid them and talk minimally with them? I mean of it would not be as the same as b4 but saying u wanna be friends and yet behave like this...what the f***?

  Hehehe...tell you something lor. Some gals like to compare with their ex and see who will get another bf/gf first lor. Something like a friendly competition like that, see who will get happiness first or so...
  
  Another thing is often they also want to compare their ex with the new one...see which one better lor. If they get someone better than you, then they won't regret their decision to breakup with you in the first place. If they don't, then you will see them complaining their relationship troubles...blah blah blah...to you on the phone until late at night. Maybe some of them might go back to their ex later. Get it?
  
  So in short, this is a sick world we are living in with all these sickos hanging around us...twisting with our feelings and mind. You love...you break...you regret...you patch up....you find someone better....you never go back to your ex again.
  
  Maintain 'friendship' with your ex if that's what she wants....but make sure you live a better life than her lor. Anyway, quite unlikely for you to accept her again unless you like to use somebody's else condoms.
  
  
• Coffee_O

  27 Apr 04, 08:07

  Originally posted by ^sylvia^:

  do guys do the same??
  or just don't want be friends(like stranger??)
  
  don't know lehx.. i don't be friends with my EXs though i accept that.. feel draggy~

  agree never like to be friends with my ex cause it hurts especially when she found a new guy and I'm still single.....
  
  
• shandower

  27 Apr 04, 09:42

  I never maintain any communication with my ex.
• shaunlaw

  27 Apr 04, 10:10

  Originally posted by drowssap_123:

  Why is it some gals insist on being friends with their ex- but in actual fact, avoid them and talk minimally with them? I mean of it would not be as the same as b4 but saying u wanna be friends and yet behave like this...what the f***?

  Whether u can be frens or not depends on alot of things. One impt factor is the way u break up. Lets say if u quarrel and then break, kinda hard to be frens cos the hurt is stil there. But if u tok things properly and then break, thigns might be different.
  
  I duno abt gers insisting staying as frens. Mayb to make them feel better? Avoiding ur ex is normal cos i guess there are things that make u unable to face them. Human bahaviour is strange at times. Say one thing, do another.
• HENG@

  27 Apr 04, 12:32

  Originally posted by shaunlaw:

  Whether u can be frens or not depends on alot of things. One impt factor is the way u break up. Lets say if u quarrel and then break, kinda hard to be frens cos the hurt is stil there. But if u tok things properly and then break, thigns might be different.
  
  I duno abt gers insisting staying as frens. Mayb to make them feel better? Avoiding ur ex is normal cos i guess there are things that make u unable to face them. Human bahaviour is strange at times. Say one thing, do another.

  like me. mutual and cordial break up. even after we broke, we still went holidaying together in france last sept
• Dj_Shadow

  27 Apr 04, 12:40

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  like me. mutual and cordial break up. even after we broke, we still went holidaying together in france last sept

  
  So good ah??
• Dj_Shadow

  27 Apr 04, 12:41

  Originally posted by Coffee_O:

  agree never like to be friends with my ex cause it hurts especially when she found a new guy and I'm still single.....
  
  

  Dun care about ur ex lah...
  She got new bf, that's her problem... Not urs...
  U not happy, go find 1 lor...
• HENG@

  27 Apr 04, 12:46

  Originally posted by Dj_Shadow:

  
  So good ah??

  yup!
  we still good friends mah
  
• BaByBoY

  27 Apr 04, 14:54

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  yup!
  we still good friends mah
  

  u intend to patch back?
  seems u getting along quite well w her lehz..
  i tink u got chance..
  france she also not scared u may do anything to her...