Friends with ur ex-?

• HENG@

  27 Apr 04, 15:08

  Originally posted by BaByBoY:

  u intend to patch back?
  seems u getting along quite well w her lehz..
  i tink u got chance..
  france she also not scared u may do anything to her...
  

  unfortunately, no. much as i like her still... our future lies apart... shes in france, i am in singapore and later england. after she grads, she coming back to serve a 5 year bond, i intend to work in europe for about 10 years. we are both ambitious people who really wish to pursue our passions and so... i feel i should not hinder her desire to do so, and i should not drop my dreams to let her do so. this way, its best for both of us
• L@gSoN

  27 Apr 04, 15:25

  its a progression in the relationship,
  
  gf - ex-gf - friends - f**k buddies
  
  i get frisky wif one of my ex(s) once in awhile,
  There is NO such thing as friends after breaking up...especially if it was a mutual agreement...even if feelings die off, bodily attractions never waiver....
• BaByBoY

  27 Apr 04, 15:30

  Originally posted by HENG@:
  
  unfortunately, no. much as i like her still... our future lies apart... shes in france, i am in singapore and later england. after she grads, she coming back to serve a 5 year bond, i intend to work in europe for about 10 years. [b]we are both ambitious people who really wish to pursue our passions and so... i feel i should not hinder her desire to do so, and i should not drop my dreams to let her do so. this way, its best for both of us[/b]

  wow..
  but since u 2 are so much alike.. why not haf a common goal and passion??
  i felt so wasted for u.. she seemed to be a person tt will suit u most.. same aggressiveness same ambition
  juz tt only diff location.. ever tried a comprmise btw each other??
  
  i juz hoped the best will come to u..
• donjng

  27 Apr 04, 15:45

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  unfortunately, no. much as i like her still... our future lies apart... shes in france, i am in singapore and later england. after she grads, she coming back to serve a 5 year bond, i intend to work in europe for about 10 years. we are both ambitious people who really wish to pursue our passions and so... i feel i should not hinder her desire to do so, and i should not drop my dreams to let her do so. this way, its best for both of us

  Wow! This sounds so much like my situations previously...
  
• drowssap_123

  27 Apr 04, 20:23

  agree never like to be friends with my ex cause it hurts especially when she found a new guy and I'm still single.....
  

  OK, that sucks. I understand. That sucks big time....
• HENG@

  27 Apr 04, 23:17

  Originally posted by BaByBoY:

  wow..
  but since u 2 are so much alike.. why not haf a common goal and passion??
  i felt so wasted for u.. she seemed to be a person tt will suit u most.. same aggressiveness same ambition
  juz tt only diff location.. ever tried a comprmise btw each other??
  
  i juz hoped the best will come to u..

  what we r doing IS a compromise... look... she has to come back, i have to stay there... yes we share the same interests(namely cars n racing), unfortunately... she has to be bonded to the Effing govt... what can i do?