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ultimately, it's their lives to live...
he has a chance now to make amends.. and he better grab that chance with both hands, cradle it tight to himself and make the most of it..
even if she stayed with him for the sake of his child only, he has a chance to prove that he is truly sorry and has changed.. and hopefully, win her love and maybe even her respect back..
which is why my post asking him to live his life right, so that his child can then be proud of him from now on
Originally posted by ^sylvia^:once hurted, there will always be a scar no matter what.
especially when she's in pregnant state. everything will be loss!
she will feel this way, everything's gone
learnt his lesson?(hopefully too)
if his wife choose to leave him, don't blame her cos he deserve it!
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yah.. win her body back should beOriginally posted by the Bear:ultimately, it's their lives to live...
he has a chance now to make amends.. and he better grab that chance with both hands, cradle it tight to himself and make the most of it..
even if she stayed with him for the sake of his child only, he has a chance to prove that he is truly sorry and has changed.. and hopefully, win her love and maybe even her respect back..
which is why my post asking him to live his life right, so that his child can then be proud of him from now on
heart will be back but not onto the husband bah.. i don't know la.. since she wants forgive i have nothing to say also. im not her mah
makes me lose many confidence after knowing this type of things ..
actually my bf thought of marrying me in 2 years time.. haiz.. no confidence liow.. jia lat.. shouldn't be online! -
the capacity to forgive and the liberation of forgiveness is amazing...
don't doubt love... if she really loves him and he is really repentent, then it's forgiveness that is liberating for the both of them isn't it?
he, learns his lesson and will never even think of straying again...
she, in giving him forgiveness, earns his everlasting devotion...
and if the both of them work this out and are truly loving, there could be a strong and wonderful bond to be made...
someone once said this: a relationship is like a string.. if it is broken, and can be mended, the string becomes shorter and both sides become closer...
as for love, again, there are no reasons to it...
just like there can be horrible monsters out there, there can be wonderful, loving and faithful unto death and beyond men out there... and all those in between with their baggage and weaknesses...
your guy may be one who will be insanely faithful.. so don't look at others and their infidelities, and then forsake him for something he has not done and will never do?
sometimes, love isn't enough to hold a couple together... why add the weight of the world to it?Originally posted by ^sylvia^:yah.. win her body back should be
heart will be back but not onto the husband bah.. i don't know la.. since she wants forgive i have nothing to say also. im not her mah
makes me lose many confidence after knowing this type of things ..
actually my bf thought of marrying me in 2 years time.. haiz.. no confidence liow.. jia lat.. shouldn't be online! -
yuor right but i can't fully agree to you.Originally posted by the Bear:the capacity to forgive and the liberation of forgiveness is amazing...
don't doubt love... if she really loves him and he is really repentent, then it's forgiveness that is liberating for the both of them isn't it?
he, learns his lesson and will never even think of straying again...
she, in giving him forgiveness, earns his everlasting devotion...
and if the both of them work this out and are truly loving, there could be a strong and wonderful bond to be made...
someone once said this: a relationship is like a string.. if it is broken, and can be mended, the string becomes shorter and both sides become closer...
as for love, again, there are no reasons to it...
just like there can be horrible monsters out there, there can be wonderful, loving and faithful unto death and beyond men out there... and all those in between with their baggage and weaknesses...
your guy may be one who will be insanely faithful.. so don't look at others and their infidelities, and then forsake him for something he has not done and will never do?
sometimes, love isn't enough to hold a couple together... why add the weight of the world to it?
first of all, we are still human. so what if forgiving is so great?
thats because she trust him so much and he's being led astray~
after all, different people different personalities
i'm the sort who can be considered a trash girl as i don't find a need to forgive my man if he did this to me~ if he wants my love, he should control himself
when a woman is pregnant, the depression inside will be worst than we thought.
i don't live up to my signature~
diff ppl diff thinkings
forgive and forget -
well, to each their own way of thinking
there was once when i was with someone, and i meant it when i said i trusted her... as in if she was unfaithful and told me she wasn't, i'd believe her totally... i do not know if it was healthy or not.. but i meant it... and i tried my very best and kept my promises to her.. everything i tried to the best of my ability... still, i was found wanting in some way.. and "let go"
i could be bitter, but no.. i am not
strangely, instead it is her who is bitter and angry with me... for doing the very things i've promised her... because she cannot let go of some things, and cannot let go of grudges, real or imagined..
forgiveness, i've learnt allows one to not be bitter about things.. things done to you and against you.. allows you to let it go and get on with life
some hold on to it to motivate themselves or something?
i find it too tiring to hold onto baggage i have no need for.. but that's me
but i do hope you'll find that someone who is perfect for you in each way, and may you be perfect to him tooOriginally posted by ^sylvia^:yuor right but i can't fully agree to you.
first of all, we are still human. so what if forgiving is so great?
thats because she trust him so much and he's being led astray~
after all, different people different personalities
i'm the sort who can be considered a trash girl as i don't find a need to forgive my man if he did this to me~ if he wants my love, he should control himself
when a woman is pregnant, the depression inside will be worst than we thought.
i don't live up to my signature~
diff ppl diff thinkings
forgive and forget -
if the baggage simply too loaded for me to carry along my path, i'll just throw it~Originally posted by the Bear:well, to each their own way of thinking
there was once when i was with someone, and i meant it when i said i trusted her... as in if she was unfaithful and told me she wasn't, i'd believe her totally... i do not know if it was healthy or not.. but i meant it... and i tried my very best and kept my promises to her.. everything i tried to the best of my ability... still, i was found wanting in some way.. and "let go"
i could be bitter, but no.. i am not
strangely, instead it is her who is bitter and angry with me... for doing the very things i've promised her... because she cannot let go of some things, and cannot let go of grudges, real or imagined..
forgiveness, i've learnt allows one to not be bitter about things.. things done to you and against you.. allows you to let it go and get on with life
some hold on to it to motivate themselves or something?
i find it too tiring to hold onto baggage i have no need for.. but that's me
but i do hope you'll find that someone who is perfect for you in each way, and may you be perfect to him too thats my way of life
which can be put down, when theres a need, i will
some baggage though loaded but hold definite meanings to u.. so we have to carry along our path
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Agree, that's a really nice name.Originally posted by Dj_Shadow:Nice name... One of my fren also name Vivian...
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It's a she. Which guy is called vivian?Originally posted by ^sylvia^:hmmz.. he did not right??
btw ding shan ben, gratz for your new member~ hope he's chubby and fair~
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You are one mean, evil, sadistic person.Originally posted by ^sylvia^:Dear Ditzy
thanks alot for this.. now i know what kind of 'good' husband is he~
shan ben~ your such a disappointment.. guess you don't deserve such a good wife who's willing to bear you a child!
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You are a really sweet, cute and nice guy. So sad I'm not a girl. Otherwise, I'd be dropping hints to you already,Originally posted by the Bear:well, to each their own way of thinking
there was once when i was with someone, and i meant it when i said i trusted her... as in if she was unfaithful and told me she wasn't, i'd believe her totally... i do not know if it was healthy or not.. but i meant it... and i tried my very best and kept my promises to her.. everything i tried to the best of my ability... still, i was found wanting in some way.. and "let go"
i could be bitter, but no.. i am not
strangely, instead it is her who is bitter and angry with me... for doing the very things i've promised her... because she cannot let go of some things, and cannot let go of grudges, real or imagined..
forgiveness, i've learnt allows one to not be bitter about things.. things done to you and against you.. allows you to let it go and get on with life
some hold on to it to motivate themselves or something?
i find it too tiring to hold onto baggage i have no need for.. but that's me
but i do hope you'll find that someone who is perfect for you in each way, and may you be perfect to him too -
Yo, don't flirt anyone hor. And after your wife has given birth keep a tight look on her hor.
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why tight look on her...scare she go out to ... ist it?Originally posted by Ayukat:Yo, don't flirt anyone hor. And after your wife has given birth keep a tight look on her hor. 
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Aiyoh, forget the incident already. You people want him to move on or not? Give the father a break.Originally posted by Ayukat:Yo, don't flirt anyone hor. And after your wife has given birth keep a tight look on her hor. -
Got 2 reasons.Originally posted by sgboy2004:why tight look on her...scare she go out to ... ist it?
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Number 1 is what you are thinking.
Number 2 is more reasonable after giving birth sometimes will get depression one mah. Choy! -
Who? Me, ^sylvia^, or Ding Shanben?Originally posted by SumOne:You are one mean, evil, sadistic person. -
Well, I didn't quote you right? I just hope that you won't be mean to Ding Shanben as well.Originally posted by ditzy:Who? Me, ^sylvia^, or Ding Shanben? -
No, I won't be mean to Ding Shanben. I'll just be less inclined towards offering him any more advice.Originally posted by SumOne:Well, I didn't quote you right? I just hope that you won't be mean to Ding Shanben as well.
As for ^sylvia^, all I can say is, don't mess with a lady. -
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.Originally posted by ditzy:No, I won't be mean to Ding Shanben. I'll just be less inclined towards offering him any more advice.
As for ^sylvia^, all I can say is, don't mess with a lady. -
Dr. Vivian BalakrishnanOriginally posted by SumOne:It's a she. Which guy is called vivian? -
who's the one being mean evil and sadistic?? get yourself clear that if he don't want others to scold him, don't cheat on his wife!Originally posted by SumOne:You are one mean, evil, sadistic person.
okay.. so your also like..??
and afterall, the mean one is you! -
oh give him a break? yeah we are giving him a break , stop our conversation already and your adding fuel to fire~Originally posted by SumOne:Aiyoh, forget the incident already. You people want him to move on or not? Give the father a break.
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Originally posted by SumOne:It's a she. Which guy is called vivian? look at the bear's post lor~