Condoms - Him or her...
-
i'm still learning abt women.
and , life's not all abt studying and getting good grades. it's abt going out there and prove yourself.Originally posted by Bloop...:Really? ...and you base that perception upon your years of study in this matter? -
Condoms are quantifiable and therefore do run out. I don't know about you, but when I go out with a woman and end up at her place, or mine at the end of the night. It's usually with the objective to spend time with her and not just to get her in bed. Should the unforseen happen and I run out, it's nice to know that the woman I'm with is mature enough to have taken the liberty to have one or two with her.Originally posted by foga:ur understanding of women is at a minimum....
no doubt a lady has to be responsible for herself but like i mentioned, only not having forms of sex is safe.
even going on pills, wearing condoms...
for christ's sake , if u're a guy, condoms still mus ur lady help u buy?!?!?must she help u wear? why mus she made sure she has condoms? u, if u're a guy., r wearing it, not her! how abt u ask ur maid help u buy and keep wif her for standby
I grew up in a more open society where talks were given in college by doctors and other professionals in this matter. I and more than one of my previous girlfriends have also attended talks conducted by professionals in clinics regarding this.
You can be very presumptuos with your comments:
time to hit the books first
understanding of women is at a minimum
Maybe my opinions are made with an informed background rather then just based upon a myopic view?
-
Originally posted by Bloop...:
women are different from men.
Condoms are quantifiable and therefore do run out. I don't know about you, but when I go out with a woman and end up at her place, or mine at the end of the night. It's usually with the objective to spend time with her and not just to get her in bed. Should the unforseen happen and I run out, it's nice to know that the woman I'm with is mature enough to have taken the liberty to have one or two with her.
I grew up in a more open society where talks were given in college by doctors and other professionals in this matter. I and more than one of my previous girlfriends have also attended talks conducted by professionals in clinics regarding this.
You can be very presumptuos with your comments:
[b]time to hit the books first
understanding of women is at a minimum
Maybe my opinions are made with an informed background rather then just based upon a myopic view? [/b]
Each woman is a special lock that can be unlocked with a certain key.. and some women can be unlocked with different keys (more than one)...
Whereas some men wants to try every lock and end up breaking their key...
-
show em the promise of a Prada Bag, and all locks will be opened, no questions asked. An LV bag, and you'll never see a lock ever again on her.
-
Women are more like combination locks... you know which button to push, or which tumble to turn... all locks come off too...Originally posted by Nelstar:women are different from men.
Each woman is a special lock that can be unlocked with a certain key.. and some women can be unlocked with different keys (more than one)...
Whereas some men wants to try every lock and end up breaking their key... 
-
well,regardles whether my view on you was of an myopic one,
u certainly have caught my attention that perhaps (judgemental depending on how u percieved it) u exhibit a certain insensitiveness towards ladies.
for ladies to carry condoms is a form of self protection, in case guys use corny excuses such as running out of condoms....
for a guy to use the above mentioned excuse,and yet to judge a lady by whether she has prepared condoms b4 hand as being mature or not, is unfortunately more presumptuous than my any of my statements.
in which case, it exhibit the guy's im-maturity to have not take the liberty to get more condoms.
perhaps to you singapore's society is not tat all open as compared to where you came back from but may i add that we do have 24 hours convenience stores such as Cheers and 7-11 where one could always get condoms , 24-7Originally posted by Bloop...:
Condoms are quantifiable and therefore do run out. I don't know about you, but when I go out with a woman and end up at her place, or mine at the end of the night. It's usually with the objective to spend time with her and not just to get her in bed. Should the unforseen happen and I run out, it's nice to know that the woman I'm with is mature enough to have taken the liberty to have one or two with her.
I grew up in a more open society where talks were given in college by doctors and other professionals in this matter. I and more than one of my previous girlfriends have also attended talks conducted by professionals in clinics regarding this.
You can be very presumptuos with your comments:
[b]time to hit the books first
understanding of women is at a minimum
Maybe my opinions are made with an informed background rather then just based upon a myopic opinion?[/b] -
Dear foga and Bloop.
Did either of you do a survey to get your result? You should know what defines the environment and culture is the people around you. And the number of people you know is not the entire Singaporean population.
Stop this contradicting debate... -
still have to do survey?
since wat defines the environment and culture = people around u, can u pls kindly explain the following statements ...
1. Each woman is a special lock that can be unlocked with a certain key.. and some women can be unlocked with different keys (more than one)...
2. Whereas some men wants to try every lock and end up breaking their key...
i bet u did ur survey, and u're not contradicting urself here....Originally posted by Nelstar:Dear foga and Bloop.
Did either of you do a survey to get your result? You should know what defines the environment and culture is the people around you. And the number of people you know is not the entire Singaporean population.
Stop this contradicting debate... -
Being sensitive and being over protective to the point of treating a woman like a child are worlds apart. I believe strongly in womens equality and many of my female friends are liberated to the point of being against the Womans Charter - diff topic, which I won't get into - However, it's very relevant to how I treat a woman; As a woman... Not as a little girl.Originally posted by foga:u exhibit a certain insensitiveness towards ladies.
First of all.. these things really do happen and only the most immature of men would simply use it as a corny excuse, as you put it.
for ladies to carry condoms is a form of self protection, us in case guys use corny excuses such as running out of condoms....
for a guy to use the above mentioned excuse,and yet to judge a lady by whether she has prepared condoms b4 hand as being mature or not, is unfortunately more presumptuous than my any of my statements. in which case, it exhibit the guy's im-maturity to have not take the liberty to get more condoms.
Second, judging a woman as mature because she has forsight is not the same as condeming her a immature just because doesn't. Her having that condom with her just serves, to me, as an indication that she knows she is sexually active and has put thought towards her own protection. Same as if she was on the pill. That she is aware of the dangers in what she is about to do and does it willingly as an adult.
perhaps to you singapore's society is not tat all open as compared to where you came back from, may i add that we do have 24 hours convience stores such as Cheers and 7-11 where one could always get condoms.
...and yes, that is always a viable option should we both be out of condoms. In fact it should be the only option as unprotected sex should not even be considered. -
then don't have sexOriginally posted by woodRat:but... paiseh leh.....
-
so right. but only few men get it. treat us well and we will go heaven with u. but train up and have some energy. if only can one time, please. got to have energy to go 2nd or 3rd round.Originally posted by Bloop...:Women are more like combination locks... you know which button to push, or which tumble to turn... all locks come off too...
i like the 2nd and 3rd round more, cos that time, he more willing to spend time on my body. not just shoot in me. -
sometimes can run out, whether guy or gal. just like cash in our wallet. so its good for gal also to keep. like that, can have a good time. if really both don't have, cannot shoot inside. then part of the enjoy is gone. the thrill of the guy's face when he unload inside me and me enjoying his expression.Originally posted by foga:ur understanding of women is at a minimum....
no doubt a lady has to be responsible for herself but like i mentioned, only not having forms of sex is safe.
even going on pills, wearing condoms...
for christ's sake , if u're a guy, condoms still mus ur lady help u buy?!?!?must she help u wear? why mus she made sure she has condoms? u, if u're a guy., r wearing it, not her! how abt u ask ur maid help u buy and keep wif her for standby