Telling gf u might be gng nightclubs....

• ratslen

  9 Jul 04, 01:25

  Originally posted by shirurinu:

  That seems so bad.. might as well banned him from gng lo

  If he wants to do it, there's no such thing called stopping. Unless you put him under surveillance 24/7.
  
  Of course, temptation is hard to resist.
• ratslen

  9 Jul 04, 01:26

  Originally posted by shirurinu:

  Aiya.. i told my fren if he really wanna fool ard.. it will also happen even he dun go ktv lo

  Temptation do play tricks on the mind.
  
  The probability is higher with the attraction plus the 'no clause sexual flings' with local gals.
• p|gGyPeN

  9 Jul 04, 01:28

  Originally posted by shirurinu:

  One of my good friend, her bf told her his colleagues asking him to go nightclub and he might be gng...
  
  i was huh... tot if guys wanna go this kind of places will lie to gf.. y still must tell her leh... whats his intention? make her jealous? or wat?

  I think it's absolutely alright. My bf calls to tell me he'll be at a nightclub and i'm totally alright with tt. If he really wants to do anything, he doesn't even have to tell me. On my part, if i trust him, i wun ask; if i dun trust him, whatever his reply, i wun believe. His intention to me is just being truthful, nothing else.
• ratslen

  9 Jul 04, 01:31

  Originally posted by p|gGyPeN:

  I think it's absolutely alright. My bf calls to tell me he'll be at a nightclub and i'm totally alright with tt. If he really wants to do anything, he doesn't even have to tell me. On my part, if i trust him, i wun ask; if i dun trust him, whatever his reply, i wun believe. His intention to me is just being truthful, nothing else.

  Well, if most girls are fickle, most guys are easily tempted and challenged..
  
  And alcohol makes a person weaker in their mind.
  
  Given alcohol, girls, and challenges... This is definitely a hard test.
• shan_cai

  9 Jul 04, 01:32

  Temptations r irresistable... At tat moment, guys onli use their "brother" 2 tink liao... Aft tat den regret or feel guilty...
• shan_cai

  9 Jul 04, 01:33

  Originally posted by ratslen:

  Well, if most girls are fickle, most guys are easily tempted and challenged..
  
  And alcohol makes a person weaker in their mind.
  
  Given alcohol, girls, and challenges... This is definitely a hard test.

  Precisely... Tatz y i say at tat moment they dun tink so much liao. Got free one, y not? Temptations r hard 2 resist...
• ratslen

  9 Jul 04, 01:34

  Originally posted by shan_cai:

  Temptations r irresistable... At tat moment, guys onli use their "brother" 2 tink liao... Aft tat den regret or feel guilty...

  Depends on individuals, most guys can resist alcohol, few guys can resist women and even fewer guys can resist a challenge.
• shirurinu

  9 Jul 04, 01:35

  Originally posted by p|gGyPeN:

  I think it's absolutely alright. My bf calls to tell me he'll be at a nightclub and i'm totally alright with tt. If he really wants to do anything, he doesn't even have to tell me. On my part, if i trust him, i wun ask; if i dun trust him, whatever his reply, i wun believe. His intention to me is just being truthful, nothing else.

  Ur bf actually told u too... tot only my fren's bf was being weird.. so i know now he's just being frank
• ratslen

  9 Jul 04, 01:35

  Originally posted by shan_cai:

  Precisely... Tatz y i say at tat moment they dun tink so much liao. Got free one, y not? Temptations r hard 2 resist...

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  BUT you're wrong about one thing.... IT's NOT FREE.
  
  They will offer a service for a charge unless they are dumb.
• shirurinu

  9 Jul 04, 01:37

  Originally posted by ratslen:

  Depends on individuals, most guys can resist alcohol, few guys can resist women and even fewer guys can resist a challenge.

  Provided he could be clearminded... from what i know from my fren... she was not on really a good term with her bf recently.. so i'm pretty worried that the guy will use this opportunity to do something funny..
  as an excuse
  
  
• shirurinu

  9 Jul 04, 01:38

  Originally posted by ratslen:

  '
  
  BUT you're wrong about one thing.... IT's NOT FREE.
  
  They will offer a service for a charge unless they are dumb.

  yes... and for what i know its not that really cheap.. however, since the guys they pay for tips.. they might hug ard... or mayb a little groping ard
• ratslen

  9 Jul 04, 01:39

  Originally posted by shirurinu:

  Provided he could be clearminded... from what i know from my fren... she was not on really a good term with her bf recently.. so i'm pretty worried that the guy will use this opportunity to do something funny..
  as an excuse
  
  

  I'll rather believe it's not.
  
  I don't see why he should tell her frankly if he wants do anything funny.
  
  If he does, I am absolutely not sure how fickle that guy can be.
• the Bear

  9 Jul 04, 01:39

  maybe i'm old school... but won't gentlemen conduct themselves in such a way that they are beyond reproach, so that their other halves will have nothing to distrust about them?
  
  and also to behave in such a way that their other halves have someone they can be so bloody proud of?
  
  so in that way, even with the "friend" forcing him to go, he would not even entertain the idea...
  
  isn't that supposed to be the way?
• ratslen

  9 Jul 04, 01:44

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  maybe i'm old school... but won't gentlemen conduct themselves in such a way that they are beyond reproach, so that their other halves will have nothing to distrust about them?
  
  and also to behave in such a way that their other halves have someone they can be so bloody proud of?
  
  so in that way, even with the "friend" forcing him to go, he would not even entertain the idea...
  
  isn't that supposed to be the way?

  Ah.. good question. Most guys nowadays no longer go by the old book to conduct themselves.
  
  They prefer... ermmm to have their own sphere of influencing what is right or wrong.
• shirurinu

  9 Jul 04, 01:45

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  maybe i'm old school... but won't gentlemen conduct themselves in such a way that they are beyond reproach, so that their other halves will have nothing to distrust about them?
  
  and also to behave in such a way that their other halves have someone they can be so bloody proud of?
  
  so in that way, even with the "friend" forcing him to go, he would not even entertain the idea...
  
  isn't that supposed to be the way?

  Well... he said might be going only.... dun think he have reached a decision.. but it was my friend... she doesn't want to stop him from going... she trust him... but she wasn;t sure... of his intention of telling her.. making her uneasy...
• shirurinu

  9 Jul 04, 01:46

  Originally posted by ratslen:

  Ah.. good question. Most guys nowadays no longer go by the old book to conduct themselves.
  
  They prefer... ermmm to have their own sphere of influencing what is right or wrong.

  yes... from my fren's bf character... he's that kindda person...
• the Bear

  9 Jul 04, 01:47

  yeah... whatever they wanna follow, i will follow my own code and my own conscience...
  
  i do hope your friend and her guy figure out what their own limits and whatever it is are...
  
• ratslen

  9 Jul 04, 01:49

  Originally posted by shirurinu:

  Well... he said might be going only.... dun think he have reached a decision.. but it was my friend... she doesn't want to stop him from going... she trust him... but she wasn;t sure... of his intention of telling her.. making her uneasy...

  Uncertainty?
  
  He lacked discipline?
  
  I believe if a guy is truthful of his actions and willing to say it out, he must at least have the intention to remain faithful in the first place. Maybe he was trying to test her reaction but I don't think he has any intention to become unfaithful.
• the Bear

  9 Jul 04, 01:50

  testing of someone is a lack of trust and faith...
  
  oh well... again, it's theirs..
  
  

  Originally posted by ratslen:

  Uncertainty?
  
  He lacked discipline?
  
  I believe if a guy is truthful of his actions and willing to say it out, he must at least have the intention to remain faithful in the first place. Maybe he was trying to test her reaction but I don't think he has any intention to become unfaithful.

• ratslen

  9 Jul 04, 01:53

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  testing of someone is a lack of trust and faith...
  
  oh well... again, it's theirs..
  
  

  Along the way comes bump and humans oftenly uses their own brand of rulers to measure the distance travelled.
  
  A pathetic race.
• shirurinu

  9 Jul 04, 01:53

  Originally posted by ratslen:

  Uncertainty?
  
  He lacked discipline?
  
  I believe if a guy is truthful of his actions and willing to say it out, he must at least have the intention to remain faithful in the first place. Maybe he was trying to test her reaction but I don't think he has any intention to become unfaithful.

  but only he himself will know if he is being truthful or testing her reaction only... but to give him benefit of doubt.. i told my friend he's just being frank...
• the Bear

  9 Jul 04, 01:55

  ahh.. that makes us human... not robots..
  
  it is not pathetic, it is something that makes us what we are...
  
  

  Originally posted by ratslen:

  Along the way comes bump and humans oftenly uses their own brand of rulers to measure the distance travelled.
  
  A pathetic race.

• shirurinu

  9 Jul 04, 01:56

  Originally posted by ratslen:

  Along the way comes bump and humans oftenly uses their own brand of rulers to measure the distance travelled.
  
  A pathetic race.

  chim... dun understand
  
  
• shandower

  9 Jul 04, 08:44

  At least he's honest.
• Larry

  9 Jul 04, 11:06

  He can always go there and just drink and sing. But if he can help it, then better don't go.