Telling gf u might be gng nightclubs....
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my frd also tells his gf he going to nightclub...she dunseem to mind either...
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tie him to a chair for the whole nite and make him watch Titanic for the 85th time with u
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The guy wants to go to nightclub and enjoy the girls there and do not want to feel bad about lying to the girlfriend....and of course, secretly hopes that the girlfriend will not stop him from exercising his rights...of 'freedom'.Originally posted by shirurinu:One of my good friend, her bf told her his colleagues asking him to go nightclub and he might be gng...
i was huh... tot if guys wanna go this kind of places will lie to gf.. y still must tell her leh... whats his intention? make her jealous? or wat?
One of the most stupidest thing ever...it will only make the girlfriend feel insecure and this will eventually grows out of hand even if the girlfriend chose to keep quiet and tolerate with it. Hmm...just waiting for the time bomb to explode.
Advise the girlfriend to tell her bf to stop going to nightclub if he still wants to be with her. Not a possessive issue, but rather an integrity issue. Which girl like her guy to go to nightclub? -
Dont need alcohol to make a person weaker la, very sad i think all men or 90%above are easily taken in under those circumtances.Originally posted by ratslen:Well, if most girls are fickle, most guys are easily tempted and challenged..
And alcohol makes a person weaker in their mind.
Given alcohol, girls, and challenges... This is definitely a hard test.
i have many friends from all walks and different education level, different family backgd, and surprisingly, 7 -8 out of 10 go to those places and have had affair with other girls then their wife, but most is just paid sex! this is offen the topic during coffee or tea, and me being the odd one out
, cos i dont join them.
i have to admit that the temptation is high even though i only heard their description of what the girls will do to u, what kind of services u will get from which girl.........they even venture to our neighbouring country New York Spa......
i think deep inside all men wanted to go and try it out be it married or single man. but due to certain moral value???? or more to worry about deaseases, that make some men with less guts (like me) hold bk lor.
So all girls out there, do what u need, stop your man from going to these places. they will be hooked and keep going bk for more. u will not believe what your guys is enjoying there. the girls there are more mean then our fire ice and they are all out to please your man and they know what your men want ......
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I think he just want to be truthful...years back when I was in NS...my platoon mates also jio me go...I also told my gf...she is still my gf now(I didnt go and I didnt tell her I didnt go until some time later)...Originally posted by shirurinu:coz my fren's bf is in navy... then he just came back from a trip.. then one of his colleagues wanna go celebrate lo... but if he gng... y must tell my fren leh.. so strange hor.. or he just wanna be truthful?
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once hubby told me he might need to go ktv with his client, cos his client hinted. at 1st told him, orh okie... i pass u my K-box card. he said not tat kinda ktv....it's "tat" kinda ktv.....
my response? "Wah issit? Can i go?? huh, cannot har? okie lor, then u go lah. Nvr go b4 go and see wat it's like mah.... come back tell me hor!! " -
Originally posted by Churra:yah, make sure nia.. whether u really behave or not, ur gf also cannot see.... heh.
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Originally posted by tare:once hubby told me he might need to go ktv with his client, cos his client hinted. at 1st told him, orh okie... i pass u my K-box card. he said not tat kinda ktv....it's "tat" kinda ktv.....
my response? "Wah issit? Can i go?? huh, cannot har? okie lor, then u go lah. Nvr go b4 go and see wat it's like mah.... come back tell me hor!! "
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Have been to such a nightclub ONCE.. It was my friend's birthday... All GUYS outings and YES... It's really kinda 'happening'... All the HUGGINGS, GROPINGS and such..
He even ordered a girl for me... Ya.. She tried to touch me and such... And believe me.. If your mind's really not there, it's just not there... No matter what happens... (Ok, ok... I ADMIT.. I'm IMPOTENT...
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he's just being honest
better than doing it behind her back right?
colleagues asked him to go (peer pressure), its a guys' outing.
But think about it, how often do a group of grown men go out as a group? Not often right? I'm sure he must be thinking "Once in a while jio me... at least go give face" (Very singlish, i know).
For me personally, I go play football with my friends. But every group has their own way of hanging out. Just that this group thought of going to a nightclub.
If he can tell her, then he should be sure he will behave himself.
From what I see, it is not a test. He's just trying to tell her that he is able to be honest with her and he will behave himself.
If your friend is to pick on him because of this... he might not be as honest in future. -
That's the positive response most hope to get.Originally posted by tare:once hubby told me he might need to go ktv with his client, cos his client hinted. at 1st told him, orh okie... i pass u my K-box card. he said not tat kinda ktv....it's "tat" kinda ktv.....
my response? "Wah issit? Can i go?? huh, cannot har? okie lor, then u go lah. Nvr go b4 go and see wat it's like mah.... come back tell me hor!! "
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tts reverse psychologyOriginally posted by kopiosatu:That's the positive response most hope to get. -
well at least he tells u..not tat bad if u see it in another angle...but if u r not comfortable, just voice out lor....
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errr... nope i really thot if can go and see not bad....Originally posted by FireIce:tts reverse psychology
but at the end he din lah.... he was hoping i KBKP then he got excuse not to go. end up he spent few hundreds $$ buy a gift for his client instead. -
there isn't anything really wrong with going to these places... i've told my partner i was going to these "Papaya-land" so many times... this is part and parcel of my job... entertainment. even told her i've been to those massage parlours (minus all the "Special" details)
there were times i've even told her how these gals stripped and paraded in the rooms... of cos she felt much better when I told her I was going to LIDO PALACE cos she knows the gals there more "high-class"
anyway, the bottom line is.... whats wrong with telling her. if she is mature enough to trust you, you can tell her anything... but if she's still the immature sort, you can tell her you're going to the library and she'll still suspect if you're there to meet another gal.... -
positive but uncommon, so dun hope for tat!Originally posted by kopiosatu:That's the positive response most hope to get.
most ppl give me the look.... some friends thot i siao one.... -
i haven been to those places b4, but i m rather keen to go..to experience wat's like n kinda go look see look see..but i heard its quite expensive...so i gave up the idea..Originally posted by tare:errr... nope i really thot if can go and see not bad....
but at the end he din lah.... he was hoping i KBKP then he got excuse not to go. end up he spent few hundreds $$ buy a gift for his client instead. -
Wah... LIDO PALACE.. Expensive Place wor.. the gals there is it really more high class as in dun anyhow grope the guy.. How different is it then those normal KTV Gals?Originally posted by edseeker31:there isn't anything really wrong with going to these places... i've told my partner i was going to these "Papaya-land" so many times... this is part and parcel of my job... entertainment. even told her i've been to those massage parlours (minus all the "Special" details)
there were times i've even told her how these gals stripped and paraded in the rooms... of cos she felt much better when I told her I was going to LIDO PALACE cos she knows the gals there more "high-class"
anyway, the bottom line is.... whats wrong with telling her. if she is mature enough to trust you, you can tell her anything... but if she's still the immature sort, you can tell her you're going to the library and she'll still suspect if you're there to meet another gal.... -
very different... it depends on who you're entertaining....Originally posted by shirurinu:Wah... LIDO PALACE.. Expensive Place wor.. the gals there is it really more high class as in dun anyhow grope the guy.. How different is it then those normal KTV Gals?
if you're bringing the Jap men.... those sleazy joints are sufficient. In less than 5 mins and hardly before you seats warm-up, they'll pull you to the "Garden".... try to get your "stuffs" out and move on.... these are places I hate going...
Dynasty is a good place too... gals there are more cultured... the most famous sleazy joints of cos are "Bai Tian Er" , "Chateau De Cognac", "Egos"....
In short... KTVs these days are the "papaya-land"...men go there to pluck papayas and try to collect "raisins".... -
U r damn right man.....Originally posted by shirurinu:If is sg gals.. of coz nothing much lo...
But if its those china or vietnam gals.. very difficult to say already lo... coz they come here to make money de.. of coz can be very wild... even the sales gals in shenzhen which i went there also pinch my cheeks.... -
but got friends..haha.Originally posted by ratslen:empty his wallet before he goes out.
Definitely he can't pay for extra services.... NO nets, no CC too. hahahahaa -
well...my feeling is...if she is not happy..does not means she inmature mah..rite? heng sg dun hv duck ktv...or else..she tell u go duck ktv..maybe u also buey song leh..but u cannot..cos u r mature..hehe..Originally posted by edseeker31:there isn't anything really wrong with going to these places... i've told my partner i was going to these "Papaya-land" so many times... this is part and parcel of my job... entertainment. even told her i've been to those massage parlours (minus all the "Special" details)
there were times i've even told her how these gals stripped and paraded in the rooms... of cos she felt much better when I told her I was going to LIDO PALACE cos she knows the gals there more "high-class"
anyway, the bottom line is.... whats wrong with telling her. if she is mature enough to trust you, you can tell her anything... but if she's still the immature sort, you can tell her you're going to the library and she'll still suspect if you're there to meet another gal....
aiya..anyway..how to handle such things u shd know well..i mean..if ur gf can accept..then tell...if not..better hide lah... -
What's wrong with that? You're SO CUTE... Think I would like to do the SAME TOO??Originally posted by larrenV2.003:U r damn right man..... even the sales gals in shenzhen which i went there also pinch my cheeks.... -
What's wrong with that? You're SO CUTE... Think I would like to do the SAME TOO??Originally posted by larrenV2.003:U r damn right man..... even the sales gals in shenzhen which i went there also pinch my cheeks.... -
So u want him to come bk and tell u hor the edited version story or the original story????Originally posted by tare:once hubby told me he might need to go ktv with his client, cos his client hinted. at 1st told him, orh okie... i pass u my K-box card. he said not tat kinda ktv....it's "tat" kinda ktv.....
my response? "Wah issit? Can i go?? huh, cannot har? okie lor, then u go lah. Nvr go b4 go and see wat it's like mah.... come back tell me hor!! "
edited version is .... wah many girls and very they are very wild lor end up the client got quite drunk bring one girl out and he come home after seeing the client to 88 hotel and reach home at 3am no cab, end of story. or might also he got a few kisses here and there too, make u jealous a little.
full version ..... actually two girls and two guys went to 88 or may be 3 girls...... hhehehehee let your imagination do the work...............got a blow job at ktv and continue to 88 for gun firing and reach home tired at 3am.