The Child Is Not YOURS!
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evil boyOriginally posted by boy in blues:marry her and try to get her to abort or at least kill the bastard child
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1. first of all, all mistakes are honest. nobody will say they did a deliberate 'MISTAKE'. However, making an honest mistake, doesn't mean you are not stupid.
2. And therefore, doesn't mean it will be the last 'Honest Mistake'
3. Tell her the ball should be in HER court. She obviously did something (mistake or not) and the least of the consequences she should face up to is how to handle things. Her responsibility towards the child, and towards her relationship with you, AND to you - should be her decision.
4. It isn't fair for her to ask you that question. If she still loves you and want to be with you , then I think the least she can do is to tell you. And THEN, you decide if you want to accept her or not. And if you don't, well, think after being unfaithful to you, and she doesnt even respect you enough to bare her feelings and risk rejection - i have to say i think she is not just weak but also irresponsible - do you really want someone like this?
5. Having said that, even if you decide you can forgive but not 'forget', she is probably in an emotional fragile state at the moment so do be a friend. It's bad enough for a girl to get pregnant when she doesn't want to be, so don't have to rub it in. Though I think the fact that you care abt her enough to think about whether want to continue the rship is .. well gentlemanly enough.
6. Yes it's may have just been a mistake - but can you forget? If you or she cannot accept the emotional baggage that comes with infidelity, you may 'patch up' only to 'break up' later on again because of insecurity. Suspicion and distrust is a difficult shadow to live under. -
wow.......Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:1. first of all, all mistakes are honest. nobody will say they did a deliberate 'MISTAKE'. However, making an honest mistake, doesn't mean you are not stupid.
2. And therefore, doesn't mean it will be the last 'Honest Mistake'
3. Tell her the ball should be in HER court. She obviously did something (mistake or not) and the least of the consequences she should face up to is how to handle things. Her responsibility towards the child, and towards her relationship with you, AND to you - should be her decision.
4. It isn't fair for her to ask you that question. If she still loves you and want to be with you , then I think the least she can do is to tell you. And THEN, you decide if you want to accept her or not. And if you don't, well, think after being unfaithful to you, and she doesnt even respect you enough to bare her feelings and risk rejection - i have to say i think she is not just weak but also irresponsible - do you really want someone like this?
5. Having said that, even if you decide you can forgive but not 'forget', she is probably in an emotional fragile state at the moment so do be a friend. It's bad enough for a girl to get pregnant when she doesn't want to be, so don't have to rub it in. Though I think the fact that you care abt her enough to think about whether want to continue the rship is .. well gentlemanly enough.
6. Yes it's may have just been a mistake - but can you forget? If you or she cannot accept the emotional baggage that comes with infidelity, you may 'patch up' only to 'break up' later on again because of insecurity. Suspicion and distrust is a difficult shadow to live under. -
4) Call mother and complain that you lugi liao...kena cheated liao. Then break off with her and wish her all the best with the father of her child (if she ever figured out who the hell the guy was anyway). And immediately take out your standby/potential gf phone list and start calling them out one by one. Congratulations, life was good to you...but now life will be even better for you.Originally posted by The Hobbit:What will you do if your STEADY gf told u that she's pregnant but the child is not yours? What's your reactions?
1) Will you accept the truth and marry her?
2) break off
3) slap her and say sorry
4) others(pls state what others instead of
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and you thought the child is yours all the while.........
Hahahhahaa.................... 
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good idea?Originally posted by parn:4) Call mother and complain that you lugi liao...kena cheated liao. Then break off with her and wish her all the best with the father of her child (if she ever figured out who the hell the guy was anyway). And immediately take out your standby/potential gf phone list and start calling them out one by one. Congratulations, life was good to you...but now life will be even better for you. Hahahhahaa....................