What's Happening Here?
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two thumbs up... you're the Saint... you've touched on the best part...Originally posted by Saint_Evil:I also believe this particular forum is becoming a rather silly place to come to.
There are so many clones here posting rubbish! One or 2 threads are enough, but they (or he) insists on posting one story after another. In the beginning, I found it amusing. But soon, it became rather irritating.
The fault doesn't just lie with the clones. Normal users hae become VERY sceptical when people post their experiences or queries. Perhaps we should always give the benefit of doubt to fellow users. They may not be as intelligent or as streetwise as you. However, sometimes I do feel sceptical about some experiences and queries, but hey, just answer if you want to answer. Don't answer if you have nothing good to say. It's an open forum, yes, so you are free to air your views. But know the limits. Some responses I've seen are really uncalled for. (FYI, I'm not really a person who post a lot, but I do read what has been posted here.)
Now, I'm just trying to be frank here. I believe there will be people who will not be happy about what I have said here. But why don't we try to make this forum a better place? A forum's quality depends very much on the users. To be frank, this forum's quality is going really low.
My point is, just live and let live. Reply to queries if you want. But if you feel like posting something spiteful, please refrain from it. It will definitely improve the quality of posts. (I'm not naming anyone. I dun remember the names also.)
And one more word to clones. Please grow up, and stop the childishness. Initially it was entertaining. But these things get boring after a while. If you have nothing better to post, please refrain from posting as well. There are sites where you can post your erotic stories. If you want to make known your talent in writing adult stories, please write to those sites instead of here.
Sorry for the long post. I just hope that Bar can become a forum of quality.
lets take the response I get much earlier for example...
here we are just asking nicely for the fellow users to put up something more interesting, stimulatin, and something nice... there I get some silly fella posting his reply as "something nice....." wish they'll just stop trying to be funny and ending up being corny....sigh. -
I come into this forum for my daily dose of laughter.
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How to have laughter if all the jokes are so overused? Like Saint_Evil has said, too many clones. Also oo many wannabes and act-smart people who are more interested in dissing people at every oppurtunity. Doesn't help that they get encouragement from the MOD.Originally posted by shandower:I come into this forum for my daily dose of laughter. -
Don't think we've ever been alone. Just maybe not all of us speak out. Don't know about this time round but in the past, those who speak up always get shot down. Doesn't matter if they were right or wrong, they were just shot down anyway.Originally posted by edseeker31:alas.. another comrade...
So, I'm not alone thinking about this...
cheers to you....
if you'll ask me, I don't know what the hell's been written about the Van something.... -
i can't move threads my darling
can oni close or delete.........
like i care about Bar rating?
bery glam to have sex topics topping the ranking in a local forum? -
Originally posted by shandower:I come into this forum for my daily dose of laughter. me too
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If you don't feel anything glam or good about having sex-topics in your forum, why not just ask for them to be put elsewhere? In other words, shift it out of BAR? Declare from now on, no more sex-related topics in BAR?Originally posted by FireIce:i can't move threads my darling
can oni close or delete.........
like i care about Bar rating?
bery glam to have sex topics topping the ranking in a local forum? -
my sentiments too....Originally posted by SumOne:If you don't feel anything glam or good about having sex-topics in your forum, why not just ask for them to be put elsewhere? In other words, shift it out of BAR?
This place definitely used to be a lot more intriguing... filled with stories that explores further into our imaginations... and also stimulating... after a hard day's works, what you'd like to see when you come in here is to relax...
But with these loads of bull-S.H.I.T and craps going around... its rather frustrating... then some character will come along and ask me, then why still come if thats how I feel... Like I said, I'm still searching for something better... which brings about the reason for my polite asking for all to put up something nice... -
Apparently, nobody has answered my question yet, why don't they consider shifting the sex-related topics out of BAR? Like the MOD has said, it doesn't matter if the ratings for BAR drops because of these topics right?
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hey pal... I guess their silence means lan lan cannot do anything...Originally posted by SumOne:Apparently, nobody has answered my question yet, why don't they consider shifting the sex-related topics out of BAR? Like the MOD has said, it doesn't matter if the ratings for BAR drops because of these topics right?
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This place is getting super sleezy
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Before I burst into laughter..Originally posted by SumOne:Apparently, nobody has answered my question yet, why don't they consider shifting the sex-related topics out of BAR? Like the MOD has said, it doesn't matter if the ratings for BAR drops because of these topics right?
if Bar dont post sex-related topics, then what?
If you move sex related topics to another forum, then wouldnt that forum become the Bar it is today?
Just to add, if Jason ban all sex related topics, then there might be chaos. Some people would complain, more idiots will register new nicks to come in and post a la Cortez....
Ok, pardon me while I go somewhere and roll on floor laughing.... -
Your response actually adds to what I want to say. From your post can tell that you expect to see sex-related topics in BAR and no where else.Originally posted by laurence82:Before I burst into laughter..
if Bar dont post sex-related topics, then what?
If you move sex related topics to another forum, then wouldnt that forum become the Bar it is today?
Just to add, if Jason ban all sex related topics, then there might be chaos. Some people would complain, more idiots will register new nicks to come in and post a la Cortez....
Ok, pardon me while I go somewhere and roll on floor laughing....
Well, again it brings me back to the same point. If BAR is allocated for sex-related topics, then why does the MOD discriminate against those who start such threads? My point is if this MOD is so unhappy having sex-related topics in her forum, why not just let the sex-related topics be in another forum under a different moderator? Or can the moderator in BAR be at a more neutral person?
Whether or not that other forum becomes another BAR seriously depends on the moderator and the standards he/she sets.
I myself find it a joke that BAR is the place for sex-related topics yet in the past people always get dissed for starting sex-related threads. I notice that the MOD no longer does this though.
Carry on laughing dude, but you've only helped prove my point. -
u got probram wif me? wait me ask me boss send peepur beet u up.Originally posted by edseeker31:alas.. another comrade...
So, I'm not alone thinking about this...
cheers to you....
if you'll ask me, I don't know what the hell's been written about the Van something.... -
Curry favour who? FireICE? Muahahahahahahaaahaa.Originally posted by SumOne:One thing also is that it's become so predictable that the people in BAR will twist the meaning of a thread and change the topic of the post. As a result the thread develops into a thread for crapping and that is why there is so much crapping in BAR.
Initially it was funny that people twist a sex-related topic into something else, but it happens so often now that it's expected. The joke has gotten seriously stale by now yet some people still do it. Why? To curry favour the moderator and the girls and to join the 'I spoiled the thread' club.
Don't you all find that there are so many lame topics in BAR? Too many people try to show off what little wit they have and wannabies who want to make the same jokes that others make.
Some jokes have been really overused which makes this forum really boring. Like The Hobbit and all his clones of other ppl's thread. Initially it was funny but now that joke is very stale as well.
Just highlighting some of the things that happen. I'm fine if some of you disgree with me, but no point flaming me back. Just tell me why you disagree, no need to get personal.
Hey imagine someone tell you a big story about his sex life and you know that guy is a wannabe and trying to impress but failed badly. What will you say?
"Mai tua kang lah!"
Same what... The reactions here are reasonable, though I believe there are those who oftenly make a joke out of every single thread in Bar. I do selective bombardments.
There are some that deserved the reactions. It's so obvious. -
At least help the government mah.Originally posted by FireIce:i can't move threads my darling
can oni close or delete.........
like i care about Bar rating?
bery glam to have sex topics topping the ranking in a local forum?
But these people fantasize more than they go into action. -
I tell u...whats happening in BAR is because there are too many young school kiddo who are god damm curious abt sex.
That y u can see them making a mess out of this forum...Just by looking at the reply, I can roughly guess if the person behind those words are grown up adult or are just kiddo trying to create topics to provoke, to excite, and to fulfil their own sexual urge and fantasy..
But there is no way we can stop them right?
So seriously, its a Lan Lan situation for true serious forumite. -
finally more and more sensible ppl are posting what they really think instead of letting things go the way they are. (ever notice the difference in quality of the posts between normal sensible human beings and no-brain, unfunny crappers?)Originally posted by Saint_Evil:I also believe this particular forum is becoming a rather silly place to come to.
There are so many clones here posting rubbish! One or 2 threads are enough, but they (or he) insists on posting one story after another. In the beginning, I found it amusing. But soon, it became rather irritating.
Now, I'm just trying to be frank here. I believe there will be people who will not be happy about what I have said here. But why don't we try to make this forum a better place? A forum's quality depends very much on the users. To be frank, this forum's quality is going really low.
And one more word to clones. Please grow up, and stop the childishness. Initially it was entertaining. But these things get boring after a while. If you have nothing better to post, please refrain from posting as well. There are sites where you can post your erotic stories. If you want to make known your talent in writing adult stories, please write to those sites instead of here.
Too bad the mentality of the mod on this board is to follow what the majority wants, instead of adhearing to rules of the board. Just because things have been done for a long time, the mods just let it be.
well, the mod is doing work, but it seems to me that things needed to be modded are not being done, and vice versa
* waits for the first ass-kisser to say any of the following typical response whenever someone posts something pertaining to improving Bar*
1) If you dont like it here, go post somewhere else lah!
2) If you so good, then become mod lor!
3) Things have always been like that and ppl here like it, just let it be lor. -
I wonder any serious forumite here are marine fish hobbist?
If u ever go into sgreefclub.com (singapore official reef forum)
U will know how strict the Mod is. He is really those mod tt do work.
And i have to say he did a great job. It just keep the forum intact
and focus without dwelling OUT OF TOPIC.
Also u dont see ppl there talk like siao gin na (stupid kiddo)
every topic brought up is purposeful, informative..
But in BAR, which is suppose to be an adult section, I thought there should also be a healthy exchange of adult queries and information...but alas, what i see here are total crapping to the extend i am wondering.. are the mods really doing their work?
I suggest there should be another forum title "sex crap"
Mainly for ppl who like to write story and really just for laugh kind of things...
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Some, but not all.Originally posted by Nelstar:Curry favour who? FireICE? Muahahahahahahaaahaa.
Hey imagine someone tell you a big story about his sex life and you know that guy is a wannabe and trying to impress but failed badly. What will you say?
"Mai tua kang lah!"
Same what... The reactions here are reasonable, though I believe there are those who oftenly make a joke out of every single thread in Bar. I do selective bombardments.
There are some that deserved the reactions. It's so obvious.