Why would a Gal wanna get physically intimate....

• larry_longwei

  3 Sep 04, 01:17

  Why would a Gal wanna get physically intimate(no sex involved) wif a Guy but afterwhich not wanna get into a relationship wif him? Even if she likes him and knows that nobody else treats her better than the Guy does..?
• I-like-flings(m)

  3 Sep 04, 01:18

  for fun lor... gals can be horny too u know?
• SnowFlag

  3 Sep 04, 01:35

  Originally posted by larry_longwei:
  Why would a Gal wanna get physically intimate(no sex involved) wif a Guy but afterwhich not wanna get into a relationship wif him? [b]Even if she likes him and knows that nobody else treats her better than the Guy does..?[/b]

  Maybe she haven't made up her mind.
• larry_longwei

  3 Sep 04, 01:38

  Originally posted by SnowFlag:

  Maybe she haven't made up her mind.

  more like she can't let go...
  
  A wait B... B wait C..
• xking

  3 Sep 04, 02:22

  Originally posted by larry_longwei:
  Why would a Gal wanna get physically intimate(no sex involved) wif a Guy but afterwhich not wanna get into a relationship wif him? [b]Even if she likes him and knows that nobody else treats her better than the Guy does..?[/b]

  such gals are those fickle-minded sort who got a few options and cant make up their mind...not all are like that thou.
  
  but i met such a gal once.... N i tink if she cant make up her mind....
  leave her......better safe than sorry.
• Axelheat755

  3 Sep 04, 02:26

  Originally posted by larry_longwei:
  Why would a Gal wanna get physically intimate(no sex involved) wif a Guy but afterwhich not wanna get into a relationship wif him? [b]Even if she likes him and knows that nobody else treats her better than the Guy does..?[/b]

  i have such a friend... her excuse " the guy is a good bf but ... cannot live wif him cos both of them is bad tempered "
• larry_longwei

  3 Sep 04, 02:36

  Originally posted by xking:

  such gals are those fickle-minded sort who got a few options and cant make up their mind...not all are like that thou.
  
  but i met such a gal once.... N i tink if she cant make up her mind....
  leave her......better safe than sorry.

  
• xking

  3 Sep 04, 02:38

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  i have such a friend... her excuse " the guy is a good bf but ... cannot live wif him cos both of them is bad tempered "

  women are good at giving all sorts of excuses sometimes.
  They can simply just say "he's not my type"
• SnowFlag

  3 Sep 04, 02:38

  Originally posted by larry_longwei:

  more like she can't let go...
  
  A wait B... B wait C..

  can u let go?
• Axelheat755

  3 Sep 04, 02:40

  Originally posted by xking:

  women are good at giving all sorts of excuses sometimes.
  They can simply just say "he's not my type"

  thats the thing.. the guy IS her type...but she is also attached to another guy and den the guy is her best friend's bf... argh... complicated relationship...
  
• larry_longwei

  3 Sep 04, 02:40

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  i have such a friend... her excuse " the guy is a good bf but ... cannot live wif him cos both of them is bad tempered "

  Wan to eat the cake, but wanna keep it at the same time..
• larry_longwei

  3 Sep 04, 02:41

  Originally posted by xking:

  women are good at giving all sorts of excuses sometimes.
  They can simply just say "he's not my type"

  But why can't they say it..?
• larry_longwei

  3 Sep 04, 02:42

  Originally posted by SnowFlag:

  can u let go?

  C already outta the picture.. but she can't let go..
  
  me leh..? lagi can't let go..
  dats why i'm here looking for an excuse to w/o feeling guilty when she turns around and say "Why didn't U wait?"..
• larry_longwei

  3 Sep 04, 02:44

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  thats the thing.. the guy IS her type...but she is also attached to another guy and den the guy is her best friend's bf... argh... complicated relationship...
  

  Friend's property = no touch...
  Other than dat is, Winner gets the keeps.. My theory...
• Axelheat755

  3 Sep 04, 02:57

  Originally posted by larry_longwei:

  Friend's property = no touch...
  

  well if ur friend told u he love this ger, not stead yet, is she still available or considered friend property?
• larry_longwei

  3 Sep 04, 03:05

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  well if ur friend told u he love this ger, not stead yet, is she still available or considered friend property?

  once liked the same gal wif a very good friend..
  we both let her go together w/o telling each other..
  
  our luv(brotherly) for each other turned out stronger than that for the ger..
• Axelheat755

  3 Sep 04, 03:07

  Originally posted by larry_longwei:

  once liked the same gal wif a very good friend..
  we both let her go together w/o telling each other..
  
  our luv(brotherly) for each other turned out stronger than that for the ger..

  you haben answered the question...
• larry_longwei

  3 Sep 04, 03:15

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  you haben answered the question...

  technically the ger is no1's property, my point of view..
  
  its the ger's choice who she wants.. and she really like/luv whichever 1 of the guy, she shld let both go.. unless of coz the couple's, yet, relationship doesn't put a strain on both the guys...
• Axelheat755

  3 Sep 04, 03:38

  Originally posted by larry_longwei:

  technically the ger is no1's property, my point of view..
  
  its the ger's choice who she wants.. and she really like/luv whichever 1 of the guy, she shld let both go.. unless of coz the couple's, yet, relationship doesn't put a strain on both the guys...

  u saying the ger should give up both guys?
• larry_longwei

  3 Sep 04, 03:44

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  u saying the ger should give up both guys?

  in a way yes...
  
  if i proclaim dat i'm seriously in luv wif the guy, i wun wan him to strain his friendship bcoz of me.. then again.. luv is selfish...
  
  ultimately, the ger has to decide for herself..
• Axelheat755

  3 Sep 04, 03:45

  Originally posted by larry_longwei:

  in a way yes...
  
  if i proclaim dat i'm seriously in luv wif the guy, i wun wan him to strain his friendship bcoz of me.. then again.. luv is selfish...
  
  ultimately, the ger has to decide for herself..

  den supposing in ur case, if ur friend declares that he loves ur nightingale, will u leave the triangle?
• larry_longwei

  3 Sep 04, 03:47

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  den supposing in ur case, if ur friend declares that he loves ur nightingale, will u leave the triangle?

  nobody knows who she is.. so i'm free from dat headache..
• Axelheat755

  3 Sep 04, 03:49

  Originally posted by larry_longwei:

  nobody knows who she is.. so i'm free from dat headache..

  its an example la...
• larry_longwei

  3 Sep 04, 03:53

  Originally posted by Axelheat755:

  its an example la...

  in my current situation, i'll prolly let go..
  but dats bcoz she's been refusing to accept me.. but considering how close we've been, we'll prolly not b able to look each other in the eye anymore..
• Axelheat755

  3 Sep 04, 04:20

  Originally posted by larry_longwei:

  she's been refusing to accept me..

  and we have a winner...
  
  i can only assume that the ger gives u a bit of sweet so that u " the spare " will be right at her side anytime she wants...
  
  hope its not true..