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Originally posted by forum_man:
i knew im in deep @##*...but still im enjoying this cherished moments now...enjoy what u can, tackle whatever may come later...
Today whole day nv acc my gf sis...becoz my gf whole day stick to me...but nevertheless i still give her a call once in a while just to let her feel happy...
This type of underground relation very thrilling, now then i knw..
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Well... if this whole thing is true then I think many are really sad for the girls and the family.
Me, I pity you. why?It is not bec that you will end up with nothing - that like I said previously is of no importance.
But by giving in to this trilling undergnd sex ... you will change (if you have not already changed!). YOu will find it harder and harder to love be truthful and faithful, no matter how beautiful and fantastic the girl is

why? Bec sex is more importantant then love, commitment, fidelity and faithfulness. So these things means nothing to you anymore. A girl in your head now is only good for sex, someone for you to poke.
You have become selfish and will exploit any girl that you fancy just to satisfy your sexual urges.So how does this impact your future??? your selfishness you will not allow you to be happy with that lovely and wonderful girl/wife, you will want more and more underground sex including visiting Pros! Why? bec like you said.. its so trilling!!
I have never seen a person who cheated live a happy life.. no its not a curse it just plain reality. They brought the pain and long term unhappiness on themselves. All the heartaches and relational damage plus the inability to have a normal loving close and intimate with their spouse
You do not know what love is and even if you did you have already lost the real meaning. you have choosen to focus on yourself and yourself only. You do not want love, you just want selfish sex. Unfortunately all the cheap sex in the whole world will never fill and satisfy your longin for love and intimacy.The above is just plain and simple psychology. No rocket science. I've talked to many couples and individuals over the years and again.... there is no happiness only DEPRESSION. You have never tasted the joy of suffering from DEPRESSION... then continue to live this way and one day you just might get to experience the wonderful joy of DEPRESSION!
So what does all these mean?? Nothing! why? bec you just want whatever it is that you want regardless of consequences. the future and consequences means nothing to you. future pain means nothing bec you have not felt it.
For minutes of fun you choose not to care about the person who stuck by you
does any of these things bother you??? no! why bec you never loved your gf and definately do not love the sis...
you only lust and love yourself and you want them around so that you can get cheap sex out of these girls by exploiting their weakness for you...
so having a place to poke your dick regardless of consequences seems more important to you so please poke away

Anyhow, like all things, the longer you are at it the more difficult it is to change... so congrats... keep poking!