Will u help me if u r there?
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I have tis very bad experience
I normally take d same bus every morning, there was this malay man in 40s, short, plump, with acnes on face, dye hair, wear funny color jeans(purple, green), same bus stop. 1 time d bus was very packed i manage to squeeze in near d stairs at entrance, then he was standing behind me, with his big tummy keep rubbing at my bum all d time (yah, he's that short). I tolerate whole journey cos i tout its too packed.
The next few days i saw him then got up bus again, many empty seats so i sat on an empty seat but he just came sit next to me. the whole journey with his hands on his thighs, then arms bend out like can touch my side body, sometimes rubbing on my arms n thighs i moved n shifted uncomfortably but he just act blur. After that, many times, though d bus got many empty seats he just chose to sit bside me. Sometimes made me stick to the window. got 1 time i stood up and sit elsewhere.
The last straw came day when he is about to sit then i told him don't sit beside me anymore, but he ignore me and just sit down. then i shouted" don't sit beside me anymore, do you hear, this is not the 1st time u tried to touch me" then he just act blur and point to me and asked ppl" she gila?" Then again i shouted" do u want me to call the police?" then he just act innocent and stood up and even saying" siao lah, this gal siao one". Throughout this nobody from the bus ask me what happen, everyone just stand 1 side. not even d bus driver ask me, not even any ladies show me concern.
i am very upset by their no reaction at all. Aren't we supposed to help each other? If you are there will you help me? -
are u a lady??
i mean i`ll help u..
but is there a need??
did he really try to touch u??
u could haf called for help.. -
Yes, I will help if i were there.Originally posted by CryoLind:i am very upset by their no reaction at all. Aren't we supposed to help each other? If you are there will you help me?
Btw, there may be a better response if u shouted "molest". -
u sit on the outside...if he comes to sit beside u..once he sits down, u change to another seat lor
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U shouldn't give him any opportunity to strike...
Next, maybe u could get ur close fren to help u... For example sit beside u, so that he couldn't... Or maybe stop taking the same bus?
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and why don u sit w another person??
i pair of seats got 2 seats nia rite??
unless he sit floor lohz.. -
This is also good suggestion...Originally posted by sgboy2004:u sit on the outside...if he comes to sit beside u..once he sits down, u change to another seat lor
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damn it,i hate these kind of ppl,i have been touched b4,seriously,an aboriginal young guy was sitting behind me in a bus,theres a gap on the seats where he put his hand there to feel my butt....i was bloody angry,i told him off loudly n warned him,but he kept on touching,then i told the bus driver,but sadly he couldnt do anything.i was half terrified coz i worried that he will ride the bus all the way till i drop off n follow me....
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red_tide24 to the rescue! where where?? tell me which bus no. and venue of the bus-stop la.. if near my hse maybe tml morning i can go n help? keke.. but i tink next time shld sit with someone else instead of sitting alone if this bugger keep trying to get flesh with u.. or put ur things on the seats loh.. den if he still insist to sit beside u adn ask u to remove ur stuff den u can call police liao
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of cos i'm a lady, and a pretty one OKAY! he didn't use hands and grab me, but just use his arms to rub n feel. Is that enough? anyway, now i take bus from another bus stop, sometimes saw him on the road then he gave me that horny look. Feel like thrashing him up.
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Well, all i noe that wat he did was wrong... This kind of people, i also feel like thrashing him up...Originally posted by CryoLind:of cos i'm a lady, and a pretty one OKAY! he didn't use hands and grab me, but just use his arms to rub n feel. Is that enough? anyway, now i take bus from another bus stop, sometimes saw him on the road then he gave me that horny look. Feel like thrashing him up. -
u should have called the police or ask some male friends or relatives for help. get them to sit elsewhere in the same bus and when the man strikes, they can come over and help.Originally posted by CryoLind:I have tis very bad experience
I normally take d same bus every morning, there was this malay man in 40s, short, plump, with acnes on face, dye hair, wear funny color jeans(purple, green), same bus stop. 1 time d bus was very packed i manage to squeeze in near d stairs at entrance, then he was standing behind me, with his big tummy keep rubbing at my bum all d time (yah, he's that short). I tolerate whole journey cos i tout its too packed.
The next few days i saw him then got up bus again, many empty seats so i sat on an empty seat but he just came sit next to me. the whole journey with his hands on his thighs, then arms bend out like can touch my side body, sometimes rubbing on my arms n thighs i moved n shifted uncomfortably but he just act blur. After that, many times, though d bus got many empty seats he just chose to sit bside me. Sometimes made me stick to the window. got 1 time i stood up and sit elsewhere.
The last straw came day when he is about to sit then i told him don't sit beside me anymore, but he ignore me and just sit down. then i shouted" don't sit beside me anymore, do you hear, this is not the 1st time u tried to touch me" then he just act blur and point to me and asked ppl" she gila?" Then again i shouted" do u want me to call the police?" then he just act innocent and stood up and even saying" siao lah, this gal siao one". Throughout this nobody from the bus ask me what happen, everyone just stand 1 side. not even d bus driver ask me, not even any ladies show me concern.
i am very upset by their no reaction at all. Aren't we supposed to help each other? If you are there will you help me?
btw this man is short, ugly and i am sure a true piss off......pity him coz i belief no girls would even want to giv him the attention he craves. -
the ppl in the bus still couldn't get a full picture of what really happened, but u did a good job by scaring him away, u should know how to protect urself, the rest cannot help u coz they didn't know that he tried to molest u many times. but, if u were to scream for help, then passengers on the bus will definitely come to help u.
a female friend told me this story, last time when she was taking a lift, the guy behind her grabbed her ass, she was very mad but she couldn't do anything coz it's too crowded. when the door opened, the guy walked out very fast, my friend quickly ran to him and kicked his ass with full power, she was surprise, that guy actually turned around and said sorry to her. -
hmm why don't u do the simple thing...
just change the time that u take ur bus, comfirm u won't see him again... -
report to the police abt the past incidents
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stop taking bus loh.. change to taxi or walk..
buy a bicycle and ride also not bad .. -
tough lar...
tell u what..get a rich bf since u pretty
ask him to take u to sch. -
bomb his houseOriginally posted by CryoLind:I have tis very bad experience
I normally take d same bus every morning, there was this malay man in 40s, short, plump, with acnes on face, dye hair, wear funny color jeans(purple, green), same bus stop. 1 time d bus was very packed i manage to squeeze in near d stairs at entrance, then he was standing behind me, with his big tummy keep rubbing at my bum all d time (yah, he's that short). I tolerate whole journey cos i tout its too packed.
The next few days i saw him then got up bus again, many empty seats so i sat on an empty seat but he just came sit next to me. the whole journey with his hands on his thighs, then arms bend out like can touch my side body, sometimes rubbing on my arms n thighs i moved n shifted uncomfortably but he just act blur. After that, many times, though d bus got many empty seats he just chose to sit bside me. Sometimes made me stick to the window. got 1 time i stood up and sit elsewhere.
The last straw came day when he is about to sit then i told him don't sit beside me anymore, but he ignore me and just sit down. then i shouted" don't sit beside me anymore, do you hear, this is not the 1st time u tried to touch me" then he just act blur and point to me and asked ppl" she gila?" Then again i shouted" do u want me to call the police?" then he just act innocent and stood up and even saying" siao lah, this gal siao one". Throughout this nobody from the bus ask me what happen, everyone just stand 1 side. not even d bus driver ask me, not even any ladies show me concern.
i am very upset by their no reaction at all. Aren't we supposed to help each other? If you are there will you help me? -
dun mean to be racist.. but maybe you can bring your bak kwa to eat.. it's pork.. i bet he'll siam!!Originally posted by CryoLind:I have tis very bad experience
I normally take d same bus every morning, there was this malay man in 40s, short, plump, with acnes on face, dye hair, wear funny color jeans(purple, green), same bus stop. 1 time d bus was very packed i manage to squeeze in near d stairs at entrance, then he was standing behind me, with his big tummy keep rubbing at my bum all d time (yah, he's that short). I tolerate whole journey cos i tout its too packed.
The next few days i saw him then got up bus again, many empty seats so i sat on an empty seat but he just came sit next to me. the whole journey with his hands on his thighs, then arms bend out like can touch my side body, sometimes rubbing on my arms n thighs i moved n shifted uncomfortably but he just act blur. After that, many times, though d bus got many empty seats he just chose to sit bside me. Sometimes made me stick to the window. got 1 time i stood up and sit elsewhere.
The last straw came day when he is about to sit then i told him don't sit beside me anymore, but he ignore me and just sit down. then i shouted" don't sit beside me anymore, do you hear, this is not the 1st time u tried to touch me" then he just act blur and point to me and asked ppl" she gila?" Then again i shouted" do u want me to call the police?" then he just act innocent and stood up and even saying" siao lah, this gal siao one". Throughout this nobody from the bus ask me what happen, everyone just stand 1 side. not even d bus driver ask me, not even any ladies show me concern.
i am very upset by their no reaction at all. Aren't we supposed to help each other? If you are there will you help me?
but i think you should've moved when he tried to do something funny. i've experienced such people too, but not so unfortunate to always run into them. there was this filthy old man who kept staring at me for like 5 mins continuously... at my chest!!
as for people not helping, it's v common. it's the bypassers syndrome. society caused it. the presence of many people helped make the situation worse. pple are jus sitting around waiting for others to help instead.
i once saw a limping man fall right into the crowds as he got off the bus at orchard.. no one helped.. i helped him pick up his stuff. -
My dear gal...Originally posted by CryoLind:I have tis very bad experience
I normally take d same bus every morning, there was this malay man in 40s, short, plump, with acnes on face, dye hair, wear funny color jeans(purple, green), same bus stop. 1 time d bus was very packed i manage to squeeze in near d stairs at entrance, then he was standing behind me, with his big tummy keep rubbing at my bum all d time (yah, he's that short). I tolerate whole journey cos i tout its too packed.
The next few days i saw him then got up bus again, many empty seats so i sat on an empty seat but he just came sit next to me. the whole journey with his hands on his thighs, then arms bend out like can touch my side body, sometimes rubbing on my arms n thighs i moved n shifted uncomfortably but he just act blur. After that, many times, though d bus got many empty seats he just chose to sit bside me. Sometimes made me stick to the window. got 1 time i stood up and sit elsewhere.
The last straw came day when he is about to sit then i told him don't sit beside me anymore, but he ignore me and just sit down. then i shouted" don't sit beside me anymore, do you hear, this is not the 1st time u tried to touch me" then he just act blur and point to me and asked ppl" she gila?" Then again i shouted" do u want me to call the police?" then he just act innocent and stood up and even saying" siao lah, this gal siao one". Throughout this nobody from the bus ask me what happen, everyone just stand 1 side. not even d bus driver ask me, not even any ladies show me concern.
i am very upset by their no reaction at all. Aren't we supposed to help each other? If you are there will you help me?
You shouldnt have tolerated till like after so many days..
the more u wait the more daring he is..cuz come on..since u can take the same bus with him everyday at the same timing..do u not think the other pple in the bus would have seen u with him more then once already?
i guess that is why they didnt help or react when u asked for help...
you cannot do anything much now actually...the most u can do is to get a few frens to bash him up..but wad good will that do?
my sugguest to u is to try ta avoid him as much as u can now..
until there is a way that u can prove that he did really touch u..otherwise the police will have a hard time to penalise him also...
Cheers
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i would suggest that next time u don't sit alone, sit with some other passenger. Or what u can do u can ask ur friend to accompany u, and when this happen again, give him a hard warning or a better one is carry a pepper spray on ur hand and make sure he see it. If he disturb u again, just aim ur shoot .
Anyway don't get frustrated over this kind of idiot right all the best -
Scream molest. That will grab everyone attn.
Then ask the bus driver to steer to the nearest NPP.
He must do it otherwise u threaten to complain. -
y not bring a bag??? ur bag occupy 1 sit n u sit the other...
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yeah...i would say i will help u over here in the forum.
but if in actual situation, i bet hardly anyone will take any action.
this is call the herd instinct.
everyone just follow what the majority is doing.
so if the majority arnt doing anything, no one will care and pretend not to know.
But if i am u, i will have shouted out long ago... cant believe u actually let him brush against u for so many times before u decided to take action. -
What happened after you confronted him. Did he still dare to come near you?