Who's fault is it?
-
Scenerio: A single lady goes out with a married man, she got drunk and found herself naked on the bed.
Question(1): Who's fault? Should she not go out with him and that will not happened.
Question (2): Much later on, he admitted that he did it and willing to be responsible. But he can't divorce his wife. She became his mistress. Should she do that? -
Scenario. E and A are very far apart.
There is no way to be objective in the first question. Chicken or egg anyone?
-
erm.. if im the girl, i would act nothing happen
and avoid meeting that guy anymore
bcos he took advantage on me
-
Their parents fault, shouldn't have given birth to them in the first place.
-
Mai lai lah!Originally posted by ditzy:Their parents fault, shouldn't have given birth to them in the first place. 
-
1) going out with frans, single, attached or even married is nothing wrong....Originally posted by Christy:Scenerio: A single lady goes out with a married man, she got drunk and found herself naked on the bed.
Question(1): Who's fault? Should she not go out with him and that will not happened.
Question (2): Much later on, he admitted that he did it and willing to be responsible. But he can't divorce his wife. She became his mistress. Should she do that?
but she shld protect herself by not getting drunk, n the guy shld not take advantage of the gal when she is drunk....
2) the gal shld not have anything to do with the guy anymore.... don jiu chan bu qing....... -
Your reply I like!Originally posted by thhong22:1) going out with frans, single, attached or even married is nothing wrong....
but she shld protect herself by not getting drunk, n the guy shld not take advantage of the gal when she is drunk....
2) the gal shld not have anything to do with the guy anymore.... don jiu chan bu qing.......
1) The whole damned world is wrong.
2) Very Xian Dai Hua Nu Xing - I admire!
Wah, your future husband will be a lucky guy! -
hahhaa... tat's wat i tot lah...Originally posted by Nelstar:Your reply I like!
1) The whole damned world is wrong.
2) Very Xian Dai Hua Nu Xing - I admire!
Wah, your future husband will be a lucky guy!
the guy wan responsible so wat? he still got his wife... become mistress wait kena find out oso die...... hahaha
so leave the guy better......... bo taiji
anyway not say u love the guy alot mah..... -
(1)Originally posted by Christy:Scenerio: A single lady goes out with a married man, she got drunk and found herself naked on the bed.
Question(1): Who's fault? Should she not go out with him and that will not happened.
Question (2): Much later on, he admitted that he did it and willing to be responsible. But he can't divorce his wife. She became his mistress. Should she do that?
they shd jus stick to coke or orange juice
(2)
they shd elope to zimbabwe so they have live happily ever after -
Q1) both shouldn't go out in the 1st place as it will invite gossip.Originally posted by Christy:Scenerio: A single lady goes out with a married man, she got drunk and found herself naked on the bed.
Question(1): Who's fault? Should she not go out with him and that will not happened.
Question (2): Much later on, he admitted that he did it and willing to be responsible. But he can't divorce his wife. She became his mistress. Should she do that?
Q2) why shd they b together when the guy had raped the woman. -
the problem of gossip ....Originally posted by SnowFlag:Q1) both shouldn't go out in the 1st place as it will invite gossip.
Q2) why shd they b together when the guy had raped the woman.
do u not go out with your frens just because it may invite gossip ?? -
;Originally posted by BeEtHoVeN:the problem of gossip ....
do u not go out with your frens just because it may invite gossip ??
-
going out with groups of frens is ok, but dating with a married man will invite gossip.Originally posted by BeEtHoVeN:the problem of gossip ....
do u not go out with your frens just because it may invite gossip ?? -
who said it was a date?
-
(1) I think this case can report police - this is clearly a rape case.Originally posted by Christy:Scenerio: A single lady goes out with a married man, she got drunk and found herself naked on the bed.
Question(1): Who's fault? Should she not go out with him and that will not happened.
Question (2): Much later on, he admitted that he did it and willing to be responsible. But he can't divorce his wife. She became his mistress. Should she do that?
(2) As above.
If not, I also want to go out and drink with Char Bo liao. So Ho Tan. -
Anyway, if more practical also must Qiao that guy a sum of $$ for compensation, threatening to report police if don't give $$.
And remember to go buy Bi Yun Yao immediately, just in case got ma fun . . . . . . . . . . . . -
agreed. nothing wrong with outing out with friends as long as there's a line drawn.Originally posted by thhong22:1) going out with frans, single, attached or even married is nothing wrong....
but she shld protect herself by not getting drunk, n the guy shld not take advantage of the gal when she is drunk....
2) the gal shld not have anything to do with the guy anymore.... don jiu chan bu qing.......
The guy should not take the advantage and spoil the trust the gal has put in him. Worse to take advantage of a drunk gal
Friends who took advantage of you... is NOT yr friend -
Originally posted by thhong22:1) going out with frans, single, attached or even married is nothing wrong....
but she shld protect herself by not getting drunk, n the guy shld not take advantage of the gal when she is drunk....
2) the gal shld not have anything to do with the guy anymore.... don jiu chan bu qing.......
goood.. yeah...girl must learn to protect themself sometimes.. -
I think sometimes the girl is not in the fault.Originally posted by SGpork: goood.. yeah...girl must learn to protect themself sometimes.. -
Both !Originally posted by Christy:Scenerio: A single lady goes out with a married man, she got drunk and found herself naked on the bed.
Question(1): Who's fault? Should she not go out with him and that will not happened.
Question (2): Much later on, he admitted that he did it and willing to be responsible. But he can't divorce his wife. She became his mistress. Should she do that?
1) Lady wrong to go out with married man & wrong to get drunk ! Wrong to become the mistress, should just walk away.
2) Guy wrong to go out with another lady when he is married, wrong to take advantage of the lady, wrong to ask he to be his mistress. -
i will think goin out with each other are nt wrong.. but goin out just both of them will be wrong...Originally posted by storywolf:Both !
1) Lady wrong to go out with married man & wrong to get drunk ! Wrong to become the mistress, should just walk away.
2) Guy wrong to go out with another lady when he is married, wrong to take advantage of the lady, wrong to ask he to be his mistress.
Think of it... why will the lady want to go out with the married man??
also... why will the man allow the lady and himself to get drunk..? or only the lady got drunk?
RAPED!!!! -
Qn 1Originally posted by Christy:Scenerio: A single lady goes out with a married man, she got drunk and found herself naked on the bed.
Question(1): Who's fault? Should she not go out with him and that will not happened.
Question (2): Much later on, he admitted that he did it and willing to be responsible. But he can't divorce his wife. She became his mistress. Should she do that?
Well.. there's absolute nothing wrong for a married person to go out with some1 of the other sex . I believe most of us have close friends of the opposite sexes. At times, we need to confide to them instead.
In the above case, i would like to understand the reason behind why the guy had commit such an act. Is it (A) Purely under the influence of liquor, or (B) the meeting is in fact a plot. if (A), i believe U can just forget the whole thing, n treat it as an "accident". However if it is (B), then this is considered rape, n the person shd be canned.
Sometimes it is not the qn of whether to go out wif married man/woman, but how well gals protect themselves from such unfortunate incidents.
Qn 2
Absolutely NOT !!!!
I don't like the option of guy divorce his wife, & married another. Marriage is sacred & not like some games that U just change ur partner. Always remember this - IF HE CAN DIVORCE HIS WIFE & MARRIED U, ONE DAY HE CAN ALSO DO THE SIMILAR THINGS UPON U "
Gal's youth doesn't last long. Why squander away it to a relationship tat wouldn't last....
My advice: Think of the future, & not how U love this guy now. Love hardly last a lifetime.... -
Answer:
the woman = not smart (to get drunk)
the man = not honorable (to take advantage)
conclusion = both at fault -
v brief aso nv say is the guy v close fren of this girl? aso nv say y they go drinkin?if always go drinkin 1 the girl should nt b drunk...or mayb the girl seldom drink then bcos tis girl gt problem to confine then trust tis fren?the story we aso dono anyway tink tis girl realy sacrifice a lot to see thru tis fren....this kind of fren best is chop tiao cook curry feed dog...eat..nabeiz..tis kinda ting aso can do...i tink this girl should report to police...tell the guy's wife wat happened ...at least let her know her husband is tis kinda man...no nt man..bt beast...bt girls dono hw to drink better dn drink lar...dn action action...end up in bed action..*shake head...haiz....nex time bring milk go ther...say u allergy to alcohol can only drink milk.
-
Originally posted by cheerful:
CLAP CLAP CLAP
[b]Qn 1
Well.. there's absolute nothing wrong for a married person to go out with some1 of the other sex . I believe most of us have close friends of the opposite sexes. At times, we need to confide to them instead.
In the above case, i would like to understand the reason behind why the guy had commit such an act. Is it (A) Purely under the influence of liquor, or (B) the meeting is in fact a plot. if (A), i believe U can just forget the whole thing, n treat it as an "accident". However if it is (B), then this is considered rape, n the person shd be canned.
Sometimes it is not the qn of whether to go out wif married man/woman, but how well gals protect themselves from such unfortunate incidents.
Qn 2
Absolutely NOT !!!!
I don't like the option of guy divorce his wife, & married another. Marriage is sacred & not like some games that U just change ur partner. Always remember this - IF HE CAN DIVORCE HIS WIFE & MARRIED U, ONE DAY HE CAN ALSO DO THE SIMILAR THINGS UPON U "
Gal's youth doesn't last long. Why squander away it to a relationship tat wouldn't last....
My advice: Think of the future, & not how U love this guy now. Love hardly last a lifetime....
[/b]
I appluade to your answers and fully agree to what you have said.
Advise: if going out drinking, please know your limits and control yourself....dont go overborad and place yourself in a situations where its hard to get out from