Who's fault is it?

• supercharger

  20 Sep 04, 15:20

  I agree with most of the posts...
  
  The girl needs to protect herself by not getting drunk... even with good frens around bec you can never tell when a "good" fren can molest you!
  
  The Guy say that he will take responsibility..... wat the HECK does that mean??? How is he going to take responsibility for what he did??? what can he do?? can he undo anything? If girl a virgin... what can he do?? If girl pregnant... what can he do?? If he pass girl some disease... what can he do?? What about the emotional and mental pain... what can he do?? can he undo any of these?
  
  He is married! what can he possibly offer to compensate and to take responsibility??? what he says doesnt make sense! To be kept as a mistress... WORSE. now give sex for a relationship that will amount to nothing!!!
  
  By the way, in law, what the man did can possibly amount to RAPE since she may be deemed incapable of giving consent! One of the thing that got Shanka Aiyae into trouble was the issue of consent! And the law judges that the only responsible thing that he can do is to be punished by being jailed and caned.
  
  Impt Q - how does she actually feel about the whole thing... about waking up being naked!?? That will determine what she should do next and not just blame herself for what had happened.
  
• SnowFlag

  20 Sep 04, 15:25

  Originally posted by Christy:

  he admitted that he did it and willing to be responsible.

  Report to the police n let him be responsible to his action
• jap_mafia

  22 Sep 04, 22:15

  its nobody's fault.
  
  work of nature ...
  
  
• djjc_1

  22 Sep 04, 22:19

  drink......sex......finished
  
  what problem ??
• elindra

  22 Sep 04, 22:22

  Question(1): Who's fault? Should she not go out with him and that will not happened.
  
  Err nothing wrong going out with a married man, but she should have taken care of herself. The guy clearly has not respect for the girl as he took advantage of her when she is drunk.
  
  Question (2): Much later on, he admitted that he did it and willing to be responsible. But he can't divorce his wife. She became his mistress. Should she do that?
  
  Tell him to F off and get a life. Gosh this is rape! Definately trying to take advantage of the situation.! What a bastard!