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Early this afternoon after I made my GF tested and it's positive now we are both lost.She now only know how to cry cry cry made me more heat up.Tomorrow going to see doc to test if she really pregnant if really pregnant,my gf and i decided to give up the child and go for abortion.Now very lost..............................................................................
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no abortion
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No, theres still a possibility of a false positive. Thats why PTKs usually comes in packs of 2. I advise your gf to test again, and this time follow as close to the instructions the PTK gives. Your last resort is the doctor who will do a blood test to see if there is indeed a significant amount of hormone present in the blood.
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idon't want to raise a child when i can't afford and i also don't like children at all noisy and very expensive to have children in sg.Originally posted by FireIce:no abortion
be responsible
later can't afford the kid education,medical fees all these the kid will blame me....i don't wanna work like mad something like most fathers just for the sake of kids and family..ain't worth it at all..so i talk her through abt abortion after confirm with the doc hope she agreeds to go -
how old both of u...
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we use up the 2 PTK liao same results and she only cry here cry there like very KPKB make me more angryOriginally posted by ditzy:No, theres still a possibility of a false positive. Thats why PTKs usually comes in packs of 2. I advise your gf to test again, and this time follow as close to the instructions the PTK gives. Your last resort is the doctor who will do a blood test to see if there is indeed a significant amount of hormone present in the blood. -
want to song but no want be responsible????
have u told each other's parents?
they can help
pls dun kill an innocent life bcos of ur folly -
You don't use 2 PTKs within the same hour, and best not within the same day.
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we both 19 onli how to tell later my parents kill me so just want to keep everything under table and forget the whole matter after the abortionOriginally posted by FireIce:want to song but no want be responsible????
have u told each other's parents?
they can help
pls dun kill an innocent life bcos of ur folly -
NB...Its a baby ok.She thinks she has it in her body.Do you know how SERIOUS that is?Of course she'll be emotionally distraught. You,of all people shd be more understanding.Originally posted by Goh Cheok Tong:we use up the 2 PTK liao same results and she only cry here cry there like very KPKB make me more angry
I kinda feel sorry for her.Anyway,do think through it wisely and make a good decision.Gd Luck. -
Pls advise me wat to do i turn to my friend they tell me to ditch her and find another girl to play wif no need so serious one but cannot ditch lah i really love her like mad
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pls be responsible....
u can sign on if u are still in poly...
den u can afford liao -
u think really can forget the whole matter after the abortion?Originally posted by Goh Cheok Tong:we both 19 onli how to tell later my parents kill me so just want to keep everything under table and forget the whole matter after the abortion
maybe u guys can "swai swai pi gu" and walk away
but do u know that an abortion can be very tramatising for a gal?
idiot irresponsible ba$tard...
maybe u can close one eye lah...somemore only 19...who knows 1 yr down the road you would have already have a new gf and totally forget abt this matter
but for this gal, it will haunt her for the rest of her life
ESPECIALLY she is those emotional type
unless she oso another heartless one like u then i nothing to say liaoz -
since u kids can't handle it, then tell ur parents and her parents and see wat they have to say
whack u u oso must accept -
Tats what my friend did after her gf kena shotgun, force to sign on to support the child...Originally posted by Gary84:pls be responsible....
u can sign on if u are still in poly...
den u can afford liao -
i don't wan a kid even in future because i don't want a burden on me btw how you know i in poly are you one of my freinds who gave me advise in school this morning\?Originally posted by Gary84:pls be responsible....
u can sign on if u are still in poly...
den u can afford liao -
if i were u, i will just tell my frens to fcuk off...Originally posted by Goh Cheok Tong:Pls advise me wat to do i turn to my friend they tell me to ditch her and find another girl to play wif no need so serious one but cannot ditch lah i really love her like mad
how can they give u this type of advise?!?!?!?!?
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i agreeOriginally posted by FireIce:since u kids can't handle it, then tell ur parents and her parents and see wat they have to say
whack u u oso must accept
since u guys THINK you are old enuff to have sex
then u should oso be ADULT enuff to accept the responsibilities tat come with it
cannot handle rite...tell ur parents
rather be a murderer than to kena whack ah
unless u have brutes for parents, otherwise it is their grandchild they will surely help one -
I'm offering you the advice based on my own personal experiences. I have friends and pals who have been in your shoes. Some were lucky, the rest were not. I had men under my command during my ns days. One of my men under me, he was only 18, he was getting married. His wife was 21. Reason for marriage? You guessed it. One of my officers, I thought he was so much wiser. Boy, was I wrong. Older than me, same sh|t. Its stupid loh I tell you.
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f uck youOriginally posted by Goh Cheok Tong:Early this afternoon after I made my GF tested and it's positive now we are both lost.She now only know how to cry cry cry made me more heat up.Tomorrow going to see doc to test if she really pregnant if really pregnant,my gf and i decided to give up the child and go for abortion.Now very lost..............................................................................
if you aren't responsible enough for a sex fu ck
at least be responsible enough for a saved child
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paiseh... I dunno u...Originally posted by Goh Cheok Tong:i don't wan a kid even in future because i don't want a burden on me btw how you know i in poly are you one of my freinds who gave me advise in school this morning\?
but sign on is not a bad choice...
I myself is a regular in Air Force...
The pay after ur diploma is good...
U get paid in Poly days too... -
if my parents noe they confirm force me to marry her tat's 4 sure and also they will disapproved the abortion one then who will carry my burden if i gt kid so early but i marry her later in life but no so soon maybe ten yrs later but confirm marry unless she change her mind
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please... keep this baby... you already got what you want from your GF so it is time to be responsible... If you abort it, you might regret it and your GF will have problem giving birth in the future... two life is at your hand.. so please think twice. 19 years old is already old enough to make mature thinking and to look after a family.. your gf trust you then will make love with you.. please don't make her trust go wasted and please don't kill a human life who is eager to look at this world.. thanks! hope you take your time and think.. I advise you to look for your parent and ask for marriage.. my friend already marry at my age, 17 years old and both agreed.. let alone 19 years old...
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please... keep this baby... you already got what you want from your GF so it is time to be responsible... If you abort it, you might regret it and your GF will have problem giving birth in the future... two life is at your hand.. so please think twice. 19 years old is already old enough to make mature thinking and to look after a family.. your gf trust you then will make love with you.. please don't make her trust go wasted and please don't kill a human life who is eager to look at this world.. thanks! hope you take your time and think.. I advise you to look for your parent and ask for marriage.. my friend already marry at my age, 17 years old and both agreed.. let alone 19 years old...
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parents ah i not on good terms wif them even if i take drugs they oso don't care wan they oso not fit to be parents dunno why give birth to meOriginally posted by elawee:i agree
since u guys THINK you are old enuff to have sex
then u should oso be ADULT enuff to accept the responsibilities tat come with it
cannot handle rite...tell ur parents
rather be a murderer than to kena whack ah
unless u have brutes for parents, otherwise it is their grandchild they will surely help one