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the way i see it, it is irresponsible to be aborting or giving birth to the child considering their states.
frankly, i rather not see the birth of a baby than to have one add to the population under the custody of a couple of immature and unprepared parents. -
read this thread thoroughly
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=52215
and hope u can make the right decision -
sigh....
go see doctor 1st,
i think u still not mature enuf to have a kid, cos u not mature enuf to handle sexual matters, you made yr gf pregnant and you say she KPKB?
KNN.....
you dun love her you pirck! If you love her you will have tot of the consequences when you "song" with her...
abortion seems to be an option.....
but tok to parents 1st...initially sure earthquake, but if you as a guy maintained that u want to keep the child, i belief either side parents will be willing to help look after the baby....
then u must ask yr gf 1st, if yr gf wants to keep baby, then respect her decison and support her.
Thinking that kids are noisy and expensive, then dun want to give birth, then wat did yr parents tot when yr mom carrying you in her womb not too long ago? If she think like you, they would have aborted you and yr gf will not have to suffer this psychological trauma.....
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i am not worry abt the having problem having kids in future becoz me no wan kids at all so now my head going big big liao and you noe my heartbeat now is super fast going to burst a blood vessel anytimeOriginally posted by sg1987:please... keep this baby... you already got what you want from your GF so it is time to be responsible... If you abort it, you might regret it and your GF will have problem giving birth in the future... two life is at your hand.. so please think twice. 19 years old is already old enough to make mature thinking and to look after a family.. your gf trust you then will make love with you.. please don't make her trust go wasted and please don't kill a human life who is eager to look at this world.. thanks! hope you take your time and think.. I advise you to look for your parent and ask for marriage.. my friend already marry at my age, 17 years old and both agreed.. let alone 19 years old... -
U made ppl pregnant and now want ur gf to go to abort the baby just bcos u dun wan it.Originally posted by Goh Cheok Tong:if my parents noe they confirm force me to marry her tat's 4 sure and also they will disapproved the abortion one then who will carry my burden if i gt kid so early but i marry her later in life but no so soon maybe ten yrs later but confirm marry unless she change her mind
U have nvr spare a tot for her? If u dun wan a child, then y do it in the 1st place? Its a life we are toking abt here.
Be a responsible guy. All the reasons u give are just excuses cos u dun wan to make the effort. -
how long can people look after the baby 4 u after sometime they also KPKB say no money why have child all these,.Originally posted by dotaro:sigh....
go see doctor 1st,
i think u still not mature enuf to have a kid, cos u not mature enuf to handle sexual matters, you made yr gf pregnant and you say she KPKB?
KNN.....
you dun love her you pirck! If you love her you will have tot of the consequences when you "song" with her...
abortion seems to be an option.....
but tok to parents 1st...initially sure earthquake, but if you as a guy maintained that u want to keep the child, i belief either side parents will be willing to help look after the baby....
then u must ask yr gf 1st, if yr gf wants to keep baby, then respect her decison and support her.
Thinking that kids are noisy and expensive, then dun want to give birth, then wat did yr parents tot when yr mom carrying you in her womb not too long ago? If she think like you, they would have aborted you and yr gf will not have to suffer this psychological trauma.....
but if gf really want to keep the baby i bo pian have to be cruel already but i do hope she respect my decision too that i don't wish to have kids at all -
i noe it's a life but don't have sex how to survived sure gt misfire one but i think abortion the little kid inside oso don't noe wat is pain riteOriginally posted by shaunlaw:U made ppl pregnant and now want ur gf to go to abort the baby just bcos u dun wan it.
U have nvr spare a tot for her? If u dun wan a child, then y do it in the 1st place? Its a life we are toking abt here.
Be a responsible guy. All the reasons u give are just excuses cos u dun wan to make the effort. -
The little kid won't know what pain is, but your gf will.
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Pls keep the baby. Baby is innocent. Even if you are not able to afford to raise the baby, give it up for adoption.
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you see, if u keep this child, u can treat yr chld as yr centre of yr life, u can piah yr liefe for yr child,
when yr gf or parents of both side see that u piah for yr baby, they will feel "An Wei". and it wouldnt be so earthquake and bad....
piah not really means piah for money, cn also means piah for studies, do well, get good job, sure got good money, ppl see you so "Zheng Qi", they wil also support you one....
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but if u insist ask her to abort the baby.....
i seriously thik yr relationship will be diff and change loh....
knn...i personally think if you really want to abort,
i suggest you leave her after you see thru the abortion with her,for her own good, becos like dat she will be able to have a chance to find a good and responsible guy who trully loves her.... -
spAre a th0ught f0r y0ur gF
she wi|| |ive with thE "yin ying" f0r the reSt of hEr |ife
a f0etus cAn fee| when it is 2 weeks o|d
p|ease be a mAn and fAce this |ike a mAn! -
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karma says:
you kill the baby, in one of your coming lives, you will be aborted too. thats reality.
dont kill unless you have no choice -
If u dun wan it then y did u do it in the 1st place? Where is ur sens of responsibility towards ur gf and the child?? U ask ppl to respect u but do u respect others? Do u respect the child whos unborn??Originally posted by Goh Cheok Tong:how long can people look after the baby 4 u after sometime they also KPKB say no money why have child all these,.
but if gf really want to keep the baby i bo pian have to be cruel already but i do hope she respect my decision too that i don't wish to have kids at all -
i am stuck in the middle tat's why me here to look for support and answer but why all yr advise is keep the baby somemore i willing to pay for the abortion she still cry here cry there FARK
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it's not whether u paying onot
it's about conscience, responsiblity and a life -
If u wan to do it then be responsible. Gf is for u to love not for u to have sex with to survive!! Wheres ur precaution and family planning?? U keep saying dun wan kids dun wan kids but how come u nvr take precaution??Originally posted by Goh Cheok Tong:i noe it's a life but don't have sex how to survived sure gt misfire one but i think abortion the little kid inside oso don't noe wat is pain rite
If u think abortion the child duno, u are wrong. The child noes. If u think everything can be solved by duno, think again. Wat u do to ur child will come back to u eventually! -
I think I cant sleep liao...
after seeing those gross pix....
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accidents happens anyway tomorrow go see doc and tell you all the restOriginally posted by shaunlaw:If u wan to do it then be responsible. Gf is for u to love not for u to have sex with to survive!! Wheres ur precaution and family planning?? U keep saying dun wan kids dun wan kids but how come u nvr take precaution??
If u think abortion the child duno, u are wrong. The child noes. If u think everything can be solved by duno, think again. Wat u do to ur child will come back to u eventually!
now i don't want to think so much going to call her now hope she calm down already -
She cried bcos u are not willing to be responsible. She cried cos she noes she doenst want to kill an innocent life.Originally posted by Goh Cheok Tong:i am stuck in the middle tat's why me here to look for support and answer but why all yr advise is keep the baby somemore i willing to pay for the abortion she still cry here cry there FARK
Be a man, be responsible. If u wan support then be responsible. No one is going to support an irresponsible person. -
i resposible ok i did not hit and run i pay for the abortion afterall not like i ditch her after playing riteOriginally posted by shaunlaw:She cried bcos u are not willing to be responsible. She cried cos she noes she doenst want to kill an innocent life.
Be a man, be responsible. If u wan support then be responsible. No one is going to support an irresponsible person. -
Let's see if u can dont think so much. I would guess ur gf haven calm down.Originally posted by Goh Cheok Tong:accidents happens anyway tomorrow go see doc and tell you all the rest
now i don't want to think so much going to call her now hope she calm down already -
wad the hell... if u are like tt, why did u have sex with her? didnt u forsee such consequences? if u cant handle it, why have sex with her? now u made her pregnant, u wan her to go for abortion? u just shoot and let her go thru all tt pain? not just physical pain u noe? mental and emotional too... i've watched a video on abortion..man... if u;re the lady going thru it, u wont wanna do it... it;s so fucking cruel.... put in all the equipments and dig and kill the baby just like tt.... den the lady will go thru depression.. she may not be able to give birth in future... have u tot of all these? how irresponsible of u...Originally posted by Goh Cheok Tong:idon't want to raise a child when i can't afford and i also don't like children at all noisy and very expensive to have children in sg.
later can't afford the kid medical fees all these the kid will blame me....i don't wanna work like mad something like most fathers just for the sake of kids and family..ain't worth it at all..so i talk her through abt abortion after confirm with the doc hope she agreeds to go -
hope u don regret later now ppl wat to have baby also k not mus need donation ..... .... .... but the final choice is yours ... hope u tink abt the life in your gf body did u gave him a chance at all....
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Are u responsible for the life u created? Are u responsible for the emotional state ur gf is going thru now? Paying fot abortion is only escaping from the problem and escaping is called responsible?Originally posted by Goh Cheok Tong:i resposible ok i did not hit and run i pay for the abortion afterall not like i ditch her after playing rite