guys can't just be friends?
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guys don't really know how to maintain a platonic friendship with girls huh?? i got quite a few guy friends last time. but then at some point or another, they turn to like me more than a friend. i swear i didn't do anything to mislead them!!! and i made sure they know clearly that they are just friends to me.. but why still liddat ah?? made me dun dare to face them again...
how come guys cannot be just friends with you ah??? -
Can I be your friend?
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today's not April fool's day. keep the jokes to yourself. i want answers to my question.
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can wat y not?
i got some female frens and we just maintain as frens and nothing more
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from the beginning mus make things clear to them liao
and neber lead them one or give them hope..... -
You've met idiots... that's all...
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perhaps the guys you have met are all desperate.....
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u must be very beautiful.
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NO!!! they're very decent guys really.. and i already made it clear from the beginning le.. at that time i also had a boyfriend loh, so it should be clear wad.....
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Gu1 nan2 gua2 nu3, re4 jiu3 shen1 qing2... all guys at one point or the other will consider whether a female friend will be suitable as a girl friend or not...
Normally if you have a boyfriend then this shouldn't be a problem? -
this is very normal la...especially if the girl is those cheerful and pretty type.
So what if you make it clear to them in the first place? I guess you cant stop them from liking you ba... -
Maybe...after some time of knowing ya, they find that you are their type...?Originally posted by starblue:NO!!! they're very decent guys really.. and i already made it clear from the beginning le.. at that time i also had a boyfriend loh, so it should be clear wad.....
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but they are not her typeOriginally posted by deathscythe99:Maybe...after some time of knowing ya, they find that you are their type...? -
but surely not all my guy friends right?? is it them or is it me i wonder.... now i have to be extra careful what i do with my guy friends... always very scared i'll do something to make them all wierd again.. haiz.. but liddat not fun liao, cannot just be myself around guys like i used to be... sigh... why guys liddat one ah???
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Yah I agree with that. Why you never consider an "upgrade" in your relationship status meh?Originally posted by deathscythe99:Maybe...after some time of knowing ya, they find that you are their type...? -
sometimes it's just the girls that are over reacting. they think the guy likes them when he treats her all nice and stuff.
maybe it really is hard to be just friends among the sexes. i guess i know of only 2 girls who i can really consider friends, 1 of them a very very good friend, such that people think we're a couple when we go out together.
the rest are probably just 'girls that i know'. -
I am not like that.. and I am fun to be with.. am I in your consideration?Originally posted by starblue:but surely not all my guy friends right?? is it them or is it me i wonder.... now i have to be extra careful what i do with my guy friends... always very cared i'll do something to make them all wierd again.. haiz.. but liddat not fun liao, cannot just be myself around guys like i used to be... sigh... why guys liddat one ah??? -
the guys u mentioned must really go polish up their skills.
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cos they are just friends to me mah.... and i honestly don't know they got a thing about me BEFORE they told me... NOT a single idea loh.. then suddenly it just smacked me in the face.. how to accept??? ok, maybe they did give hints, but i'm just too blur when it comes to relationships....
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a few of my best male frens crossed the line but we talked it out and make our feelings clear....
glad they are understanding....
we still remain as good frens...... -
Hey im having a problem here but im a guy i always feel that girls who treat me good like we are more than friends... over time as a matter of a fact i realised all these while im wrong.. we are just merely friends and for that i realised im selfish and very sensative.. so i suppose most guys are very sensative bah... 'coz girls treating guys more than friends is just normal act for them but for the guys, maybe not?Originally posted by starblue:guys don't really know how to maintain a platonic friendship with girls huh?? i got quite a few guy friends last time. but then at some point or another, they turn to like me more than a friend. i swear i didn't do anything to mislead them!!! and i made sure they know clearly that they are just friends to me.. but why still liddat ah?? made me dun dare to face them again...
how come guys cannot be just friends with you ah??? -
And to think that we can;t even be friends....Originally posted by FireIce:a few of my best male frens crossed the line but we talked it out and make our feelings clear....
glad they are understanding....
we still remain as good frens...... -
of cos i wanna remain friends with them even after knowing that... but hor.. i feel very bad leh.. cos after knowing their thing for me, i feel like the next time i ask them a favour, they will surely do for me. but i don't wanna make use of their feelings for me mah... then i cannot help it but keep a distance from them loh... then i also know they're upset cos of this also.. how ah???Originally posted by FireIce:a few of my best male frens crossed the line but we talked it out and make our feelings clear....
glad they are understanding....
we still remain as good frens...... -
once upon a time, i might have disagreed with that statement, but now i kinda agree. Of course, the statement might more accurately read:Originally posted by starblue:guys don't really know how to maintain a platonic friendship with girls huh?? i got quite a few guy friends last time. but then at some point or another, they turn to like me more than a friend. i swear i didn't do anything to mislead them!!! and i made sure they know clearly that they are just friends to me.. but why still liddat ah?? made me dun dare to face them again...
how come guys cannot be just friends with you ah???
STRAIGHT guys can't just be friends.