Questions for the girls/ladies~
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no. but this is only my view. I take public transport everyday.
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Originally posted by rumie:Seriously, does it matter if a guy drives a car?
No
Will you be more attracted to the guy if you know that the guy that you will be going out with has a car?
(note the difference in me asking: will you be more attracted to guys who drive if you happened know ALREADY initally...)
No
And does it matter if the guy drives a Nissan, Toyota versus Beetle, BMW, Lexus???
No
Do you girls know the difference in the first place between the cars?
Yes
Do you even bother if the guy drives a Mistubishi Lancer as compared to driving, maybe, say a Subaru WRX Sti?
No, car make doesn't matter
Just, really really really curious...
Please, don't mention anything about... "it's after all the feelings that counts." I know that will be the general asnwer.
But, just for the fun of it, think of just: guys and cars. -
No need to buy a car if it is not necessary plus a car is a liability in SG. We can afford one but we don't own one.Originally posted by BlTCHY_BlTCH:What??! You want your wife to suffer with you, you pauper!!
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Better than paying ridiculas amounts for ERP and parking chargesOriginally posted by BlTCHY_BlTCH:I had enough of squeezing in MRTs and buses! If can have luxury of travelling in car, why not? -
x2.Originally posted by BlTCHY_BlTCH:I had enough of squeezing in MRTs and buses! If can have luxury of travelling in car, why not? -
does not matter to me
i prefer guys on bikes -
wrong place to ask la... for girls in their teens most of them wont mind. but later in life, in their 20s-40s, as they become(surely) more materialistic, they WOULD mind. Btw, i believe only a small group of girls can tell between different makes, for eg, a Lancer Evo or Skyline. Most of them just judge by the BRAND.
For eg, as every carbuyers know, the prices of BMWs and Mercedes are the SAME, between competing models. But i dont know why all the girls always have the misconception, or view, thus telling me that mercedes are more expensive and have higher status. aint mercedes for ah pehs?
anyway, BMW aint called the ultimate driving machine for nothing. the new 5er is so much more responsive then the new e-class -
So far those who replied are not in their teensOriginally posted by top_cat78:wrong place to ask la... for girls in their teens most of them wont mind. but later in life, in their 20s-40s, as they become(surely) more materialistic, they WOULD mind. Btw, i believe only a small group of girls can tell between different makes, for eg, a Lancer Evo or Skyline. Most of them just judge by the BRAND.
For eg, as every carbuyers know, the prices of BMWs and Mercedes are the SAME, between competing models. But i dont know why all the girls always have the misconception, or view, thus telling me that mercedes are more expensive and have higher status. aint mercedes for ah pehs?
anyway, BMW aint called the ultimate driving machine for nothing. the new 5er is so much more responsive then the new e-class
Mercedes is good at marketing and they have already positioned themselves as 'THE' car. Anyway the Audi A6 is a good car as well.
Seriously, not every girl is materialistic. I have guys who drive who were interested in me before I was married but I was not interested in them. Why? Because I have to like the person and not their car
I have a friend who is the same age as me who has this guy driving a porche carrera going after her but she wouldn't give him anytime of her day.
Of course, on the flip side if you get someone materialistic, yes it would matter but most of them can't tell the difference anyway. -
well, yea maybe i shouldnt generalise, so lets say most of them are yea?Originally posted by elindra:So far those who replied are not in their teens
Mercedes is good at marketing and they have already positioned themselves as 'THE' car. Anyway the Audi A6 is a good car as well.
Seriously, not every girl is materialistic. I have guys who drive who were interested in me before I was married but I was not interested in them. Why? Because I have to like the person and not their car
I have a friend who is the same age as me who has this guy driving a porche carrera going after her but she wouldn't give him anytime of her day.
Of course, on the flip side if you get someone materialistic, yes it would matter but most of them can't tell the difference anyway.
ur friend realli fascinates me, and the only reason i can tink of is that the rich guy is snobbish? no character? or she has found her life-partner-to-be already.
dont rich guys provide security?
i think the other type of girls wont be surfing these forums anyway cos they have "better" things to do, if ya noe wat i mean -
i personally dont think a gal is gonna like a guy just because he has a car or is rich. but of course if she likes you and you have both it will be a bonus. there is also no denyiing that with a car serving as transport it makes the courtship all the more easier and advantageous.
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Hello.. give my 2 cents.
Firstly, I muz like the guy in the first place... so wad if he got car, but den dunno how to give in to me, bad-tempered, insensitive, very rough and treat me no good???? he got Ferrari also ask him go eat shit la....
If i like the guy, he no car also bo bian.. cos i like him mah....
If I like the guy, he heng heng got car, den it means i lucky lor....
The feeling is the most important. Got car or not is secondary... if really want car, the couple can work towards saving for one mah... got common goal in the relationship will do wonders for the love u all have. -
I'm no teen either and I have to agree - cars DON'T matter.
It's probably one of the bonuses that come with the guy I guess. THe decision to be with a guy has got nothing to do with the car.
If got car, good lorZ! got 4 wheels, got aircon, can move, good enough. Proton also can sia. hahaha! If don't have, there's always public transport. Singapore's not THAT big. And if in a hurry, there're always cabs. -
Oh! That guy literally worships the ground she walks on. She is single but she just doesn't like him. "No spark" is what she said.Originally posted by top_cat78:well, yea maybe i shouldnt generalise, so lets say most of them are yea?
ur friend realli fascinates me, and the only reason i can tink of is that the rich guy is snobbish? no character? or she has found her life-partner-to-be already.
dont rich guys provide security?
i think the other type of girls wont be surfing these forums anyway cos they have "better" things to do, if ya noe wat i mean
Anyway, I don't like a guy because of his car. That is sooooo shallow. If he has a car, it is a bonus. If he doesn't have a car, we take the public transport. I mean it's not like you can't get around SG without a car.
Security is just one thing girls look for. As well, security does not only translate in monetary terms. It can also translate into the faithfulness and steadfastness of the guy.
All I can say is if you hope to attract a girl by using your car, good luck to you. You will get all the money grubbers. -
well said, girl!Originally posted by elindra:Oh that guy literally worships the ground she walks on. No she is single but she just doesn't like him. "No spark" is what she said.
Anyway, I don't like a guy because of his car. That is sooooo shallow. If he has a car it is a bonus, if he doesn't have the car, we take the public transport. I mean it's not like you can't get around SG without a car.
Anyway, security is just one thing girls look for. As well, security does not translate in monetary terms too. It translate into the faithfulness of the guy as well.
All I can say is if you hope to attract a girl by using your car, good luck to you. You will get all the money grubbers.
if everyone will think like tat, its the best.
but sad to say, most dun.. and haix.... -
it's a bonus if my guy drives. but if he doesn't, it's nice to take the bus with him to school also.
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Seriously, does it matter if a guy drives a car?
==if a guy drives, will be bonus==
Will you be more attracted to the guy if you know that the guy that you will be going out with has a car?
==yes, i will be attracted to him, but only if he not those CMI ones==
(note the difference in me asking: will you be more attracted to guys who drive if you happened to know ALREADY initally...)
==if initially i dont like him, even if he got car also dont like==
And does it matter if the guy drives a Nissan, Toyota versus Beetle, BMW, Lexus???
==matters a little, best is drives those hip cars==
Do you girls know the difference in the first place between the cars?
==no, doesnt knoe in great details==
Do you even bother if the guy drives a Mistubishi Lancer as compared to driving, maybe, say a Subaru WRX Sti?
==no, cos both brands are hip== -
oni buy a car when ur finance is fine..n it's ok if u can't afford a luxury car..it really exp to buy a car in sg compared to other countries. Morever, the transportation is so convenient !!!
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when i look at my friends struggling to pay off all sorts of funny car expenses, I feel 'yoga-ing' myself on a tiny space in mrt or bus is less stressful.
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car wrap tree u see b4?Originally posted by BlTCHY_BlTCH:Easier to tio accidents, ren bao che!! -
i drive a boat. my wife says she prefer that then a car.
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Wrong assumption. In fact all ppl want to own a car, female or male. Its a staus symbolOriginally posted by top_cat78:wrong place to ask la... for girls in their teens most of them wont mind. but later in life, in their 20s-40s, as they become(surely) more materialistic, they WOULD mind. Btw, i believe only a small group of girls can tell between different makes, for eg, a Lancer Evo or Skyline. Most of them just judge by the BRAND.
For eg, as every carbuyers know, the prices of BMWs and Mercedes are the SAME, between competing models. But i dont know why all the girls always have the misconception, or view, thus telling me that mercedes are more expensive and have higher status. aint mercedes for ah pehs?
anyway, BMW aint called the ultimate driving machine for nothing. the new 5er is so much more responsive then the new e-class
IF that's the case as you suggested, then all the bus and pbulic transport have only young people but why are there people of all ages in these systems?
You made a sweeping statement without knowing the full scale of who you are talking about. -
Yes it will make a difference
the same difference it would make when you find out something about a person, and which will help you understand him more.
is it a family car, did he buy it himself? is he ambitious? is he hardworking?
is he a show off materialistic guy to buy something beyond his means?
is he sensible, making realistic choices in his own pursuit of his OWN toys and all? Does he have a dream, is he adventurous? Does he like sports cars, landrovers, or status symbols? is he pampered or self reliant?
but No, the ownership of a car will not make THE difference whether you feel more attracted to the person or not. It is what you learn about the person that make the difference, not the inanimate object. And if he keeps the qualities that makes me feel attracted to him, even if he doesn't keep the car - nope the attraction would not be lesser. -
to a certain extend only...Originally posted by BlTCHY_BlTCH:No, car protect people...
for head on collisions still can protect a bit...
but if car get hit from the side...
will still be very jia lat... -
Some guys with cars don't fetch their gfs/ wives.
Some don't drive are sweet enough to take cab & send gf home.
Doesn't matter whether he owns a car.
He must have the means to maintain it.
It is not good to be asset rich but have no cash.