Originally posted by dragg:
if you are 21 and mentally sound then you have the right to make a decision on your own. there is no right or wrong.
but under 21 then i feel it is not right...
maybe i am outdated too. but i stand firm on my opinion.
Not really outdated lah, its just your views on things.
I think kids are impressionable nowadays and I find they are to kang-tang.
Just follow what they see on TV. All these things, I see all the time.
young sec kids, late teens, young adults, middle aged, affairs, locals, foreigners and etc.
There's no right or wrong, its just that morally some people feel differently about the issue.
Some people have looser morals. Some just don't care. My 20 yr old intern tells me girls she met as young as 13 are no longer virgins, had 6 bf and experienced beyond knowledge. She's shocked but I told her, this is the trend. How to fix/correct even when its not really right but who is to make the call and whose morally right?
Just have more abandoned babies, irresposible young fathers, baby killer young mothers, social costs and etc. We get exposed to all that media, and open to negative influences without control or censorship or the ability to handling it. So now we funmble as a society when we see things like that around us.
BTW, we cannot be responsible for everyone. But at least I can see some of the younger members are reaposible people. I do not see we had failed entirely. Its only up to us, who are going to create the next generation of singapore (I assume you all are in 20s-40s and will go the normal route of getting married) to teach and strengthen your children against such things and negative influences. In my opinion, the current young kids, is a bit lost liao. Too little, Too late...