I want to meet you?
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i can read code perfectly fine.Originally posted by hyuuga neji:let me rewrite for you...
action WatToDoInForum()
{
if (person says she wants to meet up with u && person has not chatted with u b4)
{
if (u wanna meet up with another net person after previous traumatic experience)
{return (meet person);}
else
{return (run like hell);}
}
else
{return(continue surfing and crapping in peace);}
}
need me to explain how to derive the code???
ur life ur call ur choice. -
fateOriginally posted by the Bear:i know... question remains the same... who is threatening you with death? -
whatever i need to do, will still make me die a miserable personOriginally posted by nOrmalbOi:and u still need to do what u need to do... so why not try to be happy doing what ur doing now.... at least u can die a happy man..
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tiny balls tickling ur fancy?Originally posted by sleepycat:......sigh.... i almost can't breath...
why do i find you so attractive in the most unthinkable ways? i never like to play with tiny balls.................
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..... i like this word still............Originally posted by HENG@:whatever i need to do, will still make me die a miserable man. -
.... yea..... how?Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:tiny balls tickling ur fancy? -
i don't. that is the BANE of my life.Originally posted by sleepycat:..... i like this word still............ -
..... he bothers to encode.. ya know..? kinda sweeet & innocent..Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:tiny balls tickling ur fancy?
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every cloud has a silver lining.. try looking harder for it..Originally posted by HENG@:whatever i need to do, will still make me die a miserable man. -
Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:every cloud has a silver lining.. try looking harder for it..
silver linings are illusions. -
Originally posted by sleepycat:.... yea..... how?
answering ur own question?Originally posted by sleepycat:..... he bothers to encode.. ya know..? kinda sweeet & innocent.. -
here's the long and short of it...
YOU are the master of your own fate
maker of your own destiny
you make your own choices
to be brutal about it, you CHOSE to be miserable..
but that's your choice... your right.. we cannot force you to be happy...
frankly, people do not become miserable without their own permission to be miserable...
you seem to mourn whatever you "do not have" but ignore whatever you have... which i figure is in abundance because where you are says a lot... other things intangible can be achieved only when you make it a point to do so..
again i repeat myself: people make their own choices in life...
and the consequences...
because we are human and because of that, we are sentient.. being sentient, making the choice would be our responsibility...
so.. happy, miserable, whatever.. it's all in our hands.. and to blame fate would be to surrender it all to the mumbo-jumbo people who think buying a charm will ensure them good luck and all that...
your life.. your choices to make... make them count..Originally posted by HENG@:fate -
use ur illusion then.... in the words of axel rose... when cassette tapes were still in vogue..Originally posted by HENG@:
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i disagree. there are things which are all down to fate. things like, your apperance by birth and your identity by birth, are all down to fate.Originally posted by the Bear:here's the long and short of it...
YOU are the master of your own fate
maker of your own destiny
you make your own choices
to be brutal about it, you CHOSE to be miserable..
but that's your choice... your right.. we cannot force you to be happy...
frankly, people do not become miserable without their own permission to be miserable...
you seem to mourn whatever you "do not have" but ignore whatever you have... which i figure is in abundance because where you are says a lot... other things intangible can be achieved only when you make it a point to do so..
again i repeat myself: people make their own choices in life...
and the consequences...
because we are human and because of that, we are sentient.. being sentient, making the choice would be our responsibility...
so.. happy, miserable, whatever.. it's all in our hands.. and to blame fate would be to surrender it all to the mumbo-jumbo people who think buying a charm will ensure them good luck and all that...
your life.. your choices to make... make them count..
if i hadn't have to face this fate, perhaps i would have no need to be where i am now to escape what singapore represents for me. -
too heavy for me... especially at 3am.. Zzzzzz
gonna go to bed... gdnite bear heng and especially sleepykitty
slp well dream sweet folks.. and gd rest of the day heng -
muaccccksssss & nites my handsome clown...Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:too heavy for me... especially at 3am.. Zzzzzz
gonna go to bed... gdnite bear heng and especially sleepykitty
slp well dream sweet folks.. and gd rest of the day heng -
its 8pm here. night is falling. it helps with concealment.Originally posted by nOrmalbOi:too heavy for me... especially at 3am.. Zzzzzz
gonna go to bed... gdnite bear heng and especially sleepykitty
slp well dream sweet folks.. and gd rest of the day heng -
so, you're going to blame your folks for what you refuse to do?
escape.. there's what it is, isn't it?
ask you something.. is it trendy there to be manic depressive?Originally posted by HENG@:i disagree. there are things which are all down to fate. things like, your apperance by birth and your identity by birth, are all down to fate.
if i hadn't have to face this fate, perhaps i would have no need to be where i am now to escape what singapore represents for me. -
er no. its a bit more trendy to be.... psychotic hyperactive maniacs.Originally posted by the Bear:so, you're going to blame your folks for what you refuse to do?
escape.. there's what it is, isn't it?
ask you something.. is it trendy there to be manic depressive?
anyways i can't blame my folks. they weren't the ones who decided anything. it was nature. and nature is fate. so thats what im blaming. -
it was a serious question...Originally posted by HENG@:er no. its a bit more trendy to be.... psychotic hyperactive maniacs.
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well, seriously, i don't know. i've been facing this problem since my late teens. the only result of coming here is being able to explore the other option, and finding that both options will make me miserable. the problem lies not in where i am at, but in trying to understand why it is so, no matter where i amOriginally posted by the Bear:it was a serious question... -
find a third option or something...
sitting around moping that "fate" dealt you this hand isn't going to help..
damn... i've seen people of the 3rd sex get on with their lives...
i've seen people losing the lower part of their bodies, not even with a pelvis, get on with their lives, choosing to be productive and happy people...
and... nevermind... i've gone through this before....Originally posted by HENG@:well, seriously, i don't know. i've been facing this problem since my late teens. the only result of coming here is being able to explore the other option, and finding that both options will make me miserable. -
elaborate more on this?Originally posted by the Bear:find a third option or something...
sitting around moping that "fate" dealt you this hand isn't going to help..
damn... i've seen people of the 3rd sex get on with their lives...
i've seen people losing the lower part of their bodies, not even with a pelvis, get on with their lives, choosing to be productive and happy people...
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people of ambigious genders...
haemaphrodites, transgendered people, eunuchs... people like that... they may or may not be gay and some have genders assigned to them... some don't...
but a lot of them just get on with their lives...
just do a search...Originally posted by HENG@:elaborate more on this? -
yes yes. how do they get on with their lives? can u tell me a bit more? perhaps also on how they come to terms with it, or get referred for SRS? the problem is that most of the time when i search online, the info i get is mostly american and not very applicable for non-american. also, many help and support groups are USA-based and the help they can offer outside of usa is very limited. besides that, do u happen to know of any support groups for people like that who have special circumstances?Originally posted by the Bear:people of ambigious genders...
haemaphrodites, transgendered people, eunuchs... people like that... they may or may not be gay and some have genders assigned to them... some don't...
but a lot of them just get on with their lives...
just do a search...