is this a weird thing??
-
hmm i go call man in black n come n catch uOriginally posted by starblue:i suspect so... if not, i'm an alien...
-
Seriously...Originally posted by starblue:bear bear.... i dun have any hurt remaining from past experiences... and i dun intentionally shut myself off to love. that's why i am puzzled. i am a normal woman, with normal desires and hopes. but why cant i fall in love?? that's my question....
Dun focus too much on why U cant fall in love...
Let Nature takes its course...
When its time for U to fall in love...U will fall in love...there is no nd to rush it...
Btw does Ur 'falling in love' includes crushes... -
of cos include crushes... and i dun even have crushes.. lolz...Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Seriously...
Dun focus too much on why U cant fall in love...
Let Nature takes its course...
When its time for U to fall in love...U will fall in love...there is no nd to rush it...
Btw does Ur 'falling in love' includes crushes... -
starblue, is not that u can't fall in love. It is that u have not meet the guy that make ur heart beating fast and fall in love. U will no matter what sexes attract u.Originally posted by starblue:bear bear.... i dun have any hurt remaining from past experiences... and i dun intentionally shut myself off to love. that's why i am puzzled. i am a normal woman, with normal desires and hopes. but why cant i fall in love?? that's my question....
-
If u always fall for somebody..machiam cannot be detached from all those, then i think got problem leh.
Not a weird thing not to have liking for somebody for a long time, esp if u ever got hurt before. -
i see i see... yah, i think most of you here saying the same thing... perhaps i should go ponder about it...Originally posted by browniebaobao:If u always fall for somebody..machiam cannot be detached from all those, then i think got problem leh.
Not a weird thing not to have liking for somebody for a long time, esp if u ever got hurt before. -
Juz wait for Ur guy...Originally posted by starblue:of cos include crushes... and i dun even have crushes.. lolz... -
starblue, is not that u can't fall in love. It is that u have not meet the guy that make ur heart beating fast and fall in love. U will no matter what sexes attract u.Originally posted by starblue:bear bear.... i dun have any hurt remaining from past experiences... and i dun intentionally shut myself off to love. that's why i am puzzled. i am a normal woman, with normal desires and hopes. but why cant i fall in love?? that's my question.... -
lol i see them i wish they do more and let me have free porn to wathc lehOriginally posted by starblue:christ NO!!! i am not gay. and seeing lovey dovey couples dun make me feel anything except that they should do it more privately... -
Originally posted by hisoka:lol i see them i wish they do more and let me have free porn to wathc leh
-
u think they do it so openly n let u see?Originally posted by hisoka:lol i see them i wish they do more and let me have free porn to wathc leh -
All i can say is that u nv looked at it as a prob until everyone is behaving differently from u. It somehow outcast u from the rest. So u started thinking if u are alright as u are different from the so called norm. There may not any problem in the first place.Originally posted by starblue:i prob wun even realise it's been 2 years since i liked anyone... why ask the question. wad can you anaylse from my answer? 
However, to be able to like someone depends on many factors too and my list is nv exhaustive...
(1) Are u ready to like someone? As in anymore emotional baggages from the past.
(2) Do u know what is it that u look for in guys? As in what in guys attract u. I guess u are out of the age where u are simply mesmerize by looks alone.
(3) Are any of the guys around u having such qualities, or have any of them has shown u those qualities u looking for? If not, how to fall for someone?
When u say u have not liked anyone, i assume it to be romantically, hoping that can become bgf type of feeling. There is nothing wrong to not to like any guys around you esp if they dont have the qualities u are looking for. So be confident, be yourself, njoy life, and your guy will eventually appear... till then update us abt u transiting back to "normal" status... -
its only bcos u are more matured now to fall into crushes easily..
same here.