Messy r/s or mind...
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WAH LIAO, WHY ARE SOME BITCHES HERE BEING SO DA@M MEAN?
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U do not love her...you juz love the "xtra" piece of flesh in her that makes her a virgin....however, sad to say to you...that piece's not there liao....
Juz becoz of that thing, your so-called LOVE for her has drastically changed....
My only advise...leave her...thanks. -
Guys...Originally posted by p0ppy:welll....as i said on my topic....i confuse now.....i tot i love her.....but when i know tat she is not.....i very confuse and upset ....and hurt.....
I am back...
Its ok to feel confused n upset...
But at the end of the day...wats Ur choice...love her or dump her...
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Becoz they r bitches...Originally posted by Quinsy:WAH LIAO, WHY ARE SOME BITCHES HERE BEING SO DA@M MEAN? -
agree...Originally posted by dcx:U do not love her...you juz love the "xtra" piece of flesh in her that makes her a virgin....however, sad to say to you...that piece's not there liao....
Juz becoz of that thing, your so-called LOVE for her has drastically changed....
My only advise...leave her...thanks. -
The problem doesn't lies on choices..it lies on "Virginity"...he loves her for her virginity...now in a mixed feeling of leaving her becoz she's not a virgin...Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Guys...
I am back...
Its ok to feel confused n upset...
But at the end of the day...wats Ur choice...love her or dump her...
So...what's there any choice left for him to choose except to just leave her for some other good guys out there....
So...poppy...hope you can leave your gf n then go out n look for virgin girls...all the best to you.. -
That's not the really important thing...
What's important is: Did she lose her virginity to someone else during your relationship?
What's even more important: Does she refuse to do the deed with you?
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If tts wat he think...Originally posted by dcx:The problem doesn't lies on choices..it lies on "Virginity"...he loves her for her virginity...now in a mixed feeling of leaving her becoz she's not a virgin...
So...what's there any choice left for him to choose except to just leave her for some other good guys out there....
So...poppy...hope you can leave your gf n then go out n look for virgin girls...all the best to you..
He nd to ask a qns everytime he gts a new gf...excuse me...r U a virgin...
If nt...he can always go for young school gals n invest in them...lolx...
Invest in virginity...wat the hell am I saying...argh...
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ya lor ya lor.. use ur head to tink oso.. nt ur little bro head...Originally posted by dcx:_|_
One day, i'll be marry Bill Gate's daughter.....
You're one of the minority that can't accept this "my gf's not a virgin" fact...
Use your heart to love...not your lanjiao to love...
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LOL...Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Becoz they r bitches... 
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Originally posted by Quinsy:LOL...
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That's way too troublesome....i rather go Geylang n lose my virginity n then go find gf...lol....Originally posted by Simple_Bear:If tts wat he think...
He nd to ask a qns everytime he gts a new gf...excuse me...r U a virgin...
If nt...he can always go for young school gals n invest in them...lolx...
Invest in virginity...wat the hell am I saying...argh...
simpler n faster...no need to bother "oh?! I'm a virgin but you're not?!" these kinda thingys.... -
He wans virgins mah...Originally posted by dcx:That's way too troublesome....i rather go Geylang n lose my virginity n then go find gf...lol....
simpler n faster...no need to bother "oh?! I'm a virgin but you're not?!" these kinda thingys.... -
Originally posted by dcx:That's way too troublesome....i rather go Geylang n lose my virginity n then go find gf...lol....
simpler n faster...no need to bother "oh?! I'm a virgin but you're not?!" these kinda thingys.... -
I was merely talking about 2nd-hand goods mah... What's wrong?Originally posted by Quinsy:WAH LIAO, WHY ARE SOME BITCHES HERE BEING SO DA@M MEAN?
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.Originally posted by Simple_Bear:He wans virgins mah...
I'm also a virgin...
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i understand.Originally posted by p0ppy:saying it is easy......
I think you should go to lose your virginity to another girl.. whatever lah.. one night stand also good.. then you are not virgin and she is not virgin.. you will not feel down liao.....
the only problem is that you may think that she lose her virgin and have had hundreds of sex with some other guys.. and you just had once with a girl...
so,,,,, may still mind lor... if you really feel it, then you should dump her.... no point to get together and still have something stuck in your mind....
trust me!!! this is the best way.... seen cases ... said not mind, but still broke up after 2-3 years... at the end, this is the obstacles he cannot let go..... -
i agree with simple bear. just make sure you are not the virgin as well.. this is the key point to pass this obstacles.Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Come on...
Go out in the streets...U will find loads of gals who aren't virgins animore...as much as U dun like it...its a fact...so wat U wanna do...dump her...n look for a sec sch gal...n start investing Ur time n effort in her...so tt U can haf a virgin wife...
Be realistic...
like westerners.. who cares.. because everyone is not a virgin...
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Ditto.Originally posted by dcx:U do not love her...you juz love the "xtra" piece of flesh in her that makes her a virgin....however, sad to say to you...that piece's not there liao....
Juz becoz of that thing, your so-called LOVE for her has drastically changed....
My only advise...leave her...thanks.
But it's natural to have doubts about it. The most important thing is to make the right decision. -
Its normal lah, don't brood about it..
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well, everyone has their own past, as long as she din do it while she's gf
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i agree. however, if you mind, then dump her, if not, then go ahead without thinking about it ...Originally posted by 101wish:well, everyone has their own past, as long as she din do it while she's gf
i'm just afraid, you decided to stick to it..
after 1-2 years, the stupid feeling comes back again (probably after heaty argument), and then break up...... -
haiz.. take it in your stride loh... she cant undo it anyway... maybe next time when gals apply for your gf post, ask them first thing whether they V or not loh...
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u are not obliged to accept her nor feel that you owe her if you decided not to accept her as she is.
if you think accepting her just because you are supposed to accept,both of you will suffer and this relationship will most probably end as well.
if you decided not to accept her, then it can only simply mean you don't love who she is now.
if you decided to take her as she is, then don't regret and go all the way out and love her to the fullest.
As mentioned earlier, given the fact that she has told you the truth, it means you matter to her very much.
whatever your decision is, just don't regret. Most of the time, there's no turning back. -
this is not true. you can still love her but cannot accept her. cannot accept her or stay together doesn't mean that you don't love her anymore.Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:if you decided not to accept her, then it can only simply mean you don't love who she is now.
YOu can still love her very much even thought you both are not together anymore.