are you selfish?
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let's say at your workplace, you go other department to do some work, and the people are that department are supposed to help you. but suei suei that day only got 1-2 people around. so those 2 people very luan, run here run there etc.
then you just sit at your area wait for them to bring the stuff over to you to do your work. but you work very fast, so end up keep on idling.
will you help them?
or will you just sit there and wait wait wait wait wait.
the job doesn't necessary end faster if you help, maybe just 10-20 mins.
if is me i will help. but i realize that myself, my department mainly, the others like damn cheebai won't bother one. somemore got a few times i help still kena suan by them "wah you want to help them ah" similanjiao. zho lang so self centreed for fuck? -
kekekekekeke.
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i don't sell-fish, my neighbour below me sell.
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check ur dictionary to define the word 'selfish' before u post this thread 1st can bo.Originally posted by nismoS132:let's say at your workplace, you go other department to do some work, and the people are that department are supposed to help you. but suei suei that day only got 1-2 people around. so those 2 people very luan, run here run there etc.
then you just sit at your area wait for them to bring the stuff over to you to do your work. but you work very fast, so end up keep on idling.
will you help them?
or will you just sit there and wait wait wait wait wait.
the job doesn't necessary end faster if you help, maybe just 10-20 mins.
if is me i will help. but i realize that myself, my department mainly, the others like damn cheebai won't bother one. somemore got a few times i help still kena suan by them "wah you want to help them ah" similanjiao. zho lang so self centreed for fuck?
the story u mention dont lead to selfish. -
=.= not dat i dun wan help but simply i dunnoe how.
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what word do you suggest then?Originally posted by kingofbeholder:check ur dictionary to define the word 'selfish' before u post this thread 1st can bo.
the story u mention dont lead to selfish. -
nismoS132, i want to ask you one question.
u go army buay? if u finsh your NS liao, u shd know what call "dont spoil market" -
too many cooks spoil the broth... let them cook on their own lah...
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your willingness to help is something praiseworthy. but you have to be realistic sometimes. there are lots of people out there who will not hesitate to take advantage of your goodwill. just dont let these people abuse you.Originally posted by nismoS132:let's say at your workplace, you go other department to do some work, and the people are that department are supposed to help you. but suei suei that day only got 1-2 people around. so those 2 people very luan, run here run there etc.
then you just sit at your area wait for them to bring the stuff over to you to do your work. but you work very fast, so end up keep on idling.
will you help them?
or will you just sit there and wait wait wait wait wait.
the job doesn't necessary end faster if you help, maybe just 10-20 mins.
if is me i will help. but i realize that myself, my department mainly, the others like damn cheebai won't bother one. somemore got a few times i help still kena suan by them "wah you want to help them ah" similanjiao. zho lang so self centreed for fuck?
the best way is to help out after someone has initiated the helping. dont be the odd one out!! -
And who's going to be the first ?Originally posted by dragg:your willingness to help is something praiseworthy. but you have to be realistic sometimes. there are lots of people out there who will not hesitate to take advantage of your goodwill. just dont let these people abuse you.
the best way is to help out after someone has initiated the helping. dont be the odd one out!!
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good question.Originally posted by Ferret:And who's going to be the first ? -
hahahahhahaha i love the way you describe it.
i normally help the people at my workplace because they help me too.
but there are some damn lazy people, what to do? its the same around the world. -
well, of coz complete ur own work 1st..then if u thk u would feel happy for helping other ppl then do it..but dun expect them to "repay" u back...it's all depends on urself
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see my mood loh...
most of the time, I bo chap... -
Hmm I find very uncomfortable is I completely chobo
when I know other people are working
so unless there's a specific reason (like I have been doing damn a lot of OT and feeling super tired and don't like these colleagues)
I will probably ASK how I can help them
if they say cannot help
then at least I got ask ba... hehehehehehhehe -
One thing I've learnt since starting work is in most cases, no good deed goes unpunished. I'm selective about whom I help. There are some people that I'll quite cheerfully stand by and watch them die.
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i have seen people helping others only to end up being assigned to take responsibility for the job itself.
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Yes, that was a rookie mistake I made..more than once.Originally posted by dragg:i have seen people helping others only to end up being assigned to take responsibility for the job itself.
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i will only help small things lah and even then i wont help unless they cannot cope or ask for help
big things dun help cos too much work and also big things is their job scop you help got somethign wrong good luck. oh yeah and helping others may not reflect good on yourself it can be taken to mean that you are not commiting all energy into your own work or that you are too free. -
Everyone is selfish to some extent. It will be better if could have a buddy or close friend at your workplace
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the last thing i want is to have my friend as my colleague.
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zhuo hao fen nei de jiu hao!!Originally posted by dragg:i have seen people helping others only to end up being assigned to take responsibility for the job itself. -
but if everybody does that it will be quite sad.Originally posted by BITCHY_BITCH:zhuo hao fen nei de jiu hao!! -
can u join my company and help me do my work too?Originally posted by dragg:but if everybody does that it will be quite sad.
come lah, dun so selfish... -
i thought you are an assistant director.Originally posted by BITCHY_BITCH:can u join my company and help me do my work too?
come lah, dun so selfish...