affair.
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recently took driving lessons from a private instructor....
think i've fallen for him.
problem is, he's like much older than me, and just got married.
We started chit chatting about life after a few lessons, and i found that im able to tok to him abt my life, work... etc. topics which i can never talk with my bf.
although we have each other's number, we didnt contact till some time later, when he finally forwarded me a normal sms. we started to sms each other normal things after that, like "how's ur work today... " etc etc.
i've got a bf, and he has a family. i cant bring myself to break his family up (maybe im thinking too far). but seems like i look forward to his sms and to seeing him even more than my bf.
i duno if he's interested in me, but he feeds me sweet while im driving. does he feel something extra for me??
dilemma.. think im crazy if i break up wif my bf for him. how do i forget abt him??? -
faster pass ur driving
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i also want leh.... but at the same time, i wish i can take driving lessons forever...
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your bf has a family? instructor also married? liddat also can?
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i mean i have bf, and my instructor has a family
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oic. change instructor bah.
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Originally posted by mystiv:faster pass ur driving
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LiEr.....I think (believe) this is just a passing fancy. Some kind of distractions which believe me, you will encounter a few more. I mean, please, we are going to live like what? 60, 80 years old. So throughout those years, we are going to meet many people, new people, different people. Sometimes, sparks may fly, after a routine relationship, a new being brings freshness or excitement. The most important thing is COMMITMENT and CONVICTIONS to your current relationship. If you don't have that, then you may start falling in and out of love everytime someone new or interesting comes along.
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u have to change instructor fast...and get a woman instructress...hmmm, wat happen if u like the instructress...well, wait when tat happens then u ask ok
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driving instructor looks like a good occupation.
my advice for you is to stop seeing him as soon as possible. it will benefit you, your boyfriend, your instructor and his family. -
how old r u, have u given to yr bf, if not yet then can break upOriginally posted by LiEr:i mean i have bf, and my instructor has a family -
I have been in this situation before & pls pls change your place of driving. Change instructor not good enough.
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just fren is ok, dont intimate with him, I also married but got one gf, I respect her just accompany her makan only, sometimes hug only, that is allOriginally posted by t_a_s:how old r u, have u given to yr bf, if not yet then can break up -
Originally posted by t_a_s:just fren is ok, dont intimate with him, I also married but got one gf, I respect her just accompany her makan only, sometimes hug only, that is all
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Hi t_a_s
It usually starts with a hug.......... and then............ and then........... and then you know what. And bingo, you are at a point of no return! -
she also told me just hug only, no more than thatOriginally posted by connoissuer:Hi t_a_s
It usually starts with a hug.......... and then............ and then........... and then you know what. And bingo, you are at a point of no return! -
so when we are happily attached, but we meet another somemore who is capable of making us have butterflies in our stomaches again... like we are young all over again... and gives us the sweetness of a new relationship.......
what do we do????
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If everytime a charming incredible guy comes along, you dump your current guy and move on, will you be sure you can stay for long with the new guy? If you can't be sure, do you want to keep moving on like an *immoral whore*? Just my 2 cents worth, no offence.
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U sound cheap...Originally posted by LiEr:recently took driving lessons from a private instructor....
think i've fallen for him.
problem is, he's like much older than me, and just got married.
We started chit chatting about life after a few lessons, and i found that im able to tok to him abt my life, work... etc. topics which i can never talk with my bf.
although we have each other's number, we didnt contact till some time later, when he finally forwarded me a normal sms. we started to sms each other normal things after that, like "how's ur work today... " etc etc.
i've got a bf, and he has a family. i cant bring myself to break his family up (maybe im thinking too far). but seems like i look forward to his sms and to seeing him even more than my bf.
i duno if he's interested in me, but he feeds me sweet while im driving. does he feel something extra for me??
dilemma.. think im crazy if i break up wif my bf for him. how do i forget abt him??? -
hey EXCUSE ME
if im cheap, i would be on bed with him this very minute. -
I think what you need to do now, is to learn to cherish your current bf. Every little thing he does for you signifies something. I once made the mistake of taking things for granted but luckily managed to win the person back. During that period of distress I started seeing and understanding the things my partner did for me, things that never hit upon me before.
I feel that if you can genuinely appreciate what your partner does for you, your heart will automatically be closed to 'exciting offers & promotions'. Of course, unless you are really cheap.
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Originally posted by LiEr:
Don't misunderstand his actions. He is treating u nicely cos u are his source of income. Competition is stiff, the one who gives good service gets to keep his clients.
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i duno if he's interested in me, but he feeds me sweet while im driving. does he feel something extra for me?? -
teacher is nice to everyone lah... -
Your instructor's being very unprofessional. It might be a good idea to terminate his services and enroll in one of the more reputable schools for proper driving instructions.
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this is just an encounter...u will get by very soon...control ur feeling...if u don't u will cause both of you into trouble...
