Married good friend interested in a girl I'm serious about..
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honestly u should tell ur friend that u like her and may wanna get serious with her. If he doesnt back off.. it clearly shows he doesnt take ur frenship seriously at all. Friendship > sex
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Why is it that if one guy want a fling and another girl want a serious r/s, the fling guy must back off...?Originally posted by SilverPal:Seems like I witnessed a similar situation (minus the married).
Had this friend R, famous in NUT for sleeping ard... He shifted out of hall 3 to hall 11 to escape the gossips...
Both he and my other friend G liked a certain gal. R goes to bed with a diff gal every weekend and he knows that he can get any gal he likes. Yet when he found out G likes the same gal, he refused to back away and let G get the gal... R gave some bullsh!t about a fair competition and gentlemanly fight for the gal.
R then promptly when around bad mouthing G (eg, calling him a dog peeing on the gal to mark his territory etc).
With this kind of "Brudder", who needs enemies?
How about the girl? maybe all she want is a fling leh? I think ultimately let her choose lor.....
Both shoudl just make their best pitch..... -
wad kind of good brudder is dat? tell him if he wans to remain brudder, fark off, or he can expect a divorce soon.Originally posted by Boc:That is something I will never do. He is really a very, very good brudder and I will never hurt him like that. -
i suppose u are someone who loves flings? Lets put it this way, u are in love with this gerl, a very good fren just wants to fark her brains out.. how would u feel?Originally posted by spencer99:Why is it that if one guy want a fling and another girl want a serious r/s, the fling guy must back off...?
How about the girl? maybe all she want is a fling leh? I think ultimately let her choose lor.....
Both shoudl just make their best pitch.....
If a brother is to put sex above a friendship, its not even called a frenship. There are so many other girls outside? -
Because in the case of a fling, the gal does not matter? its just sex. any FT in geylang can do it... furthermore, if you read my post, you realise that R does not need to fight over this gal, he has sooo many.Originally posted by spencer99:Why is it that if one guy want a fling and another girl want a serious r/s, the fling guy must back off...?
How about the girl? maybe all she want is a fling leh? I think ultimately let her choose lor.....
Both shoudl just make their best pitch.....
As for relationship, the gal actually matters. I can't just buy a FT from geylang and enter into a meaningful relationship with her can I? -
ok I gonna tell your wifeOriginally posted by sgboy2004:let the wife of your male friend know...whahahaha
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You might view your brudder-hood important ... does he?Originally posted by Boc:That is something I will never do. He is really a very, very good brudder and I will never hurt him like that.
So when he goes out to pluck wild flowers that you are not interested in,
do you are a brudder help him cover up?
Brudderhood more important than everything meh? Even your morals, principles, conscience? -
You might view your brudder-hood important ... does he?Originally posted by Boc:That is something I will never do. He is really a very, very good brudder and I will never hurt him like that.
So when he goes out to pluck wild flowers that you are not interested in,
do you as a brudder help him cover up?
Brudderhood more important than everything meh? Even your morals, principles, conscience? If you let ppl step all over you... what are your chances ???? -
The person u should be protecting is the girl.
She may be mislead by your good friend & get cheated.
It is best u let her know that he is married.