wat if ur gf quarrel wif ur family memebr
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actually i've made a mistake in the topic...... it should be
WAT IF UR WIFE QUARREL WIF UR FAMILY MEMBER
who do u help
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ur family of course
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Headache
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help the one who is right
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the one u are going to survive with the rest of ur life
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wat if both party r in the wrongOriginally posted by shinta:help the one who is right
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depends on the reason behind the quarrel
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n if necessary, scold both partiesOriginally posted by InnoHippo:depends on the reason behind the quarrel 
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but nothing is foreverOriginally posted by FireIce:the one u are going to survive with the rest of ur life
or can i say, nothing will last forever -
according to your theory, the quarrel oso wun last foreverOriginally posted by makiko:but nothing is forever
or can i say, nothing will last forever
u jus need to keep quiet and let it die down -
They are quarreling over you. How?
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support the one whom you feel is right.. and please be very reasonable.. also.. try to explain to them how you feel about the situation in a very very very nice way.. that i believe.. is very hard to do..
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i'm not tat wei da lahOriginally posted by charlize:They are quarreling over you. How? -
Ur family members would be hurt if u help ur gf cos ur gf is a stranger to them
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scold no parties; help to find a way though peacefully.
if necessary, take ur gf away from the scene? -
blame yourself.
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breakup with your gf..
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breakup with your family
I think breaking up with your gf is easier thing to do. -
no wonder u r singleOriginally posted by dragg:blame yourself. -
All should sit down and have a good talk. Neither your family member or your gf will feel good if you decide who to side.
Understand the crux of the problem and the reason behind this quarrel before you start saying who is right who is wrong.
Next time, let your gf know that she can always let you know if she is unhappy with any of your family member before she confront them to avoid unnecessary conflict. -
depends on the issue lah!
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eat bak kut teh
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the root cause is that two different cultures clashing.... and you are in the middle of it.Originally posted by Mrs Bubbly:All should sit down and have a good talk. Neither your family member or your gf will feel good if you decide who to side.
Understand the crux of the problem and the reason behind this quarrel before you start saying who is right who is wrong.
Next time, let your gf know that she can always let you know if she is unhappy with any of your family member before she confront them to avoid unnecessary conflict.
Talk is useless. Even this is solved, the next one will pop up anymore because fundamentally, it's differnt culture.
e.g. gf is talkative, and family is quiet type. then sure quarrell... or not happy with each other. -
firstly, what's the reason for the quarrel?
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If you are talking about upbringing here, there are definately conflicts.Originally posted by Glen999:the root cause is that two different cultures clashing.... and you are in the middle of it.
Talk is useless. Even this is solved, the next one will pop up anymore because fundamentally, it's differnt culture.
e.g. gf is talkative, and family is quiet type. then sure quarrell... or not happy with each other.
Let your gf know that she can 'complain' to you about her unhappiness first rather than saying it directly to any of your family members. It's up to you how you want to phrase this conversation to your family members later.
Also, let your gf know that she may be putting you in a difficult position if there are quarrel. Put that word nicely to her and she will make extra effort and be more sensitive when she talk to your family members.
Trust me, I am married and currently staying with my parent-in-laws and sister-in-laws for 4 years. I have experienced this many times. I used to do that to my bf's family member and now I am married to him, I have learnt to be more tolerant. -
wrong!!!! girl is quiet.....family like to add salt add vinegarOriginally posted by Glen999:the root cause is that two different cultures clashing.... and you are in the middle of it.
Talk is useless. Even this is solved, the next one will pop up anymore because fundamentally, it's differnt culture.
e.g. gf is talkative, and family is quiet type. then sure quarrell... or not happy with each other.