Originally posted by daphne_1802:
firstly u dont have to be cheena to know ur roots. i can speak english, dont dress in tradional chinese costumes, try very hard not to be old-fashioned and still know my roots. at least im not ashamed of myself in this sense. and im happy to say that im not cheena at all.
to be friends, mutual respect is required. him scolding vulgarites openly itself is an act of disrespect not only to me but to himself too. i admit i do spew vulgarites but i do not use the hokien language. that is besides the point, but all i have to say is i treasure all my friends a lot and im very sure they are glad to have me as a friend.
eng vulgarities are more 'class' than hokkien vulgarities you mean?
so one is still 'civilised' if he speaks eng vulgar and not hokkien la?
vulgars are still vulgars wor!