Would you guys ever date a transsexual?
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Well, simple one word answer, just yes or no lol.
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no comment.
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hmm.. maybe. i see my transsexual friend after sex change op first then i tell u a more definite answer
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friend, can; date, never.
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How do I know they are in the 1st place?
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Well, I guess you can actually tell some of them apart, or at least suspect. Though I doubt any ang moh ever gussed that I'm trans though.
Anyway well, I usually tell most guys I'm serious with by by the 5th date, and so far its been a total disapointment. I was dumped straight away by all 7 of them at the very moment I told them.
So, yea, I'm just wondering if any of your would ever date a transsexual, and actually might marry one. If not I'm better of moving to elsewhere lol. -
Hmm...It would depend on the individual's chracteristics. If she is a nice person why not?Originally posted by JennTS:Well, I guess you can actually tell some of them apart, or at least suspect. Though I doubt any ang moh ever gussed that I'm trans though.
Anyway well, I usually tell most guys I'm serious with by by the 5th date, and so far its been a total disapointment. I was dumped straight away by all 7 of them at the very moment I told them.
So, yea, I'm just wondering if any of your would ever date a transsexual. -
So would you be willing to marry her?
Most guys that I know, they find me to be a really sweet and nice girl, and those that I date, we really fall in love with each other but well, it all just changes after I tell them. -
How much for your service?Originally posted by JennTS:So would you be willing to marry her?
Most guys that I know, they find me to be a really sweet and nice girl, and those that I date, we really fall in love with each other but well, it all just changes after I tell them.
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oh god....I'm pre-op, you don't wanna. anyway I'm not going into the sex trade industry.
Maybe I better change the question though, lol.
Soooo....how many of your might actually marry a transsexual? If your loved each other enough. -
LOL!!! whats their reaction when u tell them u r a trans?
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are u looking to be married with a man?
just to throw out the legalities, wouldn't having a meaningful reln with him be better? no need for marriage, which is prob not legal. u're still classified as male right? -
Never , not even harisu..
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reaction? shocked obviously. they usually get pretty disgusted with the whole thing and most just push me away and leave me there on the spot.
well, currently my sex is still M, since I'm still pre-op, but I've gotten a legal named change though.
and yea, I plan to marry a man. it is legal in singapore, and its not as if I could marry a woman in singapore once I go for my op, lol. -
why not?
But the sex-change op has to be very thorough such that you could not find any flaws or any difference from the real thing -
girl u do know that if u're pre-op, not many people would, unless they are guys who're into dicks. post-op, not a problemOriginally posted by JennTS:oh god....I'm pre-op, you don't wanna. anyway I'm not going into the sex trade industry.
Maybe I better change the question though, lol.
Soooo....how many of your might actually marry a transsexual? If your loved each other enough. -
umm, well, that depends. which part are you referring to? the sex part or the marriage part? lol.
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u're asking me? or Finnz?Originally posted by JennTS:umm, well, that depends. which part are you referring to? the sex part or the marriage part? lol. -
u.
and to finnz: i doubt you could actually tell the difference. my friend's been married for 2 years and her husband still hasn't found out yet. i doubt she even intends to tell him about her past. -
oh i was talking about the marriage part. because this world is unfair. a gay guy might like u but he's going to see u as a guy and i dun think u want that. straight guys would not want someone with a dick, on the other hand, and while they may love u, it gives them a dliemma, and then after awhile the frustration gets to them and they give up on u. it's Shitty, but thats wot happens.Originally posted by JennTS:u.
i sorta assumed the other guy was referring to sex when he mentioned the word 'services'. -
very frankly...no
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well you do realize that I am going to get my op in a few years? I really don't intend on living my life like this, so thats not really gonna be much of a problem.
but well, still too young to get an op anyway. hopefully I can get it before NS though, so I'm allowed to skip it.. -
I once saw pics taken of a sex change op (from email).
After the operation, down there really looked like woman's private. So I suppose, men may not be able to tell if they have married a transsexual.
As for ONS, all the more the guys cannot tell, cuz the guys won't know the "ladies' " background. My transsexual friends like to hang around pubs almost every night and they told me they get hit on every time. -
Well then that settles itOriginally posted by JennTS:u.
and to finnz: i doubt you could actually tell the difference. my friend's been married for 2 years and her husband still hasn't found out yet. i doubt she even intends to tell him about her past.
And i think you shouldn't tell too, the guy is better off not knowing and lets just say some thing are better off kept tight in your closet -
u're pre-NS? hmm well there is no such thing as too young for an op. trust me, the earlier u can get it, the better. u leave it too long and u end up facing a lot of frustrations later in your life. the way i see it, its better to face whatever u'd have to face now while u have proper support due to your age, rather than to face it later in life when u're alone and have no one to turn to. In fact, if the finances for your op is not a problem because your family or someone is willing to sponser it, I say go for it. U dunno how lucky u are compared to a lot of other people with TG issues.Originally posted by JennTS:well you do realize that I am going to get my op in a few years? I really don't intend on living my life like this, so thats not really gonna be much of a problem.
but well, still too young to get an op anyway. hopefully I can get it before NS though, so I'm allowed to skip it.