Advantages of being a single
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anyone care to share?
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lots...
no need to worry about someone else... -
Don't need to report..And the ability to do anything you want except illegal stuff..
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what are the things that they will worry abt?Originally posted by mistyblue:lots...
no need to worry about someone else... -
There are more disadvantages than advantages, IMO
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take a look at AAOriginally posted by SnowFlag:what are the things that they will worry abt?
- Worry the other person welfare
- Worry not taking their views into account
- Worry he/she not happy
- Worry one day they will walk out
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can elaborate?Originally posted by stellazio:Don't need to report..And the ability to do anything you want except illegal stuff.. -
I quote from William Wallace in Braveheart... but not in the same sense...
Freedom -
yeah, with all the problem... it makes me wonder if marriage is worth it.Originally posted by mistyblue:take a look at AA
- Worry the other person welfare
- Worry not taking their views into account
- Worry he/she not happy
- Worry one day they will walk out
etc
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noneed to consider too muc about te others. SAVE M ONEY/
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but look at William Wallace's ending...Originally posted by mistyblue:I quote from William Wallace in Braveheart... but not in the same sense...
Freedom
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So I fear the old chain and ball routine... more than any guy I know.. fact is I think I have a phobia...Originally posted by SnowFlag:yeah, with all the problem... it makes me wonder if marriage is worth it. -
what is his ending?Originally posted by findingnewidea:but look at William Wallace's ending... -
Hohoho... what a question to ask... what about asking yourself "disadvantages of being attached/tied down" for a start?
Yeah... Freedom is a definate answer no matter how you look at it... I don't know how you look at it being single, but it surely means that if your friends suddenly ask you out to hangout or to slack, you need not worry having to "answer" to that someone, especially those who requires you to "report dutifully" all the time round -
I once read in an news article that to be happy, one needs to stop looking for happiness.
To me, the saying seems to hold some truth. -
In the show he died...Originally posted by SnowFlag:what is his ending?
for freedom... but the point being Freedom.. -
When you "look" for it, you will not see it and miss it altogether ...Originally posted by SnowFlag:I once read in an news article that to be happy, one needs to stop looking for happiness.
To me, the saying seems to hold some truth.
when you do not look for it... some how, quietly it comes on its own way and look for you...
And on one mysterious, innane, quiet friday night while you were doing something mundane ...
It occur upon you ... that you are actually quite happy...
I stopped repeating a story I once heard about a tiger... -
Can go out with whoever & whenever.
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well, i m never attached b4. For most singles I believe they look forward to be attached. But here I am looking to find out if the attached are looking forward to be singles again (but i dun think so)Originally posted by fredex:Hohoho... what a question to ask... what about asking yourself "disadvantages of being attached/tied down" for a start?
Yeah... Freedom is a definate answer no matter how you look at it... I don't know how you look at it being single, but it surely means that if your friends suddenly ask you out to hangout or to slack, you need not worry having to "answer" to that someone, especially those who requires you to "report dutifully" all the time round
I am glad that ppl come forward to share the experience.
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Snowflag... I detect something... care to share.. -
not quite free actuallyOriginally posted by mistyblue:In the show he died...
for freedom... but the point being Freedom.. 
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u mean u are going to share something or are u asking me to share something?Originally posted by mistyblue:Snowflag... I detect something... care to share.. -
yeah, no one from my side who would get jealous.Originally posted by Camellias4me:Can go out with whoever & whenever.
or it means no one cares -
Hey snow... what about you share your views on this topic? Ask yourself supposingly you were attached... what kind of restrictions will you face? If not, try considering what you enjoy being single now? hmm... don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to imply that being single is good all the time, but there are certain stages in your life where you will enjoy more being single and there will be times where you will enjoy more being attached...Originally posted by SnowFlag:well, i m never attached b4. For most singles I believe they look forward to be attached. But here I am looking to find out if the attached are looking forward to be singles again (but i dun think so)
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well asking you but I think you already replied...Originally posted by SnowFlag:u mean u are going to share something or are u asking me to share something?
Its hard to tell for each person... whether being single or being attached is better, but for all the down sides, there is a positive side..
It depends on each person..
For me (now I share), I finally found myself to be in a state of bliss in my single days.. then along came this bloke.. he shattered my peace and cause me much trouble. However, through it I learn new things and realised I might have stagnated a bit if I remain single. changes happen and lots of adjustments later.. still I think that when you are ready to move on... you will feel as if you've been granted a view of the big picture and pieces of the puzzle just fell into their designated places.