Advantages of being a single
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Being single, it is hard to imagine the restriction of being attached and the advantages of being single. But it is good to hear the viewpoint put forth by others.Originally posted by fredex:Hey snow... what about you share your views on this topic? Ask yourself supposingly you were attached... what kind of restrictions will you face? If not, try considering what you enjoy being single now? hmm... don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to imply that being single is good all the time, but there are certain stages in your life where you will enjoy more being single and there will be times where you will enjoy more being attached...
I think this is a question that many of us wanted to know...since there seems to be more ppl choosing to be singles now...or maybe they don't have a choice..or maybe they missed the opportunities...
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Originally posted by mistyblue:In the show he died...
for freedom...
but the point being Freedom.. 
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can translate or not?Originally posted by erijazz:
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it takes a certain level of understanding to be in a relationship and to grow the r/s. Being single is also not easy... I hated all that comments I get during CNY or friends.... -
True as well... I'm not sure how others feel at this moment but given a choice I'll say I'll rather be attached! But hey, it has to be the right person in the first place and yeah... when time allows for that...Originally posted by SnowFlag:Being single, it is hard to imagine the restriction of being attached and the advantages of being single. But it is good to hear the viewpoint put forth by others.
I think this is a question that many of us wanted to know...since there seems to be more ppl choosing to be singles now...or maybe they don't have a choice..or maybe they missed the opportunities...
If you have to be working almost 6 days a week with just one day left for yourself, how can one even consider to have some time to spend with your love ones? And love ones means family and friends and buddies and colleagues as well... haha... -
in being single, friends are important ... ask you go older... they go their own way and then eventually you'll find not many friends have time to be with you.. then you try to mix with the younger crowd... but there is a gap... -
haha, sounds like me.Originally posted by mistyblue:in being single, friends are important ... ask you go older... they go their own way and then eventually you'll find not many friends have time to be with you.. then you try to mix with the younger crowd... but there is a gap... -
that makes you sound very oldOriginally posted by SnowFlag:haha, sounds like me.
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jia lat right...Originally posted by SnowFlag:haha, sounds like me.
All my female friends are married and have kids
Even asking for a 1 minute phone call from them in one whole year, is asking too much of them. Its sad but its true. But mostly I feel taken for granted cause when these people need help or are in trouble, my phone will ring... I felt very used and most unhappy. -
To summaries from the stories I hv heard:
One often dun get to marry the ones that he/she like most.
A guy spends a lot of time wooing the girl and won her over.
But that love is lost after the birth of their 1st child, as most wives care more for the child than the husband. -
something like that lah...
I most fear ... of growing apart from my other half.. -
yeah, i m starting to feel old.Originally posted by fredex:that makes you sound very old 
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I think the advantages is pretty obvious...
..is that you still can bio any girls on the streets.. anywhere.. anytime! -
Aye can grow old, but never feel old...Originally posted by SnowFlag:yeah, i m starting to feel old. -
my bf bio even when I am around. I beo with him somemore...Originally posted by FadeToBlack:I think the advantages is pretty obvious...
..is that you still can bio any girls on the streets.. anywhere.. anytime! -
I always feel it is good if we can help others....seems to always hv such a longbang for me.Originally posted by mistyblue:jia lat right...
All my female friends are married and have kids
Even asking for a 1 minute phone call from them in one whole year, is asking too much of them. Its sad but its true. But mostly I feel taken for granted cause when these people need help or are in trouble, my phone will ring... I felt very used and most unhappy. -
haha same same... i know why!!! Cos we are the single gangOriginally posted by SnowFlag:I always feel it is good if we can help others....seems to always hv such a longbang for me. -
I think bioing is not a good habitOriginally posted by mistyblue:my bf bio even when I am around. I beo with him somemore... 
But i think it is good that we dun received an earful from her/him when we bio.
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Thanks all for the sharing.
Time for me to get some sleep -
U can still do dat even if u'r attached. Juz don't get caught..Originally posted by FadeToBlack:I think the advantages is pretty obvious...
..is that you still can bio any girls on the streets.. anywhere.. anytime!
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I'll help him to bio! Infact i always spot the babes faster den the guys.Originally posted by mistyblue:my bf bio even when I am around. I beo with him somemore... -
lol.. wait 1 day.. end up is he and some other girl bio u..Originally posted by mistyblue:my bf bio even when I am around. I beo with him somemore... -
Originally posted by SnowFlag:
One's clumsy translation attempt:
can translate or not?
"Life is precious yet, Love is all the more.
But for Freedom's sake, both are shown the door." -
Best part is your options are still open. You'll never say you settled for the wrong one. You can always have the choice to pick the prettier/hunkier one.
So much tougher when you're emotionally attached to someone.