wat will u do if ur younger brother (15) behaves like that..

• BaBy_JaP_WaWa

  4 Oct 05, 21:21

  takes money (average round $30-40) almost everyday from my grandmother when my father give him $10 everyday for his allowance even sat n sun n holidays.. my grandmother recorded the total amount he took in oct including the $10 allowance from my father total amount $600+ last month sept almost $700.. WTF.. going out n coming back late even thou he has exams or sch the next day..
  
  keep pestering ppl for $$.. talk back to my granmother n mi.. even my grandmother also agree to send him to those homes for beyond parent control kids.. suggested to my father but he ask us to not care abt him.. then i think if he dun take any actions against my brother later he take knife point at my grandmother then he react i think it's too late lor..
  
  then now my auntie noe that my brother goes out n comes back late then she like keep blaming mi for not controlling him.. then my mother keep asking mi too look out for him.. i realli canot tahan lor.. he dun even listen to my father he will listen to mi meh.. i told my auntie then she say.. 'he dun listen but u still his sister ma still have to take care of him'.. really very frustrating de leh everytime my mother n my auntie keep asking mi where he go mix with which type of frenz.. he also nv say even if i ask he also wun say de then they still keep asking.. *ARGH* stupid bro.. make everybody worry for him.. brainless freak
  
• the.raven

  4 Oct 05, 22:53

  hang him upside down and beat him like a pinato till the gold falls out.
• shade343

  4 Oct 05, 22:55

  Explain to him the teaching " What goes around comes around"
• LazerLordz

  4 Oct 05, 22:56

  Originally posted by the.raven:

  hang him upside down and beat him like a pinato till the gold falls out.

  Gold?Got sweets?
• stellazio

  4 Oct 05, 22:59

  boys home la..before its too late..
• kaobeikaobu

  4 Oct 05, 23:07

  be a care bear, soon he will learn?
• seow

  4 Oct 05, 23:27

  Stop giving him the money, get a counsellor?
  
• elektra

  4 Oct 05, 23:41

  if he goes to the boys' home it'll mean a Record for him... wont it look bad if he finds job outside in the future ?
  
  on the other hand... i also haf a bro almost like tat.. but never take so much money... as the eldest sis having a stubborn brother... i sympathize wif u.
  i was suggesting to my mom to send him to NS after O'level so he can get more mature, after which he'll (probably) know the reason for studying
• kiss_my (_i_)

  4 Oct 05, 23:46

  how old is he?
  
  last time i also like tht.. but now i knw wat should and shouldnt..
  
  but i never ask $$$ frm anyone... just like to hang around with frens and back late...
  
  give him some times...
• Ogbunwezeh

  5 Oct 05, 01:27

  Is it ur bro when small nv look after properbly den kena becum spoil brat den now do all those stupid things
• nOrmalbOi

  5 Oct 05, 01:34

  older sister get older ahbeng-ish frens to "teach" him a bit?
  
  boy's home i dun think got record... but the "beyond parental control" order has to be filed.. black mark liao..
  
  follow him or get frens to keep a look out for him and inform u if they see him? then at least u noe where he hangs out liao..
  
  but i guess... keep taking marnee.. should be either go arcade pway ID or max tune or some sh!t.. or lan shop chiong lan game..
  
  
• ditzy

  5 Oct 05, 01:35

  Let him have sex with you, so he can get his mind off the money.
• Ogbunwezeh

  5 Oct 05, 01:38

  Send to prison better. My friend once a ex convict, he need money den go house breaking for many time at last kena caught den sentence a few yrs, come out dun dare liao. Now as gd as yi tiao hao han.
• BaBy_JaP_WaWa

  5 Oct 05, 10:57

  i n my grandmother my mother also suggest to my father liao he dun wan..
  
  he's a spoilt brat i admit cos my grandmother loooveeesss him so much.. eg. preparing his dinner like scooping the rice for him putting all the vegetables n meat nicely on the plate n serve to him.. WTF i realli canot tahan this type of behaviour lor
  
  i'm a night bird but i dun go ard taking money from my parents or my grandmother.. i feel very embrassed when i take money from them .. even if it's onli a dollar..
  
  btw he's 15 this year
• ghost91

  5 Oct 05, 11:09

  if ure chio bu go bully him
  
  sure love chio bu bully one hahahaha
• skyfoo

  5 Oct 05, 11:11

  let me guess.. he's an ah beng right?
• Ogbunwezeh

  5 Oct 05, 12:37

  I think send to counselling la, but whether he wanna go or not still is a problem
• BaBy_JaP_WaWa

  5 Oct 05, 16:25

  he's not an ah beng but he acts like one.. i hate his damn stupid acting cool attitude..
• UOS

  5 Oct 05, 18:39

  Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:

  Send to prison better. My friend once a ex convict, he need money den go house breaking for many time at last kena caught den sentence a few yrs, come out dun dare liao. Now as gd as yi tiao hao han.

  is ur fren that spider man who appears in the news many yrs ago...?
• dovey55sg

  5 Oct 05, 23:57

  well, just to share my 'experience'. My step-brother is 13 this year. Just last month, my sis found out that $1500 is missing from her locked drawer. After interrogation, he admitted that he's the one who took it. Of the $1500, only $200 was left. The rest...spend on 2 hps, mp3 and food. The money was actually to be used for renovation, and it was a loan from my mum's boss. After probing, he admitted that it was not the first time he did it. He actually used to take some money bit by bit from the house. A few days after the $1500 incident, he took a handful of coins from my elder sis room again.
  
  My sis took my brother to the police station and asked the policemen to "warned" him that if he ever do that again, the next solution will be to send him to the boys' home.
  
  So far, no more stealing incidents....either because my family members more careful with their money, or the policemen really freaked him out.
  
  So, better to deal with it now.......or it's too late.
• R3SsH|n

  6 Oct 05, 00:05

  one thing is for sure...whatever the solution...you have to do it fast...when your brother grows older...it WILL be harder to control him
• Ogbunwezeh

  6 Oct 05, 00:28

  Originally posted by UOS:

  is ur fren that spider man who appears in the news many yrs ago...?

  Its the other one, happen to show in the news, he together with his few friends kena caught red handed, i think4 to 5 yrs ago
• hisoka

  6 Oct 05, 00:48

  Originally posted by BaBy_JaP_WaWa:

  takes money (average round $30-40) almost everyday from my grandmother when my father give him $10 everyday for his allowance even sat n sun n holidays.. my grandmother recorded the total amount he took in oct including the $10 allowance from my father total amount $600+ last month sept almost $700.. WTF.. going out n coming back late even thou he has exams or sch the next day..
  
  keep pestering ppl for $$.. talk back to my granmother n mi.. even my grandmother also agree to send him to those homes for beyond parent control kids.. suggested to my father but he ask us to not care abt him.. then i think if he dun take any actions against my brother later he take knife point at my grandmother then he react i think it's too late lor..
  
  then now my auntie noe that my brother goes out n comes back late then she like keep blaming mi for not controlling him.. then my mother keep asking mi too look out for him.. i realli canot tahan lor.. he dun even listen to my father he will listen to mi meh.. i told my auntie then she say.. 'he dun listen but u still his sister ma still have to take care of him'.. really very frustrating de leh everytime my mother n my auntie keep asking mi where he go mix with which type of frenz.. he also nv say even if i ask he also wun say de then they still keep asking.. *ARGH* stupid bro.. make everybody worry for him.. brainless freak
  

  you never tell your aunt he your nephewhe dun listen you still have to take care of him?
  
  and you never tell your mum and auntie when they ask you that if they dunno how you know?(esp your mum)
• BaBy_JaP_WaWa

  6 Oct 05, 09:11

  you never tell your aunt he your nephewhe dun listen you still have to take care of him?
  
  and you never tell your mum and auntie when they ask you that if they dunno how you know?(esp your mum)

  i tell them liao lor then they still ask all this stupid questions..
• sgFish

  6 Oct 05, 14:46

  Originally posted by BaBy_JaP_WaWa:

  takes money (average round $30-40) almost everyday from my grandmother when my father give him $10 everyday for his allowance even sat n sun n holidays.. my grandmother recorded the total amount he took in oct including the $10 allowance from my father total amount $600+ last month sept almost $700.. WTF.. going out n coming back late even thou he has exams or sch the next day..
  
  keep pestering ppl for $$.. talk back to my granmother n mi.. even my grandmother also agree to send him to those homes for beyond parent control kids.. suggested to my father but he ask us to not care abt him.. then i think if he dun take any actions against my brother later he take knife point at my grandmother then he react i think it's too late lor..
  
  then now my auntie noe that my brother goes out n comes back late then she like keep blaming mi for not controlling him.. then my mother keep asking mi too look out for him.. i realli canot tahan lor.. he dun even listen to my father he will listen to mi meh.. i told my auntie then she say.. 'he dun listen but u still his sister ma still have to take care of him'.. really very frustrating de leh everytime my mother n my auntie keep asking mi where he go mix with which type of frenz.. he also nv say even if i ask he also wun say de then they still keep asking.. *ARGH* stupid bro.. make everybody worry for him.. brainless freak
  

  oh i know. don't do anything about him, and get the grandma to stop giving money. and leave him like that. see he grow up become what