Any ideas of what I can do on my boyfriend's birthday?

• sweetevil

  5 Oct 05, 15:46

  I'm wondering what I can do and give on his birthday? I'm running out of ideas.
  
  By the way, its his 20th birthday. We've been together for almost 5yrs.
  
  I really want it to make it a very special and unforgettable day for him.
  
  any suggestions of where to dine???? *Nice food, Nice atmosphere & Nice concept of restaurant is important.
  
  my budget for dinner is $100!!!
  
  i've already got him a braun buffel wallet on our anniversary.. any other ideas?
  
  Pls help me, thx!!!
• launtpc

  5 Oct 05, 15:49

  
• sweetevil

  5 Oct 05, 15:54

  Originally posted by launtpc:

  

  nope.. we're not married
  
  
• launtpc

  5 Oct 05, 15:57

  ah, but then still can know what he likes right?
  
  AND NEVER LET HIM KNOW what you doing because we guys will be like... "oh i expected this."
  
  And dun even ask him what he like, because most probably he will be waiting for your move, expecting you to surprise him.
• Deportivo

  5 Oct 05, 15:58

  Originally posted by launtpc:

  

  
• Deportivo

  5 Oct 05, 15:58

  
  
  Unforgetable.....in every way.....
• sweetevil

  5 Oct 05, 16:42

  Originally posted by Deportivo:

  
  
  Unforgetable.....in every way.....

  what the fish??? if you have nothing constructive to say, don't even bother replying.
  
  
• BlUe G@rF|eLd

  5 Oct 05, 16:46

  fine dining?? Or buffet style?? Or simple restaurant??? Any special food he like??
  Nvr mention, hw to brainstorm 4 u!!?
• stellazio

  5 Oct 05, 16:48

  You don't need me to spell it out in words do you..
• JuzMy2Cts

  5 Oct 05, 17:11

  For food,
  
  1) SAF Yacht club near Sembawang Camp... have a by-the-jetty seafood restaurant called Gally by the Straits....
  
  2) Sentosa, Sharkeys restaurant by the beach besides Shangrila...
  
  3) Cafe Les Amis at the botanical gardens...
  
  4) Your house, candle light dinner...
  
  For gift,
  
  if really no idea, wrap yourself up then???
• renorenal

  5 Oct 05, 17:13

  Sometimes, something simple may be enough to show that you care. Not much of a point to show your love by having things the classy way. But it all depends on his character lor...
• goaler

  5 Oct 05, 17:17

  Originally posted by JuzMy2Cts:

  For food,
  
  1) SAF Yacht club near Sembawang Camp... have a by-the-jetty seafood restaurant called Gally by the Straits....
  
  2) Sentosa, Sharkeys restaurant by the beach besides Shangrila...
  
  3) Cafe Les Amis at the botanical gardens...
  
  4) Your house, candle light dinner...
  
  For gift,
  
  if really no idea, wrap yourself up then???

  Hey.. except for number 4.. i think your option 1-3 are far too expenisve for her..
  
  Her budget only $100 leh..
  You know Les Amis.. one person set dinner is $150 liao!
  
• kiss_my (_i_)

  5 Oct 05, 17:19

  buy him gold fish..
  
• CoolMyth

  5 Oct 05, 17:47

  You need to give him something that is a "first time" for him.
  
  As for what can be his "first time", ie, he never experienced or seen before, well, go think about it.
• JennTS

  5 Oct 05, 17:59

  sex.
• kAdEn

  5 Oct 05, 23:25

  5 yrs together they have never had sex? I don't really believe man.....
  And if they have not done it, then now isn't the time. Probably wait for marriage then consumate the wedding. Will be even special then
  
  looking at your budget, you can try black angus at orchard parade hotel.
  It's not exactly fine dining, because your budget doesn't allow you to do that...(fine dining places got dress codes, and usually very freaking expensive!!)
  
  But i'll prob go with the norm, but some beef and red wine from the cold storage. Cook it together, then have dinner with red wine! rent some movies to watch at home...best is those romantic movies. Then after all the alcohol prob all psyched up for more activities in the room!
  
  If you still have not had sex with him, then rent more movies, not all romance stories pls....you can cuddle together and watch till fall asleep.
  
  But i think it's might be a problem, cos you prob stay with parents...watch in the room? Dinner....erm...ask your parents and siblings to go out till a certain time?
• juz_A_gal

  5 Oct 05, 23:36

  i planned a mini getaway at a hotel once. throw all our work and studies behind our minds.
• supafatty

  6 Oct 05, 00:04

  Originally posted by sweetevil:

  what the fish??? if you have nothing constructive to say, don't even bother replying.
  
  

  I absolutely agree. Unfortunately, sgforums truely is a Singaporean forum, 99% of it consists of co*k, it is afterall the national past time - not mine.
  
  Anyway it's so nice and sweet to know that you've been together for 5 years already. I really wish you both the best!
  
  With regards to dinner, $100 to spend in Singapore is still a decent amount, you could bring him to makan square or gluttons bay (or what's it called .. that seetoh guy .. the makansutra man's place .. ) and buy him a bit of everything, and a sweet gesture would be to finish off with abit of cake by the river .. maybe a stroll under the moonlight then again I am a guy so I'm speaking from the perspective of what I would do, not what I expect a girl to do for me ..
  
  If heartland delights ain't your cup of tea, goodwood park hotel serves great food (i haven't been there in a while) with a great lounge like atmosphere and you guys could probably hit the town for a late night movie afterwards .. also you could try out taking the cable car up to mt faber where there is a restaurant .. really nice views but it can get super crowded .. kinda ruins the mood .. if you drive, i'd rather you park somewhere isolated and just cook for him, a man loves his woman's cooking best .. in my case at least ! hope you have a great day out
• sinicker

  6 Oct 05, 00:08

  hmmx.. my bday comg on the 18th.. wonder wad my gf wud do...
• shade343

  6 Oct 05, 00:09

  Originally posted by sinicker:

  hmmx.. my bday comg on the 18th.. wonder wad my gf wud do...

  Will she do as what Deportivo suggest?
• sinicker

  6 Oct 05, 00:12

  Originally posted by shade343:

  Will she do as what Deportivo suggest?

  HAHA. no way. dono ah.. fasting month.. wont be gg out to meet each other.. bday during fasting month.. study for As some more..
• sweetevil

  6 Oct 05, 00:52

  Originally posted by kAdEn:

  5 yrs together they have never had sex? I don't really believe man.....
  And if they have not done it, then now isn't the time. Probably wait for marriage then consumate the wedding. Will be even special then
  
  looking at your budget, you can try black angus at orchard parade hotel.
  It's not exactly fine dining, because your budget doesn't allow you to do that...(fine dining places got dress codes, and usually very freaking expensive!!)
  
  But i'll prob go with the norm, but some beef and red wine from the cold storage. Cook it together, then have dinner with red wine! rent some movies to watch at home...best is those romantic movies. Then after all the alcohol prob all psyched up for more activities in the room!
  
  If you still have not had sex with him, then rent more movies, not all romance stories pls....you can cuddle together and watch till fall asleep.
  
  But i think it's might be a problem, cos you prob stay with parents...watch in the room? Dinner....erm...ask your parents and siblings to go out till a certain time?

  thanks all for taking up ur precious time to share some of ur ideas with me.
  
  i really appreciate it!
  
  erm, actually we prefer western food to anything else. i remembered his 19th birthday, we dined at Tony Roma's and i bought him a Tiramisu cake - his favourite.
  
  i'm pretty understanding that the sincerity, chemistry and companion is more important than any other factors such as where and what to eat & give him as a present.
  
  im just wondering what i could buy for him or make for him other than wallets???? erm, something useful to be precise?
  
  i still have 1 more month left before his birthday.
  
  regarding whether we've sex or not.... i must say this is a very personal question.
  
  up to u to decipher
  
  Pls give me more ideas of what I can make or do or buy for him as a birthday gift?
  
  Thx!!!!!
• ^mR.yellow^86

  6 Oct 05, 01:03

  Buy some flours and planta, bake a cake out of it(not a real cake), out him out on his birthday, by 11.00pm, take out the cake lighted with candles, sing a birthday song. it may seem lame and normal birthday susprise, but the good thing about the 'fake cake' is it's cheap and you can caked him fully in the face. hope it helps?
• so_what

  6 Oct 05, 02:15

  yoooo, u oredi got him a braun wallet which is not cheap either so actually u dun hav to dine a wonderful restaurant..y dun make him a bday cake or cook a bday meal for him, i thk he wil appreciate n move. U can oso try to dedicate a song on radio n turn on for him to listen. Do somethg "simple" yet unforgetable?
• sinicker

  6 Oct 05, 02:36

  what i did on my 5mths anniversary.
  
  call up my gf's friends to bring her out to ECP. bring her to the breakwaters. blindfold her. meanwhile, i was at mccafe buying a cake and drinks. i go there. her friends took her hand and held it to mine. her friends went off. i opened her blindfold. well, she was surprised.
  
  but considering ur rltnshp 5 yrs already, i bet u've done this lah.
  
  how abt cable car dining?