bout au revior's potential husband
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same can be said about you. prove what you say.Originally posted by the.raven:you need some basic reading comprehension abilities, I was talking to you, dumbass. oops sorry for hurting your feelings, now find a place with no one around and play by yourself.
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this is plain dumb
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Originally posted by sexieststudinworld:
the proof is right here, the crap you post on the forums is the proof
same can be said about you. prove what you say.
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What happened to the banana family ah?
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Originally posted by the.raven:
Wat the...
you need some basic reading comprehension abilities, I was talking to you, dumbass. oops sorry for hurting your feelings, now find a place with no one around and play by yourself.
Tat a quote from someone earlier rite?
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you guys actually understood this post?Originally posted by sexieststudinworld:
A dog dog B dog dog police come catch u liao for making racist threads against the great caucasian white men, catch no ball or not, hor? aiyo dun call dem 'ang moh' hor den police cum cum you so bodoh still not ...whatever I can't do it anymore.
bottomline, don't mess with the white man, or the police will sCrew your @ss (i know you like it, but when you're bleeding and it's been torn apart, you won't think the same way anymore)
can anybody guess why I'm laughing?
This post is in accordance with the guidlines to How to be a racist in sgforumsas per stipulated in my thread (rule 7, 9 and 10). Its nice when your pets are so obedient. -
http://newpaper.asia1.com.sg/news/story/0,4136,96108,00.html?
Was Bout au Revoir responsible for seducing this man? -
Originally posted by SilverPal:you guys actually understood this post?
This post is in accordance with the guidlines to How to be a racist in sgforumsas per stipulated in my thread (rule 7, 9 and 10). Its nice when your pets are so obedient. -
stfu n00bOriginally posted by sexieststudinworld:
A dog dog B dog dog police come catch u liao for making racist threads against the great caucasian white men, catch no ball or not, hor? aiyo dun call dem 'ang moh' hor den police cum cum you so bodoh still not ...whatever I can't do it anymore.
bottomline, don't mess with the white man, or the police will sCrew your @ss (i know you like it, but when you're bleeding and it's been torn apart, you won't think the same way anymore)
can anybody guess why I'm laughing? -
Can she?Originally posted by iveco:http://newpaper.asia1.com.sg/news/story/0,4136,96108,00.html?
Was Bout au Revoir responsible for seducing this man?
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The Electric New Paper :
More expat marriages in trouble
Singapore: Expat temptation island?
DRESSED in a long blue floral dress and leather sandals, auburn-haired Rachel (not her real name), looks like your typical expatriate wife.
By Crystal Chan
19 October 2005
DRESSED in a long blue floral dress and leather sandals, auburn-haired Rachel (not her real name), looks like your typical expatriate wife.
But is she living a life of leisure, basking in the luxury of her husband's posting and enjoying perks like free housing, allowances and travel?
No.
Instead, Rachel, 48, an Australian housewife, looks at her time in Singapore with bitterness. She has been separated from her husband, a banker, for two years.
She is among an increasing number of Caucasian women whose marriages hit the rocks after their husbands were posted to Singapore.
And she blames their marital woes on a pretty young Singaporean woman.
Rachel, who has two adult sons from her marriage, said: 'My husband was good to us until he met a 20-something local woman. I can't make him want this family, but I believe she must have seduced him.
'My husband never strayed while we were in Australia, so I was really shocked when he said he fell in love with a Singaporean woman and wanted to marry her.'
GREAT PLACE TO LIVE
Rachel intends to return to Australia after finalising her divorce early next year. She will leave with an unpleasant aftertaste of life in Singapore.
Yes, Singapore is a great place to live and work for expatriates.
Last year, in a survey of 215 cities by Mercer Human Resource Consulting, Singapore tied with Tokyo as the most attractive Asian city for expatriates.
But Rachel's experience, along with accounts from marriage counsellors, suggest that the downside is that many expat men are enticed by local women.
Lawyers, marriage counsellors and officials of expatriate associations who spoke to The New Paper say that they are seeing more expatriates with marital problems.
Divorce lawyer Ellen Lee, who has been practising for 24 years, says she sees an average of 12 expatriate couples every year, a big jump from the three or four couples she saw annually before 2000.
Expatriate couples can have their marriages dissolved in Singapore if they have lived here for at least three years.
The most common reason for marital break-ups among expatriates is infidelity by men.
Said Ms Karen Gosling, an Australian who has been practising family counselling for 20 years: 'I'm seeing many more cases here than I ever did in Australia.'
She has been trying to mend marriages here for the past eight years. Eighty per cent of her clientele are expatriates.
'Many expatriate men are in regional positions requiring frequent travel. In some parts of Asia, prostitutes are easily available, so there's a temptation to stray.'
The Pinkerton Syndrome - when Asian women think of Caucasian men as being superior - is partly to blame.
Ms Lee said: 'Asians, including women, tend to be more submissive and receptive towards Caucasians, whereas white women are seen as equal to their male counterparts.
'So here, the white men would welcome it when local women are more than willing to serve them.'
Miss Sue Lim, a marketing executive who is engaged to a divorced American, empathises with this.
Miss Lim, who is in her 20s, said: 'Caucasians are definitely more appealing than local men. They're more gentlemanly, and they're willing to share household chores too.
'Generally, local men are still chauvinistic and don't know how to treat women like ladies.'
Was she having an affair with him before his divorce?
No, said Miss Lim. She said they began dating after he separated from his wife, although they met before his separation.
'I don't think I'm a home-wrecker because I never forced my fiance to leave his wife and children. He was the one who fell in love with me.'
At the Singapore American Community Action Council (Sacac), more expatriates are also seeking marriage counselling at its office in the American Club.
Ms Margo Passarella, a counsellor at Sacac, sees eight to 10 couples a week, an increase from previous years. But she claims that it is not only because of male infidelity.
She said: 'Infidelity is not uncommon. Usually, though not exclusively, it's the men who had the indiscretion. But there are also many reasons for marital problems.'
LONELY WIVES
There are expatriate wives who cheat on their husbands too.
Ms Gosling said: 'While their expatriate husbands travel, the wives are left here alone, without anyone to see to their emotional needs.'
Two of her clients were a British couple. The wife had been having an affair with a friend of theirs for nearly two years.
A lack of communication was the root of the couple's problems, which were compounded by the husband's frequent travels and long working hours.
Despite more expatriate marriages getting into trouble, there is a silver lining - couples who seek counselling are keen on salvaging their relationships.
Besides seeking help, the wives, says Ms Gosling, have a lot to lose if they divorce their husbands.
It takes between six and 12 sessions for these couples to get their marriages back on track.
She said: 'A marriage involves money, extended family ties and children. It's very hard to walk away from all that.
'During counselling, I suggest strategies to help my clients rebuild the trust in the relationship, so that the marriage becomes better than before.'
When counselling and other avenues fail, some expatriate couples prefer to return to their home countries for divorce. This is because divorce laws here are different.
The women, especially, may want to have their divorce finalised in their homeland if they can get a better deal.
Lawyer Wong Kai Yun said: 'It's more practical for the couple to divorce in their own country, if most of their assets are there.
'Certain agreements may also be easier to enforce overseas. For example, pre-nuptial agreements are acceptable in the West, but they're outlawed here.' -
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Some expat wives left without money or support
WHEN an expatriate couple want to split up, they need to settle certain matters besides custody and maintenance.
In addition to having lived here for at least three years, expatriate couples, like locals, must go through a three-year separation before their divorce can be finalised.
Expatriate wives are more likely to be financially dependent on their husbands because they gave up their jobs back home to be with their spouses here.
LACK CONFIDENCE
They also lack confidence because they may have stopped working for a while, and thus find it difficult to re-enter the workforce.
Lawyer Wong Kai Yun said: 'When I act for the wives, I feel the constraints of what they are going through.
'Many of these women are unfamiliar with our laws, especially when they're not working. They also lack emotional support from their families.'
Lawyer Ellen Lee said that because of their financial dependence, many expatriate wives are worried about maintenance in the event of a divorce.
'Most of the time, the husbands are willing to pay their wives alimony because they accept that as their responsibility.
'The wives tend to seek custody of the children, while the men are only too happy to give the children up so they can start afresh easily.'
It is also not easy for these women to get jobs here because of employment pass issues and cultural differences.
If these women come here on dependents' passes, they could be revoked should they divorce.
She said: 'Many Caucasian women prefer to return to their homelands with their children as they're more accustomed to their own cultures.
'They could apply for employment passes to continue living here, but only if they possess the necessary skills and qualifications.'
CALL THEM FOR HELP
IF you're an expat and facing a marital crisis, here are some organisations and centres you can turn to:
Singapore American Community Action Council (Sacac): They offer counselling and community programmes, and can also provide a divorce/relationship support group.
Membership is open to all persons living here.
Tel: 6733 9249
The Association of Women for Action and Research (Aware): The organisation focuses on women's welfare and social issues, and offers helpline assistance, legal advice and professional counselling to women in need. It has a free legal clinic on the second Thursday of every month.
Membership is open to all Singaporeans and permanent residents, aged 21 and above.
Non-Singaporeans and non-permanent residents, aged 21 and above, may join as a Friend of Aware.
Tel: 1800-774 5935
Goslings International: Run by Australian couple Mike and Karen Gosling.
They provide counselling either face-to-face or through telephone or e-mail. Expats comprise more than half of their clientele.
Tel: 6256 7710
Family Life Centre: The centre provides professional counselling for couples.
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i wan to touch sexieststudinworld's white chick mom
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U-16 ones nicer leh.Originally posted by A dot dot B dot dot:i wan to touch sexieststudinworld's white chick mom -
Originally posted by A dot dot B dot dot:i wan to touch sexieststudinworld's white chick mom
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stick to your m0rongoloid mother, seduce her, Fuck her, s.uck her dry, tease her and please her you don't really deserve anybody other than her.Originally posted by A dot dot B dot dot:i wan to touch sexieststudinworld's white chick mom
ask your mom to stick with you oni. forbid her to drop her panties in front of me or lower her bra juz for me oni lah -
No, white chick the best!Originally posted by sexiest_studin_world:stick to your m0rongoloid mother, seduce her, Fuck her, s.uck her dry, tease her and please her you don't really deserve anybody other than her.
ask your mom to stick with you oni. forbid her to drop her panties in front of me or lower her bra juz for me oni lah
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You got old lady fetish or what?Originally posted by A dot dot B dot dot:No, white chick the best!
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The horse doesn't deserve to suffer!!!!Originally posted by ditzy:Ang Moh horse no 2
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Why upz this thread?...
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wah.. u good ah.. revive an old topic.Originally posted by thinkdifferent:The horse doesn't deserve to suffer!!!!
It's the American Quarterhorse breed. -
because thinkdifferent like horses?Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Why upz this thread?... -
hahaha, exactlyOriginally posted by R3SsH|n:because thinkdifferent like horses?
Actually it's not about reviving old topic, I am too busy to went thru all topic, so when I have some free time I went also thru topic which are 2 or 3 days old as I had no chance to see them before. -
td is an eager lover of horses marz...Originally posted by sinicker:wah.. u good ah.. revive an old topic.