A silly day...(ladies' advise sought)
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Today on my way to work, I met with a rather peculiar experience...so wish to find out how u gals would have reacted.
I'm hopeful for some enlightening responses!
I was in e MRT as usual, vying for standing room in an overcrowded cabin. I was a good 6 stops away from my stop when I felt someone running their fingers through my hair!
I can't tell if it was 1 of those "harassment-suite-waiting-to-happen" touches because I reacted immediately to it by letting out a “little” yelp (at least I believed it was a “little” yelp hehe…
) shifting away from e hand & turning around to look at e person it belonged to (knocking into some ppl crammed beside me in e process).
But I was pretty certain e touch was made deliberately.
I found where e hands led to….it belonged to this office-attired Caucasian man who was very apologetic. He kept explaining that he saw a bug in my hair in a fluster while seemingly searching around the cabin floor for e bug that “got away”.
I wasnÂ’t in a right frame of mind to judge (IÂ’m terrified of bugs
) so I just thanked him while nervously screening e floor (in case e “bug” decides to “come back home”), trying desperately to hide my embarrassment & containing my fear at e same time!
This small commotion turned everyone’s eyes on us. e cabin was cramped so there was no place for me to turn away from him. So we exchanged some casual and very subdued small-talk (I was still in a fluster because of e “bug”). When I finally got to alight (I heaved a huge sigh of relief here – u won’t know how fast I tried to get out of there
), he followed me & asked me to wait.
I turned to face him with a feeling of inner dread (I was hoping for e embarrassing to end A.S.A.P!) when he produced his name card & asked for mine in return! My mind drew a blank so we exchanged name cards (actuallyÂ…IÂ’m kinda regretting it now).
I got to office & started pondering. I shared e episode with my closer colleagues who asked & they feel strongly that this is a “ploy” by that guy save for 1 or 2 who thought otherwise (hmm…do guys really stoop that low to get numbers?)
So my morning drama ends hereÂ….any inputs ladies? What would u have done faced with e scenario? Or any advises for me now?
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not mi not mi
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Originally posted by sgboy2004:not mi not mi
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He probably thinks you're easy.
Sucker!
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congratulations, you just gave your personal infomation to a pervert.
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1111 more posts till you die die die die dieOriginally posted by sgboy2004:not mi not mi -
I mean, what the Fuck? touch a girl, and then get her name card? holy Shit.
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OMG....u gers really thinks so too?
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rofl n00b.Originally posted by Xiao Jun:OMG....u gers really thinks so too? -
First he'll be nice to you.
Buy you a candlelight dinner.
Buy you roses.
Then he'll send you home.
His home. -
the caucasian man can really think of an excuse so fast man haha. If I were you in the train I would be suspicious of him man. thinkin 'does he has hair fetish' haha! he could have told you that your hair has a bug before sweeping it off for you.
but actually it may be a really a bug you got it outside, he is trying to be helpful cause foreigner may not think touching a strange girl's hair is a big fuss. After that thinking you are friendly, he decide to exchange his namecard. wait for his call then if he calls to make friend then you ask whether is there really a bug? -
I thought the typical sg female reaction is scream molest? then that angmoh get caned, LOL>
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New place to pick up girls - in tight confines of a overcrowded MRT ... where the angmoh can check out the girl's assets first before going for the fake bug story and reel her in...
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Hello~ XiaoJun....long time no see...haha....Originally posted by Xiao Jun:Today on my way to work, I met with a rather peculiar experience...so wish to find out how u gals would have reacted.
I'm hopeful for some enlightening responses!
I was in e MRT as usual, vying for standing room in an overcrowded cabin. I was a good 6 stops away from my stop when I felt someone running their fingers through my hair!
I can't tell if it was 1 of those "harassment-suite-waiting-to-happen" touches because I reacted immediately to it by letting out a “little” yelp (at least I believed it was a “little” yelp hehe…) shifting away from e hand & turning around to look at e person it belonged to (knocking into some ppl crammed beside me in e process).
But I was pretty certain e touch was made deliberately.
I found where e hands led to….it belonged to this office-attired Caucasian man who was very apologetic. He kept explaining that he saw a bug in my hair in a fluster while seemingly searching around the cabin floor for e bug that “got away”.
I wasn’t in a right frame of mind to judge (I’m terrified of bugs ) so I just thanked him while nervously screening e floor (in case e “bug” decides to “come back home”), trying desperately to hide my embarrassment & containing my fear at e same time!
This small commotion turned everyone’s eyes on us. e cabin was cramped so there was no place for me to turn away from him. So we exchanged some casual and very subdued small-talk (I was still in a fluster because of e “bug”). When I finally got to alight (I heaved a huge sigh of relief here – u won’t know how fast I tried to get out of there), he followed me & asked me to wait.
I turned to face him with a feeling of inner dread (I was hoping for e embarrassing to end A.S.A.P!) when he produced his name card & asked for mine in return! My mind drew a blank so we exchanged name cards (actuallyÂ…IÂ’m kinda regretting it now).
I got to office & started pondering. I shared e episode with my closer colleagues who asked & they feel strongly that this is a “ploy” by that guy save for 1 or 2 who thought otherwise (hmm…do guys really stoop that low to get numbers?)
So my morning drama ends hereÂ….any inputs ladies? What would u have done faced with e scenario? Or any advises for me now?
What i feel is that that ang mor's speaking the truth bah...maybe there's really a small bug n your hair....and maybe becoz he finds u quite sociable bah...that's y he asked for your name card, n he'll call u one day to meet up for a chit chat n drink....think some ang mors are like that one de.... -
Bian ca will brave the bugs to be in Ur shoes...
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Imagine if a local did this.....piak!
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asian fetish perhaps.
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But nt all gals r like bian ca...Originally posted by Deportivo:asian fetish perhaps. -
y dun he say tats a rat on ur hairs
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Coz a rat too heavy...Originally posted by RaTtY81:y dun he say tats a rat on ur hairs -
Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Coz a rat too heavy...
oi implying im fat isit
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i bet bianca is secretly wishing she is u
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I didnt say U r fat...Originally posted by RaTtY81:
oi implying im fat isit
But if U r on Xiao Jun's hair...the whole MRT will be in chaos...lol... -
Stupid Xiao Jun! No need to give out ur namecard lor!
But since it'd been done, I hope u deserve a punishment for being so stupid! -
Reason for your definition of stupidity for her encounter???Originally posted by vindicated:Stupid Xiao Jun! No need to give out ur namecard lor!
But since it'd been done, I hope u deserve a punishment for being so stupid!
It was never in any ways that what she did shld be considered as stupid...