i am vex, someone help me
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what you mentioned above seems so familar.Originally posted by Ayukat:You think...
Everytime I see her, I will hide, run away... or avoid eye contact... she tok to mi, I also try to keep it short...
After she noes I like her worse, I avoid going to any gatherings or outings when she goes...even though I really really really really want to see her... All I do is SMS her like a scary cat...
Only way to return to b4... is for her to agree to come out with me 1 on 1... if not I...
will avoid eye contact, would came to my cubicle and look at what i am doing as if wanting to tell me certain things then walk away w/o words. when we talk, usually very short and sharp in public. in sms more relax can even teasing me.
He had never ask me out for private life, official yes. Usually he is my walking reminder for work or school work. Would always sms to remind me schedule or class. Or check to see if i am going to class.
Yesterday we were chatting during lunch, there are 3pax (me, him and another male fren of his) Let's call his friend 'Ke', and guy i am interested 'ren'
Ke asked me whether i am sure of starting my small business ?
Me Singapore quite difficult.
Ren start the business in JB loh (Ren is a msian)
Me crazy how to start business in JB ? I am not citizen
Ren Be our people lar !
Ke Oh ! 'Point at Ren' you marry her lor ! Everything settled.
Ren shy away, and smile silly 
Me Crazy !!
Then suddenly back in office, Ke came and ask me what type of man i like ?
Isn't Ren type ? And he mentioned to me Ren is good, why don't you consider ?
As guys what do you think ? I find that Ke is trying to tell me something.
By the way, Ren and I are taking some part time course, and we are having extra class in every Sunday. He wishper to my ears, saying he is on Overtime tomorrow so wouldn't be going for class.
At times, he do add in 'Dear' in his sms ??
Confuse 
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yea.. its quite obvious, Ren likes u.
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ya lor.. obvious..Originally posted by gmail:what you mentioned above seems so familar. will avoid eye contact, would came to my cubicle and look at what i am doing as if wanting to tell me certain things then walk away w/o words. when we talk, usually very short and sharp in public. in sms more relax can even teasing me.
He had never ask me out for private life, official yes. Usually he is my walking reminder for work or school work. Would always sms to remind me schedule or class. Or check to see if i am going to class.
Yesterday we were chatting during lunch, there are 3pax (me, him and another male fren of his) Let's call his friend 'Ke', and guy i am interested 'ren'
Ke asked me whether i am sure of starting my small business ?
Me Singapore quite difficult.
Ren start the business in JB loh (Ren is a msian)
Me crazy how to start business in JB ? I am not citizen
Ren Be our people lar !
Ke Oh ! 'Point at Ren' you marry her lor ! Everything settled.
Ren shy away, and smile silly
Me Crazy !!
Then suddenly back in office, Ke came and ask me what type of man i like ?
Isn't Ren type ? And he mentioned to me Ren is good, why don't you consider ?
As guys what do you think ? I find that Ke is trying to tell me something.
By the way, Ren and I are taking some part time course, and we are having extra class in every Sunday. He wishper to my ears, saying he is on Overtime tomorrow so wouldn't be going for class.
At times, he do add in 'Dear' in his sms ??
Confuse
As a msian and he had hinting on you becoming Msia Citizen speak so clear..
but maybe just comments only.. Best to observe further -
no offense to the singaporean guys... but i find the working malaysian guys in singapore very nice , and hardworking. got the potential to be a good hubby too... haha.. better snatch fast.
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Originally posted by elektra:no offense to the singaporean guys... but i find the working malaysian guys in singapore very nice , and hardworking. got the potential to be a good hubby too... haha.. better snatch fast. Why, that's extremely nice of you
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reno, u got chance liaoOriginally posted by renorenal: Why, that's extremely nice of you -
Hahahaha... I guess so.... I guess so....Originally posted by mystiv:reno, u got chance liao 
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agreeOriginally posted by elektra:no offense to the singaporean guys... but i find the working malaysian guys in singapore very nice , and hardworking. got the potential to be a good hubby too... haha.. better snatch fast.
when oversea with him and friends
Very caring towards me, carry bag for me
On few occasions, in transit train, he wake me up whenever we reach stations. Me doze off due to tireness, and he didn't sleep but rather taking care of me.
he disturb me when i woke up, telling me i snore
Search for me when i wander off from group taking picture.
I saw his face so worried when he found me.
When sitting in class the front row guy keep rocking chair, he told the guy nicely off. 2nd time again he want to do so, but i stopped him.
Hardworking yes, if Weekend has Overtime he will always be in it. -
Seriously i don't know.Originally posted by renorenal: Why, that's extremely nice of you
I am still observing to see if my feel is right ?
Doesn't want to jump in without being sure. -
you mean you are an Msian ?Originally posted by renorenal:Hahahaha... I guess so.... I guess so.... 
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Sounds like he is being overprotective...Originally posted by gmail:agree
when oversea with him and friends
Very caring towards me, carry bag for me
On few occasions, in transit train, he wake me up whenever we reach stations. Me doze off due to tireness, and he didn't sleep but rather taking care of me.
he disturb me when i woke up, telling me i snore
Search for me when i wander off from group taking picture.
I saw his face so worried when he found me.
When sitting in class the front row guy keep rocking chair, he told the guy nicely off. 2nd time again he want to do so, but i stopped him.
Hardworking yes, if Weekend has Overtime he will always be in it.
Not too good if it is so, coz he might develop the fear of losing you in future, and once he develop this fear, he will have it for the rest of his life and will definitely pour out his affection (sometimes can be over the limit) in front of the public, like holding hands, kissing, hugging, petting and stuffs in front of others...
I saw one couple came to that stage, and I thought at first they were so loving, somemore plan to get married, but towards the end had to break-up... think it shows as a sign of insecure... -
Without a doubtOriginally posted by gmail:you mean you are an Msian ? -
So what do you guys feel ?
Is that how you guys will normally react when interested in a gal ?
Will it be i am over sensitive maybe he is taking care of me as close friend and classmate.. maybe it gentleman of him ?
i am just painting lots of 'if' -
You try to give a week-off without him see what will happen to him... his reactions can tell a lot of things...Originally posted by gmail:So what do you guys feel ?
Is that how you guys will normally react when interested in a gal ?
Will it be i am over sensitive maybe he is taking care of me as close friend and classmate.. maybe it gentleman of him ?
i am just painting lots of 'if' -
RespectOriginally posted by renorenal:Without a doubt
Msian guys are hardworking no doubts
plus points are they are usually more homely. Which i like
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No possible. Because we work and study in the same place.Originally posted by renorenal:You try to give a week-off without him see what will happen to him... his reactions can tell a lot of things... -
Nothing is impossibleOriginally posted by gmail:No possible. Because we work and study in the same place.
You can take even a day off without him whenever you have a break from your work...
Try not to call him or reply to his messages or calls for one whole day
Somehow, if you see the pattern of his messages (the strings of messages I mean), you can very much tell how much he is concerned about you...
Each message following the previous ones tells a lot about his personality towards you... and how important you are to him... -
But if he decides to stop contacting you... then you should know what to do
A girl I knew once did this on her bf... the guy pitifully called her 30 times alone in the daytime, but she kept ignoring it... then the guy asked the brother to call, and the same thing happened... and then what happened next was that the guy contacted the girl's parents to call her... not bad huh? For a guy that concerned over a girl... but the relationship turned out sour, coz the guy is overly concerned about her until she don't have her own freedom... this is another couple... unlike the one I told you about earlier... -
humh.. that's sound bad enough.Originally posted by renorenal:Sounds like he is being overprotective...
Not too good if it is so, coz he might develop the fear of losing you in future, and once he develop this fear, he will have it for the rest of his life and will definitely pour out his affection (sometimes can be over the limit) in front of the public, like holding hands, kissing, hugging, petting and stuffs in front of others...
I saw one couple came to that stage, and I thought at first they were so loving, somemore plan to get married, but towards the end had to break-up... think it shows as a sign of insecure...
Overprotective is ok.. just dnt be insecure, once a person feel inseure the whole self plus relationship go hay wire..
wooo... but as an selfish lady it would be in bless to have an hubby who really fear for losing and pour out his affection to her. For me i am able to take public affection display to the limitation to hug / kiss -
but i do receive comments that
Msian guys are very MCP
Confess quick.. -
Reminds me of a statement one girl told me a long while ago...Originally posted by subarugal:humh.. that's sound bad enough.
Overprotective is ok.. just dnt be insecure, once a person feel inseure the whole self plus relationship go hay wire..
wooo... but as an selfish lady it would be in bless to have an hubby who really fear for losing and pour out his affection to her. For me i am able to take public affection display to the limitation to hug / kiss
I asked her whether will her husband in future trust her to go outstation alone, and she replied, then he will love and treasure me more lor!
I then asked her whether she will trust her husband in future if he were to go outstation alone, and what if he messes around?
She replied, he won't!! If he does, then I will threaten to leave him and make him feel that I am important...
Anyhow also, the girl wins... walau!! -
What's MCP?Originally posted by subarugal:but i do receive comments that
Msian guys are very MCP
Confess quick.. -
haa...Originally posted by renorenal:Reminds me of a statement one girl told me a long while ago...
I asked her whether will her husband in future trust her to go outstation alone, and she replied, then he will love and treasure me more lor!
I then asked her whether she will trust her husband in future if he were to go outstation alone, and what if he messes around?
She replied, he won't!! If he does, then I will threaten to leave him and make him feel that I am important...
Anyhow also, the girl wins... walau!!
Ladies are unreasonable mah.. but dnt u think ya, unreasonable till at times very cute ? haa...
But of coz if such things happen to oneself it's not cute ..
Anyway if a man or lady wanna cheat no matter what they would.
MCP means... Man chauvinistic Pig -
Hmmm..... I don't have that problem... but I can't speak on behalf of the other Malaysians in this forum though... I shall let them answer themselvesOriginally posted by subarugal:haa...
Ladies are unreasonable mah.. but dnt u think ya, unreasonable till at times very cute ? haa...
But of coz if such things happen to oneself it's not cute ..
Anyway if a man or lady wanna cheat no matter what they would.
MCP means... Man chauvinistic Pig
But I believe it is more of a personality problem... it's a disorder that can't be cured with medications... so too bad -
Btw, I have to agree on the cute part