~*FRIENDSHIP*~
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Friendship...something that's hard to earn but even harder to keep
Just wondering...how much will it take before u decide to end a friendship?
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When I was younger, I was stubbon and rash, and lost a very good friend.
What would it take? Probably if I felt betrayed. I wouldn't say it in his face that the friendship is over, I'd take the subtle way out. -
I never ends friendship. I treasure them everyday. And as each day passes by, I treasure it even more.Originally posted by Xiao Jun:Friendship...something that's hard to earn but even harder to keep
Just wondering...how much will it take before u decide to end a friendship?
Reasons? Well, friendship is something hard to come by or find. You never knows when u'll need a help from your friends. And if u do, u'll find it precious like a gem.
Juz like this evening. A good friend of mine calls up asking for help. I try my best but last mintues very difficult to get help too. And I know tat this friend is kinda bad mood now............
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Decisions to end friendship were rash for me during the teenage life...
Nowadays, I try to save it or rescue it as much as possible... sometimes it depends much on the other side, though you may have done your part to the extreme... -
Somehow I think friendship and relationship do not go hand in hand. One cannot exist with the other, however there may be a few exceptions... but those are very few...Originally posted by Xiao Jun:Friendship...something that's hard to earn but even harder to keep
Just wondering...how much will it take before u decide to end a friendship?
For example, ppl who are new in their relationship often forgets about their friendship with their buddies...
Or the typical phrase used by girls, let's just be friends... just goes to show that both cannot go hand in hand...
Sometimes I kept thinking, why can't best friends be in a relationship? A deeper one... -
Yes...sometimes circumstances do restrict & limit e things we can do for friends...Originally posted by Manager433:I never ends friendship. I treasure them everyday. And as each day passes by, I treasure it even more.
Reasons? Well, friendship is something hard to come by or find. You never knows when u'll need a help from your friends. And if u do, u'll find it precious like a gem.
Juz like this evening. A good friend of mine calls up asking for help. I try my best but last mintues very difficult to get help too. And I know tat this friend is kinda bad mood now............
But as friends we should understand one another's predicaments...its just so much harder when its clouded by emotions...just like your friend now -
A deeper one?Originally posted by renorenal:Somehow I think friendship and relationship do not go hand in hand. One cannot exist with the other, however there may be a few exceptions... but those are very few...
For example, ppl who are new in their relationship often forgets about their friendship with their buddies...
Or the typical phrase used by girls, let's just be friends... just goes to show that both cannot go hand in hand...
Sometimes I kept thinking, why can't best friends be in a relationship? A deeper one...
Meaning BGR ya? Platonic relationships between different genders seem harder to be mangaed properly though..
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So betrayal do make e friendships (no matter how long u guys took to build up) unredeemable...Originally posted by ^spidee^:When I was younger, I was stubbon and rash, and lost a very good friend.
What would it take? Probably if I felt betrayed. I wouldn't say it in his face that the friendship is over, I'd take the subtle way out. -
Erm...I tink it all depends on the individuals...its hard but still managable...Originally posted by Xiao Jun:A deeper one?
Meaning BGR ya? Platonic relationships between different genders seem harder to be mangaed properly though.. 
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Friendship to me is fickle.
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Haha! Such insight from e SIMPLE-bear!Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Erm...I tink it all depends on the individuals...its hard but still managable... 
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If e "friendship" is fickle...I term them simply as aquaintancesOriginally posted by Depressed...*sigh*:Friendship to me is fickle.
I choose my friends~ -
i don't end friendships...but sometimes it dies down naturally. very sad. but what to do.
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There's a very thin line between platonic relationship between genders and BGR, once that line is crossed by either party and the feelings aren't mutual, it might spell the end of the platonic relationship between the genders, or even worse the friendship.Originally posted by Simple_Bear:Erm...I tink it all depends on the individuals...its hard but still managable...
As what you said, it does depends on individuals, especially how comfortable the genders will be when facing each other when the feelings aren't mutual, even if they chatted, they might be careful with what to say to each other cos the platonic relationship is stained. -
it takes a lifetime to keep a true friendship
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I may not understand some of e reasons we choose to end friendships but then...Originally posted by applesweetgirl:i don't end friendships...but sometimes it dies down naturally. very sad. but what to do.
"Dying down naturally"....we can choose something to do about it...right? -
And it may take a lifetime to find one too~Originally posted by WiNtEr'SkiLL:it takes a lifetime to keep a true friendship -
Have you ended a friendship recently?Originally posted by Xiao Jun:Friendship...something that's hard to earn but even harder to keep
Just wondering...how much will it take before u decide to end a friendship? -
Actually....I think I got "terminated" instead of being e one "terminating" e friendship...Originally posted by ^spidee^:Have you ended a friendship recently?
How it has come to this is beyond me -
Any attempts to salvage it?Originally posted by Xiao Jun:Actually....I think I got "terminated" instead of being e one "terminating" e friendship...
How it has come to this is beyond me -
Haiz..pride is in e wayOriginally posted by ^spidee^:Any attempts to salvage it?
Tried to talk it out but... -
Maybe there's a misunderstanding.. he/she must have a reason. Pride killed my friendship too and I'm regretting now.Originally posted by Xiao Jun:Haiz..pride is in e way
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I muz say until nw I still can manage most of them quite well...Originally posted by Xiao Jun:Haha! Such insight from e SIMPLE-bear! 
Halo Xiao Jun... -
Of coz...it all depends on the individuals...if U cant handle Ur emotions...then be prepared to lose a frenz...or if U r lucky...gain a lover...Originally posted by starExcaliblur:There's a very thin line between platonic relationship between genders and BGR, once that line is crossed by either party and the feelings aren't mutual, it might spell the end of the platonic relationship between the genders, or even worse the friendship.
As what you said, it does depends on individuals, especially how comfortable the genders will be when facing each other when the feelings aren't mutual, even if they chatted, they might be careful with what to say to each other cos the platonic relationship is stained. -
Dun be sad...Originally posted by Xiao Jun:Actually....I think I got "terminated" instead of being e one "terminating" e friendship...
How it has come to this is beyond me
As U said its beyond U...so why tink of tins tt U cant control...juz be happy...