Views on Gays???
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Well, dont trouble trouble unless trouble troubles you.
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as long as they don't harm or disturb anyone, it's perfectly fine with me...Originally posted by hoolala:What is your view on Gays???
I felt disgusted just with the thought of it
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gays are harmless....
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so...tell me, where exacly is it scientifically proven that a higher amount of female hormones may cause a person to end up transvestite?Originally posted by NuLife:well. that is just ur view.
hormone effects are wat u see in those transvistate...
and it had been scientifically proven or rather common sense to know
tat it does affect the mind. male and female minds are different
due to hormones and genes differences.
betw...u guy or gal (or.....ok jus kidding..)
cos men n women wil look at this diffly...
well...
if they dun disturb me i dun mind and keep out off my sight
those disgusting things they do.
but when if u see a big guy dancing n walking lik a gal in the gym,
u wil really puke. i had seen b4...
i cant help it.. i really wanna puke...
its jus lik when u see a fat lady dancing...
i wil let them live the way the are...
but im allowed to hav my own views too...
besides...i cant help feeling disgusted...
such feelings are in born in me too...
ok seriously, i know im abit too much...
but i really cant help it too...
"common sense to know that it does affect the mind"? i guess it does. as you know, the brain has the left and right side...one is for maths or whatever....the other is for creativity...? and the way the brain distributes stuff is different in males and females, and therefore males are better in subjects like maths and physics? well...something like that anyway...
anyway, hormones cause the brain to either distribute stuff in the male or female pattern, so in a way, your right.
however, hormones DO NOT change your thoughts. i should know...i had an extremly high amount of testerone, which is the male sex hormone in case your didn't know, in me. much, much higher than your average male. you'd think with so much male hormones i'd end up extremly masculine? wrong. i was a sissy. i absolutly hated everything about being a guy, and i so desired to be a girl. the changes in my body during puberty only made me want to puke.
gays are perfectly normal males, except they are attracted to the same sex instead. i dont see why you should be disgusted by them because they should, in almost every way be similar to the average way, except for, like i said, that they are attracted to the same sex.Originally posted by NuLife:have to make it clear else misunderstood.
transverstite = ok
gays = disgusting
sissies = could be gay or transverstite in the making. also disgusting.
so unless they're the kind that would kiss their lover right in front of everyone to see, i dont think there should be much to get disgusted about. i doubt many would actually do that though....like how many straight guys actually go around making out with their lover in front of their friends?
transvestites....are you sure your not just saying that? cause i really dont think you mean it. transvestites are perfectly normal males who find it sexually exciting to crossdress.
vito, i don't see why i don't deserve to be called a female.but when if u see a big guy dancing n walking lik a gal in the gym,
u wil really puke. i had seen b4...
i cant help it.. i really wanna puke...
its jus lik when u see a fat lady dancing... [/quote]
i mean, this really big guy could be a transvestite too, you'd never know. so if just walking around like a gal in the gym would disgust you, i think if you saw him in a dress you'd faint.
sissys...i guess you could say they're just men who are more effeminate, due to a higher amount of female hormones. however, no reason why you should be disgusted by them either, since they're perferctly normal males too. they're not gay, they dont crossdress, whats there to be disgusted with? they're just born physically a little more feminine. no reason for them to turn out gay or transvestite.
curious though...this is about views on gays. why the hell are transvestites being discussed about here? let me make this clear...a 'normal' transvestite IS NOT GAY, and DOES NOT WISH TO BECOME FEMALE. they just find it sexually exciting to crossdress.
[quote]Originally posted by vito_corleone:sorry hor...HE is not female.
i'll only go so far to admit that i was born physically male. but that was due to some cruel joke by nature. psycologically, i've always have been a female. maybe im physically male, but i certainly do not feel like one, nor could i ever be one.
anyway, this is the cyber world. whether your physically deaf, mute or whatever other physically problems you may have, it is not important since it should not affect you in the cyber world (unless your blind or paralyzed). i think its more of your mind that matters here, and since im psycologically a female, i should deserve to be called a female here. -
some r quite handsome...but then wasted.
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If it harm no one, do what you will.Originally posted by hoolala:But if it is legalised,dun you tink that it ill be very disgusting to c 2 guys holding hands n kissing each other in public???How are you going to explain it to your children???Are you gonna say it is right or it is wrong???If right , aren't you scared that ur son will become gay 1 day since u told him it was right.If wrong , then y the government is allowing it to happen??
If the actions of others aren't gonna affect you directly, just STFU. -
If it harm no one, do what you will.
Let's say 1 day your son told you that he is a gay as he sees nothing wrong being a gay becos he say alot of gays holding hands and kissing in the street.
If the actions of others aren't gonna affect you directly, just STFU.
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If he has found true love, I am happy for him.Originally posted by hoolala:Let's say 1 day your son told you that he is a gay as he sees nothing wrong being a gay becos he say alot of gays holding hands and kissing in the street.
How will you feel???Happy for him???Won't you feel sad???
But if he's merely sowing his wild oats, that is another story.
Really, after reading all your posts, I think you need the Sedition Act to straighten you out. Same applies to NuLife, PRP and many others.
Always remember: homophobia is an even worse form of discrimination than racism or religious vilification. -
straight people could never turn gay.Originally posted by hoolala:Let's say 1 day your son told you that he is a gay as he sees nothing wrong being a gay becos he say alot of gays holding hands and kissing in the street.
How will you feel???Happy for him???Won't you feel sad??? -
A homophobe is a gay in denial
Welcome to the community hoolala -
homophobia is an even worse form of discrimination than racism or religious vilification.
Y is that so??? -
homophobia is an even worse form of discrimination than racism or religious vilification.
Y is that so??? -
Because you can hide behind the Bible and diss gays.Originally posted by hoolala:Y is that so??? -
if hes gay, then let him be. not point trying to stop him anyway. if he really is gay, he'd probably either move overseas where gay marriages are allowed, or either that just remain roomates with another gay guy.Originally posted by hoolala:Let's say 1 day your son told you that he is a gay as he sees nothing wrong being a gay becos he say alot of gays holding hands and kissing in the street.
How will you feel???Happy for him???Won't you feel sad???
whatever it is, you cant stop it. -
Really, after reading all your posts, I think you need the Sedition Act to straighten you out. Same applies to NuLife, PRP and many others
Sedition act ???The government is also not suppotive for gay marriages. If i am not wrong, Last month PM LEE was asked a question about having a gay in the Cabinet. PM said that our society will not accept that. -
may i say, thats the problem with our society? that we're not open enough?Originally posted by hoolala:Sedition act ???The government is also not suppotive for gay marriages. If i am not wrong, Last month PM LEE was asked a question about having a gay in the Cabinet. PM said that our society will not accept that. -
It is no better than the Third Reich, to be honest.Originally posted by JennTS:may i say, thats the problem with our society? that we're not open enough?
Anyway, for a staunchly Catholic country to allow gay marriage and parenthood, it shows the level of maturity and enlightenment Spain has attained. Kudos to Zapatero and may the Socialists reign forever. -
shao jian duo guai~!!Originally posted by JennTS:may i say, thats the problem with our society? that we're not open enough? -
btw my chinese sucks. =\Originally posted by Mr Fugue:shao jian duo guai~!! -
rarity makes one thing weird.Originally posted by JennTS:btw my chinese sucks. =\ -
i tot transvestites are those initially borned with moreOriginally posted by JennTS:transvestites....are you sure your not just saying that? cause i really dont think you mean it. transvestites are perfectly normal males who find it sexually exciting to crossdress.
female hormone and finally for for op???
those who crossdress are drags not transvestites rite? -
Perhaps i should say..
first, i din expect theres so many gays/bi on the forum
second, i can accept their existence, and i can accept that
some are really talented and also nice people.
however, 'some', really make me puke.
the way fat lady dancing make me puke.
cant help it. (take it as a bad joke then)
and 'some' are real sicko, who go around
disturbing men and young boys, and flirting around.
(perhaps like how there are sluts and dirty old men in this world)
also, my view is that gays (not those born with higher female hormone)
are the result of upbringing/envrionment/character,
not so much as 'born with it'.
unless some1 can show me scientific proof.
even without, i can understand, they have their own personal struggles,
and finally 'accepting'.
in that sense, they have my empathy.
as long as the belong to the more normal type.
the way some of us talk on the forums,
are meant to be mens' talk. not for gay people to read.
just lik how gay will start a thread like "views on heterosexual"
cheers -
thats just your view, because you simply refuse to accept it. so far, there isn't any scientific proof, and only those which it happens to can really say for sure.Originally posted by NuLife:Perhaps i should say..
first, i din expect theres so many gays/bi on the forum
second, i can accept their existence, and i can accept that
some are really talented and also nice people.
however, 'some', really make me puke.
the way fat lady dancing make me puke.
cant help it. (take it as a bad joke then)
and 'some' are real sicko, who go around
disturbing men and young boys, and flirting around.
(perhaps like how there are sluts and dirty old men in this world)
also, my view is that gays (not those born with higher female hormone)
are the result of upbringing/envrionment/character,
not so much as 'born with it'.
unless some1 can show me scientific proof.
even without, i can understand, they have their own personal struggles,
and finally 'accepting'.
in that sense, they have my empathy.
as long as the belong to the more normal type.
the way some of us talk on the forums,
are meant to be mens' talk. not for gay people to read.
just lik how gay will start a thread like "views on heterosexual"
cheers
however i still stand by in saying that a hetero person cannot become gay. it is possible that some men become gay, because intitally they were born bi, and perhaps those feelings were not that strong before, but due to influences these same-sex feelings increased.
but anyhow, just because theres no scientific proof, your not going to believe it? i'll take it you have no religion then.
anyway, the topic title was "Views on Gays???". it never said "hetero men only". anyway, i believe that if your going to have a discussion on gays, you should hear both side's of the story.
"i tot transvestites are those initally borned with more female hormone and finally for for op?"Originally posted by NuLife:i tot transvestites are those initially borned with more
female hormone and finally for for op???
those who crossdress are drags not transvestites rite?
"finally for for op"? makes no sense. please clarify.
and what are you talking abuot? normal men who crossdress ARE called transvestites. if you mean men who wish to become women, those are called transsexuals.
for drags, im not too sure. it all depends on how they feel.
transvestite:
a transvestite is an individual, who is almost always a heterosexual male, who develops a sexual fetish usually during, or after puberty, with the act of dressing up and appearing as the opposite sex. this is done mainly for sexual pleasure, and the transvestite has no interest in changing sex.
transsexual:
a transsexual is a person who is born with a rare birth defect, in which the sex of the brain is in opposition to the sex of the body. it usually causes severe suffering to the poor individual, as the brain is one sex, and the body is another. transsexuality can be cured by altering the body to fit the brain that owns it.
transgendered:
a transgendered person is almost similar to a transsexual person, except that he or she does not wish to have his or her genitals removed, unlike the transsexual who feels extreme discomfort and disgust for it.
intersexed:
an intersexual is a person who may have malformed genitals, of which that may be indeterminate or mixed, or may be clearly hermaphroditic. because the physical sex appears mixed or interminate, its often impossible to tell the sex of the infant. until recently, doctors used to decide the sex of such infants, and use surgery to enforce their judgement, as it was believed that human beings are blank states at birth. this however, has shown to be false, and often leads to transsexuality. many such individuals often come foward to complain that doctors guessed wrongly, and demand to have their sex corrected. -
Only a stupid, ignorant closet gay in denial will believe that thread is meant for gays or started by a gay.Originally posted by NuLife:just lik how gay will start a thread like "views on heterosexual"
cheers -
ok. so the thread was started by a closet gay in denial.Originally posted by shade343:Only a stupid, ignorant closet gay in denial will believe that thread is meant for gays or started by a gay.