a friend...anot?
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this guy, we have been friends since p3. that is like 10 years liao. before we went to sec schools we were very close friends. even our parents know each other because we also go each other to play.
right, at sec school, we kept lesser contact, but i would still go to his house to play ps2 and pc.
after O levels we even went to work together.
i thought we were old friends, like xiong di like that.
then some time ago , he blocked me in msn. for a very long time.months maybe even a year. his hp change number, but he also no inform me. however i had his house number in my head so i called him out for a primary school gathering on wed.
we went there together. talking like old friends.
there we met old friends and new faces. there is a girl that i am attracted to.
me and the girl wanted to watch kingkong so we thought of asking a few other friends out. then she mentioned about this guy. so i thought how come she remember him? so she said he added her in msn.
then my blood boiled. a friend for 10 years, and he block me in msn, even after the gathering. a girl who he knew for less than 5 days, and he added her even though they did not talk much on the gathering.
then i was on the phone with the girl, and from her, while she talk to him, she managed to find out that he had blocked me on purpose. then when she asked why? he said it is a long story. he admited to blocking me on purpose.
to me, he was a friend, like a xiong di.
to him, i dont know. he blocked me purposely, didnt contact me, change hp no inform me, and he somemore told me that he lost my hp number.
is this kind of friend, worthy of giving him a chance to explain?
you might say i am very sensitive or very petty. but i am sorry. i am very spriteful. i msn him just now. saying since he dont treat me as a friend, lets end this 10year friendship. from now on, we are no longer friends.
i dont like it when i treat someone good, take him as a brother, and he doesnt give 2 hoots about me.
if someone who knows you for 10years, is willing to block you, delete your number, not contact you, and not inform you of the change in hp number, i dont see how much i would mean to him as a friend.
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Bloody pissed lah.
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Confront him.ASk him why he block u.What did u do to make him block u on msn?
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King Kong movie, not too bad lah.
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not talking about KK movie la. faint
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call him and ask lor,
"HELLO!"
"hello?"
"AR!"
"ar?"
"AR Lan pa,why u block me?"
no la,call him as if u wanna ask him other stuff
"u know the game cheat is wat?U got watch the movie king kong?"
then u ask
"why u block me?so xiao qi?" -
hes not a friend
hes a pussy hunter
too bad u aint one. -
he's not a gd friend
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Yea... after reading the post, i tink many people will feel as if the 'friend' is entirely at wrong. Well to a certain extend, it may be.. But have you ever thought of the reason why he block u and not informed u about any changes of hp no. and stuffs, there must be a reason. A friend is always better than a enemy, everyone does someting for a reason. Try to think abt when he block u and think about wat caused him to block u..
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haiz...a friend for 10years. lost just because of this. i not going to call him. why should i call him? shouldnt he be the one calling me to explain? since i already told him clearly in msn.
if he cant even be bothered to call me, goes to show how much of a friend i am to him, so if that is the case, why should i treat him as a friend and call him?
but very sad indeed. a friend... xiong di like that. i treasure old friends the most. much more than girl.
like those wu xia shows, what is a girl as compared to a xiong di or zi yin/ zi ji?
furthermore we also no fall for same girl before. and like i said, he just suddenly block me from msn. and destroyed all contacts with me.
is just like i am guo jing, he is yang kang. i treat him as a brother, only to let him stab me in the back like this...haiz... -
understand how u feel..
was in this kind of situation once.. -
forget about that yang kang haha..
a dime a dozen these days. they interested in p_ussies only.
why bother.
go get a bunch of pussies and let him see, then dig him when he tries to go near you. hahaha -
no lor. there is no possible reasons why i could offend him.
like xiong di, is a give and take friendship. and we no fight nor quarrel before lor. maybe in primary school yes. but after O levels we did not quarrel at all lor.
thats why i still treat him as a xiong di until last night. when the girl told me, he knew he blocked me. then i blow liao.
i at first thought, he might have accidentally block the wrong person. then since we dont talk much on msn, so forget about it.
then he hp changed, he said he forget to sms me , i said nevermind.
then i realised he lost my number, so i thought maybe he lost his previous hp.
up till last night, i was still finding reasons to protect him.
zi qi qi ren. i was lying to myself all the time.
after realising he purposely blocked me, everything came into a piece.
he blocked me on purpose. he changed his number and didnt want to tell me. he even deleted my number.
had i not memorized his house number, i would have lost total contact with him.
so now i woke up, and i decided since he doesnt want to do anything about it. i shall not do anything also.
up till now, he still no sms a apology nor call me. you see how much he treasures me as a friend... -
is not girl problem. the thing is we have different taste in girls.Originally posted by Angelo09:forget about that yang kang haha..
a dime a dozen these days. they interested in p_ussies only.
why bother.
go get a bunch of pussies and let him see, then dig him when he tries to go near you. hahaha
and from what i know him, he is also not those zhong se qing you type.
but damn pissed he no treat me as a friend... -
Just move on.
Who needs friends anyway? -
you are wrong.Originally posted by RETARDED_MORON:Just move on.
Who needs friends anyway?
Everyone needs friends to survive in this world.
Yes, friends may not be the most important things in this world, i know family is, but when times you are left alone outside such as working or studying in a school, friends play an important partner to you. -
not bad..using classic example of yang kang and guo jing..but rmb that baddies alwaes lose in the end..such is the fate that awaited yang kang.he's now dead,isn't he?
since ur using that instance,i suggest u continue to behave like guo jing..honest and willing to accept others' faults..forgive for whom he is and forget his hurtful deeds against u..be magnanimous abt it..apologise to him and sms him to regain a fren.
he could have done it in a fit of foolishness or anger,for which u might have to confront him and inquire abt it,in an amiable manner.after all,if there's nth wrong wif u,why be afraid of the confrontation,my fren?
be mature abt it.better to do it now than to see him later in ur life and not knowing wad to do. -
then what you want him to do? ask for ur permission to add ppl ah...Originally posted by bladez87:then my blood boiled. a friend for 10 years, and he block me in msn, even after the gathering. a girl who he knew for less than 5 days, and he added her even though they did not talk much on the gathering. -
yar hate those..just 'leave' like that without any explaination..bloody piss..
somemore is 10 years
i will.just.leave him alone..why should i waste more time on such pple..
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i wonder wad happen is its 2 yang kang(s)..
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i not that magnanimous like guo jing. especially since i msn him 11 or 12 this morning. i saidOriginally posted by yuko-ogura:not bad..using classic example of yang kang and guo jing..but rmb that baddies alwaes lose in the end..such is the fate that awaited yang kang.he's now dead,isn't he?
since ur using that instance,i suggest u continue to behave like guo jing..honest and willing to accept others' faults..forgive for whom he is and forget his hurtful deeds against u..be magnanimous abt it..apologise to him and sms him to regain a fren.
he could have done it in a fit of foolishness or anger,for which u might have to confront him and inquire abt it,in an amiable manner.after all,if there's nth wrong wif u,why be afraid of the confrontation,my fren?
be mature abt it.better to do it now than to see him later in ur life and not knowing wad to do.
as a friend for 10years
i think i should give you a chance to explain yourself why you block me and stuff
*waited like 10-20 min*
then no reply
so i said,
so a friend for 10 years , bu ru a girl who you know for 5 days?
since you want to block and delete , change hp also dont want tell me.
if this is how you treat a 10year friend, then i think forget it ba.
from now on, we are no longer friends.
i can forgive and forget easily, but what hurts you most are those you hold dear.i not afraid of confrontation. i did ask him. he didnt want to say. if so why should i go and beg him for an explanation? he is the one who let me down, i asked once, if he dont want to say, i will not go begging him.
why should i beg when he does not bother?i gave him a chance to explain. he didnt want to treasure it, he just ignored me. so if that is the case, why should i ask him again? if he treasures the friendship, i would not even need to ask him. he would automatically explain to me. but since he doesnt, then he dont treasure. so why should i treasure? from now on we are no longer friends. i know he comes to this forum too. if you read this. let me tell you.
10years of friendship.you chose to end it by blocking me, not bothering to explain to me. those 2 are alright. but the most important is, you never treat me as a friend. so lets end our friendship here ba. take care ba... -
no. but if he is willing to add a new friend, but yet block me. shows how much he thinks of me as a friend.Originally posted by ^tamago^:then what you want him to do? ask for ur permission to add ppl ah... -
what 2 yang kang? ...Originally posted by Ito_^:i wonder wad happen is its 2 yang kang(s)..
i rather he fu me, then i fu him. so well, now he fu me liao. so forget it ba.
i just want to know if i am doing the right thing.
how can there be 2 yang kang when i still treated him as a friend? -
ok..u can't possibly expect him to reply immediately after 20min..he could be busy..m i not right?Originally posted by bladez87:i not that magnanimous like guo jing. especially since i msn him 11 or 12 this morning. i said
as a friend for 10years
i think i should give you a chance to explain yourself why you block me and stuff
*waited like 10-20 min*
then no reply
so i said,
so a friend for 10 years , bu ru a girl who you know for 5 days?
since you want to block and delete , change hp also dont want tell me.
if this is how you treat a 10year friend, then i think forget it ba.
from now on, we are no longer friends.
i can forgive and forget easily, but what hurts you most are those you hold dear.i not afraid of confrontation. i did ask him. he didnt want to say. if so why should i go and beg him for an explanation? he is the one who let me down, i asked once, if he dont want to say, i will not go begging him.
why should i beg when he does not bother?i gave him a chance to explain. he didnt want to treasure it, he just ignored me. so if that is the case, why should i ask him again? if he treasures the friendship, i would not even need to ask him. he would automatically explain to me. but since he doesnt, then he dont treasure. so why should i treasure? from now on we are no longer friends. i know he comes to this forum too. if you read this. let me tell you.
10years of friendship.you chose to end it by blocking me, not bothering to explain to me. those 2 are alright. but the most important is, you never treat me as a friend. so lets end our friendship here ba. take care ba...
also..by sms-ing the second msg,u have directly placed a barrier right in between u and him..i understand ur agitated by his deed..why be prejudiced and do that?
i do not rule out the possibility that he's pissed off wif wad u had said or that he might not even want to be ur fren anymore...but wadever the case..why not give each other some time to cool down?
rmb..it's alwaes better to end any enmity and feuds..it may seem ur on the righteous side..but to me..u haven't appeared to have given him an opportunity to explain..especially when u have dealt him a severe blow by sms-ing him the second msg.
the best wae would be to meet each other face-to-face and have a heart-to-heart conversation wif him..i dun think sms-ing is a good wae to communicate.
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*waited like 10-20 min*
then no reply
so i said,
so a friend for 10 years , bu ru a girl who you know for 5 days?
since you want to block and delete , change hp also dont want tell me.
if this is how you treat a 10year friend, then i think forget it ba.
from now on, we are no longer friends.
u still can say so much to him...like that machiam make urself lower nia
just move on. its ok.really