a friend...anot?
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lol..
By looking at the replies, i can assume tt sgpork and yuko can never be good friends..
One is go find out more, the other is heck care the friend..
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if he is the 1..that first make the decision to delete u off without ur knowing..Originally posted by EggBreak:lol..
By looking at the replies, i can assume tt sgpork and yuko can never be good friends..
One is go find out more, the other is heck care the friend..
n change number nv tell u...u ask..still keep quiet..
what n who are u to him..u think?
so..since hes already like that ..treat u like a nobody..
why should i even care..
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if someone tell you , lets not talk anymore. break friendship with you. you will no matter what he or she say, still try and find out why right?Originally posted by yuko-ogura:ok..u can't possibly expect him to reply immediately after 20min..he could be busy..m i not right?
also..by sms-ing the second msg,u have directly placed a barrier right in between u and him..i understand ur agitated by his deed..why be prejudiced and do that?
i do not rule out the possibility that he's pissed off wif wad u had said or that he might not even want to be ur fren anymore...but wadever the case..why not give each other some time to cool down?
rmb..it's alwaes better to end any enmity and feuds..it may seem ur on the righteous side..but to me..u haven't appeared to have given him an opportunity to explain..especially when u have dealt him a severe blow by sms-ing him the second msg.
the best wae would be to meet each other face-to-face and have a heart-to-heart conversation wif him..i dun think sms-ing is a good wae to communicate.
good luck.
why is it that i should go and get him to explain. and not he get me to explain?
like your gf. if she break off with you. dont contact her again.
you readily accept what she say and dont contact meh? will it become a barrier for you to contact meh? you still will call or sms or whatever de right? -
well.. You got a point there, but yuko got a point too. Right now we are reading a one sided story if u do realise. I do tink tt to find out more will be a better way though since its easy to sae the word don care, but sometimes its hard to actually don care inside. Thus, end up suffering even more.Originally posted by SGpork:if he is the 1..that first make the decision to delete u off without ur knowing..
n change number nv tell u...u ask..still keep quiet..
what n who are u to him..u think?
so..since hes already like that ..treat u like a nobody..
why should i even care..
Whatever the case, Take care dude..
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people will change...
the only thing that does not change, is people changing.
but, i must admit, old friends are the best..
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ask him what you do to piss him off that he want to block you lor...if he really don't want say then bo bian forget about it.
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Call him or go talk to him face to face..sms is not really very effective..don't come here and ask people what they think dood, go and confront him, do something about it ! 10 years as a friend no joke man.
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what's the point of being frens when he alrd given u up long ago?
i juz take it easy. Ple who dun cherish me, i wun waste my time on them. Coz they are not worth it. -
wow it's ten years man! I really dunt tink u should just forsake this friendship lo, the longest i have is only from pri5, and now i heard he's gt into an accident. Maybe u should ask him why he wants to keep out of you fer no reason lo, n i dunt tink its a deception plot set up ten years ago bah, maybe he's just being muddle-headed that time. Haha true friends are really hard to come by, if u two are gonna revive this relationship den u two are really gonna be nan xiong nan di le. All de best buddy!!!
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Maybe she is busy blocking a chunk of people from her msn?Originally posted by akister_tinkerbell:wow it's ten years man! I really dunt tink u should just forsake this friendship lo, the longest i have is only from pri5, and now i heard he's gt into an accident. Maybe u should ask him why he wants to keep out of you fer no reason lo, n i dunt tink its a deception plot set up ten years ago bah, maybe he's just being muddle-headed that time. Haha true friends are really hard to come by, if u two are gonna revive this relationship den u two are really gonna be nan xiong nan di le. All de best buddy!!!
Ps:How come FireIce didnt post anything? -
He blocked you, obviously he doesn't like you.
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I'm also like ur friend..block and delete this person on purpose and also wrote down his hp number but never bother to call or memorise..why?
Answer is simple.
He is not sincere and I don't feel any connection with him. Not even friends. Though he like tried to talk to me all that..jio me out, but I know he don't feel comfortable being with me. I can tell from his expression, his body language. Also, he likes to suan ppl sometimes, can't stand his childish attitude
I did tried to 'feel' if there's any friendship between us..but nah..to no avail. Than sorry, must as well break off all contacts. -
Keep his number.
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Originally posted by ditzy:He blocked you, obviously he doesn't like you.
thats why...then still go ask n 'beg' for explaination..
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yea~~...Originally posted by browniebaobao:what's the point of being frens when he alrd given u up long ago?
i juz take it easy. Ple who dun cherish me, i wun waste my time on them. Coz they are not worth it.
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haiz...until now he no bother to contact me...ya 10 years liao...
nan xiong nan di... like this gone...i used to have another friend. i knew him since we were 4...up till 14 years old...then we lost contact. i remember his name
lie jian an. born on 4 feb...like a xiong di to me. last time always play together. wan dao da de...but lost contact le...i wonder if i have the chance to meet him again in this life time...
i may not seem like it...but i treasure my close friends...up until now...i still wish this incident had not happen...or i didnt know it happen. at least things will not turn out like this.
my xmas wish? to find back my old friend who i knew since 4. and for this guy to still be my friend...
haiz...life...is...cruel... -
But you memorised his home number right? Good, keep it in your head.Originally posted by bladez87:haiz...until now he no bother to contact me...ya 10 years liao...
nan xiong nan di... like this gone...i used to have another friend. i knew him since we were 4...up till 14 years old...then we lost contact. i remember his name
lie jian an. born on 4 feb...like a xiong di to me. last time always play together. wan dao da de...but lost contact le...i wonder if i have the chance to meet him again in this life time...
i may not seem like it...but i treasure my close friends...up until now...i still wish this incident had not happen...or i didnt know it happen. at least things will not turn out like this.
my xmas wish? to find back my old friend who i knew since 4. and for this guy to still be my friend...
haiz...life...is...cruel... -
i memorized his number...i still remember the home number of the 4yo friend. but...his number no longer in service...haiz...
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i'm also the type which treasure brudders alot. brudders > gf. So i suggest make things clear with him....call him. Dun bother about ego.... brothership more important.
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as i have said..give him time to cool down.if u agitate someone,u can't expect him to simmer down immediately and explain matters to u right?Originally posted by bladez87:if someone tell you , lets not talk anymore. break friendship with you. you will no matter what he or she say, still try and find out why right?
why is it that i should go and get him to explain. and not he get me to explain?
like your gf. if she break off with you. dont contact her again.
you readily accept what she say and dont contact meh? will it become a barrier for you to contact meh? you still will call or sms or whatever de right?
however,i've mentioned earlier that i dun rule out the possibility he doesn't wanna be frens.
if he doesn't want to be frens and has no desire to explain matters to u,he alrdy doesn't treat u as a fren.there's thus no reason to probe further and inquire abt the reason why he did all the hurtful things.
let him go.it's the last thing u can do as a fren.forget about him.
as for the sms-ing ur gf part,if she doesn't want to reply,wad can u do?
im not saying u can't sms her to ask her wad had led to the desire of the breakup.
in fact..u should.
however if she doesn't want to reply u,why continue to bother her?
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Originally posted by yuko-ogura:
no la i no gf. i just citing an example of refusal to give up. even if i have offended him, it doesnt explain the block for near 1 year?o well dont want be friends then sua liao lor
as i have said..give him time to cool down.if u agitate someone,u can't expect him to simmer down immediately and explain matters to u right?
however,i've mentioned earlier that i dun rule out the possibility he doesn't wanna be frens.
if he doesn't want to be frens and has no desire to explain matters to u,he alrdy doesn't treat u as a fren.there's thus no reason to probe further and inquire abt the reason why he did all the hurtful things.
let him go.it's the last thing u can do as a fren.forget about him.
as for the sms-ing ur gf part,if she doesn't want to reply,wad can u do?
im not saying u [b]can't sms her to ask her wad had led to the desire of the breakup.
in fact..u should.
however if she doesn't want to reply u,why continue to bother her?
i would think that giving her time to rethink it over and resort her thoughts would be the best solution.
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ya la..heck care him le la...haha..u still got us.
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Yea... after reading the post, i tink many people will feel as if the 'friend' is entirely at wrong. Well to a certain extend, it may be.. But have you ever thought of the reason why he block u and not informed u about any changes of hp no. and stuffs, there must be a reason. A friend is always better than a enemy, everyone does someting for a reason. Try to think abt when he block u and think about wat caused him to block u..
Very true.. I mean, if you're the kind who has always been complaining about minor stuff that caused him to be pissed with you.. I wouldn't be surprised at why he blocked you? Perhaps you do need to reflect upon urself before you blame him completely.. No? =)