any body with sex change here?
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got a friend who is interested in sex change to becum a complete woman...who can advise
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Look for JennTS.
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who is that??Originally posted by ditzy:Look for JennTS. 
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any better advices
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wat makes u think u can actually get better advices in forums?Originally posted by Puremilk28:any better advices -
planning to get my operation done in a few years.Originally posted by Puremilk28:got a friend who is interested in sex change to becum a complete woman...who can advise
what kind of advice do you need for your friend? and is he/she living as a guy or girl now? -
he is a guy now but hopping to change to a gal.... but he noes the operation costs are a bomb....so he is still considering ...Originally posted by JennTS:planning to get my operation done in a few years.
what kind of advice do you need for your friend? and is he/she living as a guy or girl now? -
U can ask jessie*
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did he ever tell you why he wanted to do so? because for me and some other girls i know, we are determined to go for surgery because we cant stand...it. only if hes unhappy with being a guy, then should he consider this.Originally posted by Puremilk28:he is a guy now but hopping to change to a gal.... but he noes the operation costs are a bomb....so he is still considering ...
also please note that the surgery is a very minor part in the entire process. theres still alot to go through before and after surgery. -
he only says that he has a inclination towards being a gal and he adores a womans body and detests a guy's penis.... he was born in a all woman's family maybe thats the case.... he never tells his mum abt his inclination for fear of shocking her and making her sad....Originally posted by JennTS:did he ever tell you why he wanted to do so? because for me and some other girls i know, we are determined to go for surgery because we cant stand...it. only if hes unhappy with being a guy, then should he consider this.
also please note that the surgery is a very minor part in the entire process. theres still alot to go through before and after surgery. -
oh okay...that sounds more likely then.Originally posted by Puremilk28:he only says that he has a inclination towards being a gal and he adores a womans body and detests a guy's penis.... he was born in a all woman's family maybe thats the case.... he never tells his mum abt his inclination for fear of shocking her and making her sad....
i doubt your family background really causes it though. maybe it might explain why you might want to be a girl more, but it doesnt explain your hated for being a guy. also when im out as a guy i just felt such hatred for it, and when i was a girl everything just seemed to fit into place.
you want me to talk to your friend? i could help him...her out. what your friend's age anyway? -
Male to female is relatively easy...Female to male is a surgical challenge
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not totally true
female to male has way higher chances of passing
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Puremilk is JennT's clone?
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actually i posted this topic without his knowledge.... he quite mind that his inclination will attract unwanted jeers and snares.......Originally posted by JennTS:oh okay...that sounds more likely then.
i doubt your family background really causes it though. maybe it might explain why you might want to be a girl more, but it doesnt explain your hated for being a guy. also when im out as a guy i just felt such hatred for it, and when i was a girl everything just seemed to fit into place.
you want me to talk to your friend? i could help him...her out. what your friend's age anyway?
cos one of his close fren big mouth and tell other frens and even admitted to him that he let the cat out of the bag....since then he dun hang out with him anymore.... -
how can he be my clone? he signed up like 8 months before me. okay fine, i'll admit it though, im lene321's clone. that was my first acc, and i typed it anyhow cause i just wanted to ask some stuff here and that was it. but kinda enjoyed fooling around here, so i got a more proper name.
anyway, generally FTMs (female to males) are more accepted than MTFs (male to females), because most people think MTFs are sick perverts or whatever, and also we're more commonly associated with prostitutes and all. most successful MTFs are usually quiet about their past, and FTMs arn't really that common.
for FTMs, its sort of easier to pass (not be found out), because the basic form of humans is female (all fetus are female at the start) and that being male is actually a (mutated) form of being female. so its kinda easier to (mutate) into a male, than to reverse the mutation back to female, which is why generally its easier for FTMs (voice, facial/body hair, etc.). unfortunatly some end up as pretty short guys. that day i was out with 3 trans friends (2 MTFs, one FTM), and the 3 of us were 1.7 - 1.8m tall, and he was only 1.6m tall.
for MTFs, your chances of passing decreases as you grow older. but in my opinion, you should be fine as long as you start transitioning before your 21, or better yet, before you even hit puberty. one of my MTF friends has XXY chromosomes, and testerone doesn't really have much effect on her, so she hardly has any male traits at all, and damn shes really gorgeous.
however the downside is that the surgery for FTMs isnt as good as for MTFs. i don't think they're able to experience a proper errection. MTFs on the other hand, are able to experience orgasms like any other girl.
i started at 15, about 3 years after i hit puberty...and i kinda had a higher amount of testerone in me than the normal male, so i kinda developed more male traits than your average 15 year old male. but i still pass very well. i mean, hey, i get like tons of PMs every week from guys asking to add me.
about your friend, im quite sorry to hear what happened. you have to be careful who you tell these kind of stuff too. in sec school i ran a huge risk, because more than 10 of my schoolmates knew about me. fortunatly they never told anyone, except for one blabbermouth who told his friend that i was having some problems then. but fortunatly i was good friends with him too, and i trust them quite alot. -
ya i am not JennTS's clone.... i just have a fren having a same situation as him....
thats why human's mouths cannot be kept close they will divulge your secrets no matter what hence better to keep mum abt such high sensitive issues..... unless really the bosom fren that you have -
Originally posted by Puremilk28:
her.
ya i am not JennTS's clone.... i just have a fren having a same situation as him....
thats why human's mouths cannot be kept close they will divulge your secrets no matter what hence better to keep mum abt such high sensitive issues..... unless really the bosom fren that you have -
oh sorry got it wrong......Originally posted by JennTS:her. -
passing what? I am talking about the surgical procedure...Originally posted by depressed:not totally true
female to male has way higher chances of passing
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however the downside is that the surgery for FTMs isnt as good as for MTFs. i don't think they're able to experience a proper errection.
Ya...that's what I meant...the genitalia is purely cosmetic, not really functional -
wow so profound how do you noe of such profound things you must have read a lot of medical books or is a doc yourselfOriginally posted by oxford mushroom:Ya...that's what I meant...the genitalia is purely cosmetic, not really functional -
err i read up about sex change (male to female) b4 in a mag...
they will cut off the penis and dig a cavity to serve as a vigina...
but there are two kinds of operations.
a more risky one enables the patient to enjoy sex while the other makes sex distasteful.
the former is enabled by removing a lump of sensitive tissue from the tip of the severed penis and attaching it to the roof of the canal to serve as a clitoris.
other customisations which this more risky (and expensive) operation has to offer include well-defined viginal lips and more sensitive spots (by attatching bits of the severed penis to various parts of the canal)
those who opt for the cheaper but less risky and expensive option will no longer experience orgasms (although the canal/artificial vigina is constructed) as no sensitive areas exist any longer. -
think i must dissuade my fren from going for a secx change the operation seems so gross and a lot of risk is sure involved....Originally posted by matrixeg:err i read up about sex change (male to female) b4 in a mag...
they will cut off the penis and dig a cavity to serve as a vigina...
but there are two kinds of operations.
a more risky one enables the patient to enjoy sex while the other makes sex distasteful.
the former is enabled by removing a lump of sensitive tissue from the tip of the severed penis and attaching it to the roof of the canal to serve as a clitoris.
other customisations which this more risky (and expensive) operation has to offer include well-defined viginal lips and more sensitive spots (by attatching bits of the severed penis to various parts of the canal)
those who opt for the cheaper but less risky and expensive option will no longer experience orgasms (although the canal/artificial vigina is constructed) as no sensitive areas exist any longer.